Do you have any haters or enemies?

Question

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Half of this entire site hates me. And I am perfectly fine with that!

As for real life? True story, I had a new real-life enemy, every single year, from about 2007 up until like 2018 or so. Really; either a former friend who became an enemy, a co-worker, or someone who just f*cked around and "found out." And when I say "enemy," I mean someone who's life I'd have no problem destroying. True blood-feud enemies. One every year, for like ten+ years.

And I NEVER lost any of those battles, either. I won't reveal my secret, but let's just say 99% of you wouldn't believe me if I did reveal the secrets of the universe to you (PM me if you're really super curious.) And the other half of it being someone who has nothing to lose and no loved ones to worry about, which certainly describes me to a T. But yeah, I got my vengeance on all of them.

But yeah, in 2019, I decided that I didn't want to end up a bitter old man, so I stopped embracing the "Dark Side" and tried being more positive in life. I've been doing that, since then. How's it going? Meh... I guess I need to give it more time, as having no IRL enemies is something I could also get used to.

JamesDiaz11 · Accepted Answer

Yep- there are at least two girls who are actively against me. One was a girl who I dated casually for a few weeks, took her virginity (I didn't know she was until after we did), and then went back to ex girlfriend; so, friendzoned her. The other one I had as a side chick while I had a main girlfriend- we just had a lot of sex (but I did take her out to eat, and on trips).

In neither of these cases did I abuse them, and I treated them like they were my girlfriends- this is probably the cause of the anger, but they've since bashed me to my girlfriend (now ex girlfriend), reached out to friends of friends to badmouth me and get me uninvited from events (e. g. a wedding), complained to get me removed from a panel discussion at a university, and have done god knows what else YEARS after I talked to them.

Apparently, I made an impact.

Smc08 · Accepted Answer

Yeah… but only when it comes to playing pool I think. People get pretty competitive and like to trash talk. Then we have to play to settle who’s better. This usually works but then every now and then you come across a sore loser who wants to fight you for real because they lost. But they’re usually drunk if it’s that extreme and want to fight the guy I’m with because I’m a girl. And people wonder why I hardly gamble. I’ve made best friends and worst enemies playing this game.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I've had enemies ever since I was 9 years old and that did not ever change but in my mid 20s I had fewer enemies for a short while. People don't attack me because I'm bad, they attack me because I'm different and sometimes they don't trust me cause they can't relate to me.

whereismyjohnny · Answer

It's me. I'm my own worst enemy. I have no idea, actually. Maybe? I'm more focused on good people in my life.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Got a few on this site that I consider enemies and those that block me are mine as well.

Had only three in my actual life, but I am not counting bullies that fucked with me growing up. Bested them all.

dustybiker · Answer

Yes. You’ll find a lot of people like to act the ass and then not back down when confronted. They really hate when leashed about it, too. I don’t like bullies. I don’t care if they dislike me.

Blackcupcake · Answer

not sure, I only focus on the people with good energy around me

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I have quite a few. I usually hate them back.

Blackmoonsns · Answer

Tons but when you have haters it's a good thing because if they're not hating I'm not doing something right.

Sour-rose · Answer

Duh. Can you read my name? I didn't become sour just because I stepped in dog shi

sheikalana · Answer

I might have some haters or jealous people who envy me but I don't really know who they are. I don't have any enemies that I know of.

HighValue · Answer

As a straight White Christian man living in California USA, what do you think?

AdithyaR · Answer

Probably, pretty sure there'd be someone out there who hates me. Maybe i deserve it maybe I don't. No point fixating on that.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

Yes I do and it's definitely not from real life

Jccowen77 · Answer

Not anymore. When I was younger yeah but both myself and the enemies I had are too old now to give a fuck about our grudges.

Tracker1958 · Answer

The more people that you can get to hate you, they never come to you for any favors. This is the mind set you need to have.

Wiredone · Answer

I might but I don't really care. I only care about the people who are positive and nurturing

Anonymous · Answer

Yep. Quite a few people don't like me because of a lie my ex made up about me. It doesn't bother me anymore, though.

Anonymous · Answer

They're many. These plonkers. Fortunately meeting friendlies happens more often.

LavLavLuv · Answer

I don't know.. probably?

NathanDavis · Answer

now, I do, unfortunately

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Not that I know of.

Nikki1989 · Answer

A few haters, but mostly online.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

O yes of course, but everyone does I thin

Akam93 · Answer

I'm pretty sure everyone does.

thegooglepixelfan · Answer

Yes, I got a lot of online haters.

Fuentes · Answer

I got all & I want all the SMOKE with ALL

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

Oh yeah.. a lot''..

CA4444 · Answer

Not really

superderpy250 · Answer

Mostly haters I’d say

trina_x · Answer

yes i have a few

Tina19 · Answer

Yes i do

msc545 · Answer

On here? yep!

LenaBanana · Answer

No I don’t hate...

Do you have any haters or enemies?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Do you have any haters or enemies?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.