Do you remember the first argument you ever had? Do you remember who it was with or what it was about?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

[Lliam]

I don't know if this would be considered an argument because I was too young to do more than protest.

It was my protest to being forced to take naps when I was very young. My mom had the idea that naps were mandatory and, despite my protests, would put me in my bed at a certain time each day. I would get up, scream and cry, but I was too little to open the door.
It filled me with rage. I can still feel it when I think about it.
There was no discussion. It made me feel like an pet or an object instead of a human being with thoughts and feelings.

I remember one time when my dad was going out to cut the lawn and I wanted to help, but my mom insisted that it was nap time. I opened a window, crawled onto a decorative ledge and climbed down. I went out to accompany my dad who was unaware that I was supposed to be napping. When my mom finally noticed me, she came out, scolded me, grabbed me and put me back in my room.
I was maybe 4 or 5 years old at that time.

I think her good-intentioned behavior effected my psyche for the rest of my life. It created a conflict between love and hatred. Also, it created a distrust and resentment of authority.

My mom was my best friend all my life, but the scars still remained.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I think all parents forced nap time back then. My grandparents did too when we stayed the summer in North Carolina with them when I was 4

[Lliam]

Yeah. I think they were following "the science" of child rearing.

[Finchie40]

No, but I remember most of the arguments I had with my Bi polar PTSD Ex That I am grateful is no longer my problem , she loved pushing my buttons like she got off on it , I notice most Girls have to argue , like it’s part of how their brain works and their hormones , I usually don’t like arguing with anyone, it’s like ok you don’t agree with me , that’s fine, so Let me hear the reason you don’t agree with me , without you screaming , for me to get really mad , someone has to really push my buttons to full extreme , It slowly builds up and once it hits the top then I will explode, But for the most part I am usually not one to argue about things. I might get upset about things sometimes but it doesn’t last very long, Girls on the other hand , hold this evil grudge like they want to rip your head off lol

[Msputiton]

Yes i do.

I was like 4. And aruged with my babysitter at the time because i did not like that my momma was not gonna be home to take care of me.

My momma just started her new job, and i told her she did not know how to cook my food like my momma, and wasn't gonna be able to do my hair like my momma, and i wasn't havin non of this, and that she needed to go to do my momma's job so she could be home to cook for me

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I remember that I was going through early teen blues and my mom somehow couldn't stand my attitude back then.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I think all teens argue with their parents at some point

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Compared to how my brothers argued with our dad, my mom & I were "tame" by comparison.

[MemeSupreme]

pretty sure my first major one (any mild ones i can't remember in order rn) was when my step-dad had just moved in when was i 6. he had changed a lot of things about the household. it used to be very carefree and pretty negflectful, but his VERY strict parenting style angered me a lot as a child although i learned quickly to not talk back to him

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Do you get along with him now?

[MemeSupreme]

no, he's not the best person, but thanks for asking, though. what was your first argument you can remember?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I probably came out of the womb arguing 🤣 jk I think the first I remember was with a boy across the street who said all girls were stupid and whatever else he said about girls

[douride2]

I have a difficult time remembering when & who my last disagreement was with. Remembering my first argument would be next to impossible.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I hear yah lol hell I have trouble remembering what I went into a room for 🤣

[douride2]

I see I am not the only one that has this issue eh?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Nope lol

[Anonymous]

Don't remember why but a friend from kindergarten and I started fighting. He bit my cheek and I changed kindergarten because of this. Many years later I met him again and not remember what he did, he told me he used to bite girls he liked. It was a weird interaction. We haven't spoken since.

[Fuentes]

I have a great memory but I drew up blank here, but I think my first argument was with a Swan here when I was three it charged me n bite my hand cause I was to close to its babies but all I was doing was feeding ducks with bread. Swans traumatized me cause when I'l get drunk, and around ducks I want all the smoke.

[Msputiton]

Aww.

[Heolurt]

Simple, it was a sibling, and they were saying that I wasn't wanted as a baby and when I told my mom, I was the one sent to my room. I learned real fast that the best way to get them to stop picking on me was to just agree with all the things they said.

[humanearth]

No I don't remember, but it was most likely me telling my mom no when she asked me to do something and I got a whopping

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I bet you did lol

[humanearth]

Sometimes I was a brat

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

😁😂

[exitseven]

I have a twin brother. We had an argument in the womb about who was going to come out first. We flipped a coin and I won

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

😂 are you identical or fraternal twins?

[exitseven]

Fraternal. There is only one Exitseven

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Is that a good thing or bad thing 🤔😁🤣

[exitseven]

Too much of a good thing can be bad.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

😂😂 well played lol

[exitseven]

😊😊😊😊😊

[NostalgiaSenpi]

The first argument I remember was over the color of a bucket with a girl named Lindsey when I was four and she five.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Who won? lol

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I don't remember. I think she threw a mudball at me, lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

😂😂

[AdithyaR]

It was when I was in first grade when me and my friends were pretending to be Harry Potter characters and were arguing over who'd be Harry.
Eventually I let him cause I took a second to think and felt Voldemort was cooler.

[najekim]

Arguing with my mom that I was still 2 years old on my third birthday. Actually my earliest memory from childhood.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

You didn’t want to get old😁🤣

[FinalFantasyBro]

I remember I had an argument with another guy at school growing up to the point I ended up beating him with a hard cover text book and yes I did get detention from that

[NathanDavis]

yes... with my grandpa's dog

we both wanted the same spot under the big ol' tree...

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I was age 10 and was watching WWF Wrestling and got into an argument with my dad over wrestling on TV, it was so crazy.

[Freyke]

Vividly but don't want to get into detail. It was the start of many.

[Massageman]

Probably my parents about doing something I wanted to do and they didn't. just a guess.

[LemiaOfThunder]

With my first girlfriend yes it was about baby sitting.

[the_sinner]

Most probably with one of my family members when I was little. I’d rather not remember what it was about.

[Alex8736]

i wouldn't say argument but my first difference of opinion was with one of my former supervisors

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I don’t but I remember the first time I saw a creature with no skin. I don’t remember feeling scared or anything, I don’t even know if I was self aware but if I can remember that far back then I must have been so what.

[Nominal]

Kinda remember, but its just stupid, its not how į deal with people jn the first place.