Do you remember the first argument you ever had? Do you remember who it was with or what it was about?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

I don't know if this would be considered an argument because I was too young to do more than protest.

It was my protest to being forced to take naps when I was very young. My mom had the idea that naps were mandatory and, despite my protests, would put me in my bed at a certain time each day. I would get up, scream and cry, but I was too little to open the door.
It filled me with rage. I can still feel it when I think about it.
There was no discussion. It made me feel like an pet or an object instead of a human being with thoughts and feelings.

I remember one time when my dad was going out to cut the lawn and I wanted to help, but my mom insisted that it was nap time. I opened a window, crawled onto a decorative ledge and climbed down. I went out to accompany my dad who was unaware that I was supposed to be napping. When my mom finally noticed me, she came out, scolded me, grabbed me and put me back in my room.
I was maybe 4 or 5 years old at that time.

I think her good-intentioned behavior effected my psyche for the rest of my life. It created a conflict between love and hatred. Also, it created a distrust and resentment of authority.

My mom was my best friend all my life, but the scars still remained.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

No, but I remember most of the arguments I had with my Bi polar PTSD Ex That I am grateful is no longer my problem , she loved pushing my buttons like she got off on it , I notice most Girls have to argue , like it’s part of how their brain works and their hormones , I usually don’t like arguing with anyone, it’s like ok you don’t agree with me , that’s fine, so Let me hear the reason you don’t agree with me , without you screaming , for me to get really mad , someone has to really push my buttons to full extreme , It slowly builds up and once it hits the top then I will explode, But for the most part I am usually not one to argue about things. I might get upset about things sometimes but it doesn’t last very long, Girls on the other hand , hold this evil grudge like they want to rip your head off lol

Msputiton · Accepted Answer

Yes i do.

I was like 4. And aruged with my babysitter at the time because i did not like that my momma was not gonna be home to take care of me.

My momma just started her new job, and i told her she did not know how to cook my food like my momma, and wasn't gonna be able to do my hair like my momma, and i wasn't havin non of this, and that she needed to go to do my momma's job so she could be home to cook for me

DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

I remember that I was going through early teen blues and my mom somehow couldn't stand my attitude back then.

MemeSupreme · Answer

pretty sure my first major one (any mild ones i can't remember in order rn) was when my step-dad had just moved in when was i 6. he had changed a lot of things about the household. it used to be very carefree and pretty negflectful, but his VERY strict parenting style angered me a lot as a child although i learned quickly to not talk back to him

Anonymous · Answer

Don't remember why but a friend from kindergarten and I started fighting. He bit my cheek and I changed kindergarten because of this. Many years later I met him again and not remember what he did, he told me he used to bite girls he liked. It was a weird interaction. We haven't spoken since.

Fuentes · Answer

I have a great memory but I drew up blank here, but I think my first argument was with a Swan here when I was three it charged me n bite my hand cause I was to close to its babies but all I was doing was feeding ducks with bread. Swans traumatized me cause when I'l get drunk, and around ducks I want all the smoke.

douride2 · Answer

I have a difficult time remembering when & who my last disagreement was with. Remembering my first argument would be next to impossible.

Heolurt · Answer

Simple, it was a sibling, and they were saying that I wasn't wanted as a baby and when I told my mom, I was the one sent to my room. I learned real fast that the best way to get them to stop picking on me was to just agree with all the things they said.

humanearth · Answer

No I don't remember, but it was most likely me telling my mom no when she asked me to do something and I got a whopping

exitseven · Answer

I have a twin brother. We had an argument in the womb about who was going to come out first. We flipped a coin and I won

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

The first argument I remember was over the color of a bucket with a girl named Lindsey when I was four and she five.

AdithyaR · Answer

It was when I was in first grade when me and my friends were pretending to be Harry Potter characters and were arguing over who'd be Harry.
Eventually I let him cause I took a second to think and felt Voldemort was cooler.

najekim · Answer

Arguing with my mom that I was still 2 years old on my third birthday. Actually my earliest memory from childhood.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I remember I had an argument with another guy at school growing up to the point I ended up beating him with a hard cover text book and yes I did get detention from that

NathanDavis · Answer

yes... with my grandpa's dog we both wanted the same spot under the big ol' tree...

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I was age 10 and was watching WWF Wrestling and got into an argument with my dad over wrestling on TV, it was so crazy.

Freyke · Answer

Vividly but don't want to get into detail. It was the start of many.

Massageman · Answer

Probably my parents about doing something I wanted to do and they didn't. just a guess.

LemiaOfThunder · Answer

With my first girlfriend yes it was about baby sitting.

the_sinner · Answer

Most probably with one of my family members when I was little. I’d rather not remember what it was about.

Alex8736 · Answer

i wouldn't say argument but my first difference of opinion was with one of my former supervisors

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

I don’t but I remember the first time I saw a creature with no skin. I don’t remember feeling scared or anything, I don’t even know if I was self aware but if I can remember that far back then I must have been so what.

Nominal · Answer

Kinda remember, but its just stupid, its not how į deal with people jn the first place.

Do you remember the first argument you ever had? Do you remember who it was with or what it was about?

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