When was the last time you lost an argument?

[Spongebobssocks]

Mine was arguing against myself in the shower. I lost...

Recently

Me? I've never lost an argument!

I never have arguments:)

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Seeing the results it seams like women have a harder time seeing reality than men

[Genie23]

Few days ago. I realized I misunderstood and reacted over something so little. I do have a tendency to overthink sometimes when I'm going through a tough time. My friend didn't want me to apologise though because he's that nice. I still felt bad, so I apologised. It's very rare that someone can prove me wrong. He's one of the very, very few people who did, lol.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright I see. Do you have feelings for him?

[Genie23]

I have a soft corner for him because we are close friends. That's all. 🥺

[Genie23]

😅**

[Spongebobssocks]

Okay I see.. Just seams like you like him a bit more than you wanna admit:)

[Genie23]

You seem to know me too well, lol. 🙃

[Spongebobssocks]

Just could tell by the way you wrote. I think you should tell him. I know its scary but you deserve to know. I think he likes you. You could evan text him but if I were you I'd put it out there

[jennifer_bloom]

Earlier this week my mom said it was raining and I argued with her saying there was no rain and she argued back saying there was rain and later I saw tiny drops of water on the window sill. It was very small and I did not notice it at first.

[Spongebobssocks]

I see!:)

[CaptainOverthink]

Often.
Best guarantee to win against me is just to wait until the suger drops, like just before I get hungry. Then I get illogical, negative and paranoid honestly. Then my friends gets mad and I realize I am the bad guy again. Then it's just time to either get some food or become the quiet type.

[Spongebobssocks]

Alright. Sorry about that.

[CaptainOverthink]

Sorry about what? 🤔

[CaptainOverthink]

If I took better care of myself this wouldn't happen. It's all on me🤓.

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah I know but overthinking is a pain in the ass. Its not easy always

[CaptainOverthink]

No, you're right, it's really hard.
But really, if anyone is to be able to be self-aware, the overthinker probably is.

It helps to remind oneself that we are not our thoughts but our actions. Our minds run like water anyhow.

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah thats true. Usually people with higher iq overthinks more. A tip! When you sleep always have some show on in the background on a low volume. Then you won't hear your own thoughts as much

[CaptainOverthink]

Thanks. But I usually just twist my thoughts into dreams before falling asleep. Just start fantasizing some longer scenario I like and just fade into it.
Not fighting the thoughts, just lean into them.

Never thought about why people did that though. I guess it would work too. I always did annoy myself with peoole doing that though, felt engaged I guess.

[Spongebobssocks]

Oh okay, well I wish you the best!

[CaptainOverthink]

And I you.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thankyou!:)

[OddBeMe]

I’m married.

[spartan55]

Say no more sir, we know the score.

[Spongebobssocks]

🤣🤣🤣

[Genie23]

LMHO!!!

[OddBeMe]

Good sex tho.

[FreyaRed]

My mom few weeks ago. She is evil and she can handle to be defeated. If she loses logical argumentation she starts to play unfair and goes the way of escalation that could destroys any relation between us. She thinks I'm afraid to challenge her that way. I will burn all bridges behind me if this benefits me, not if it's just a balsam for my sick ego.

[Spongebobssocks]

Good! My mom has npd so I can relate. You gotta do what you gotta do. Wish you the best!🙏🏻

[Reem12345reem]

I usually give or lose or end up angry on the inside or cry , the people I argue with are toxic , they'll always find a way to blame even tho it's their fault and whenever I start winning the argument or whenever they feel they're losing they start verbally abusing me or physically

[TrueConfection]

I voted "recently". I can't recall the last disagreement, but I always surrender (right or wrong) because I hate arguing so much.

[Spongebobssocks]

Same! XD

[Mimi_758]

I always win argument but i dont get into them too much so that is grate but when i do it's always a win for me :)

[Spongebobssocks]

Hahahah :))) sure.. thanks for sharing😉

[Anonymous]

The best way to never lose an argument is to never argue unless you're 100% sure you're right. Arguing over differing opinions is futile and I don't understand why people waste their time doing it

[Spongebobssocks]

Yeah I agree. I ignore drama as much as possible. Evan today I was working with a difficult collegue and I just ignored her mean comments and continued. Its not worth the energy

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly. They're just looking for it too

[Spongebobssocks]

yup. just found out imma work with her 12 h tomorrow..

[Opinion Owner]

Oh my God lol. That sucks

[Spongebobssocks]

yup😂😩😑 but its cool.. its just one day and the money is important.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah for real. I don't even talk to my coworkers lol. Even though I like most of them

[Spongebobssocks]

i understand you 100%. i act like im shy thats what they think but i just dont wanna waste my energy. Sometimes I evan make small lies to ignore a topic. I have my 3 close friends. I dont really need any more.

I have to talk to my coworkers sometimes cause I work as a personal assistent so we are two assistants most of the time and I'm new so.. yeah

So lucky you are not needing to talk to your coworkers😩😔

[Opinion Owner]

Lol, sometimes I have to. But you and I are very much alike in that way

[Spongebobssocks]

yeah just gotta control it.. can't have a George Constanza situation😂

[Opinion Owner]

Lol! He's my spirit animal

[Spongebobssocks]

Same! My best friend says I'm a female George!

[Opinion Owner]

😂 right on. Never change

[Spongebobssocks]

Never will! Dont changer either!😂😁

[Spongebobssocks]

*change

[Opinion Owner]

Me either!

[Opinion Owner]

Even if I could lol

[Spongebobssocks]

Same😂👍🏻

[Opinion Owner]

😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the non-MHO!

[Spongebobssocks]

Sorry! Your answer was good too I just wanted to make sure both a man and a woman get one.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol! I'm totally kidding. You chose right

[Opinion Owner]

You're sweet though. Most people would've told to go fuck myself

[Spongebobssocks]

Awwe thankyou! You'd deserve it though. You seam nice too:)

[Opinion Owner]

That's nice of you to say.
Keep being awesome 😉

[Spongebobssocks]

Thank you, you too!

[Opinion Owner]

😊..

[OfMiceandMen]

In my opinion, no one loses for wins in an argument. You both say stupid things that you live to regret.

Not into the whole argument thing, if we can't talk like civilized people and work it out, then she would have the problem not me.

Some people thrive on the drama of scrapping all the time, I just find it waste of energy.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

It was very recent and on very technical subject. I do that a lot though since I like to challenge the norms and conventions a lot. But I need to have other people to tell me it's probably not a good idea. Then I try it and I realize what they said was true. That said, while this is the case 99% of the time, every now and then I try something and I win major award because it actually works. It's rare but I built my career around this way.

[spartan55]

What a surprise most of the pink users never think they lose. 😂

[Spongebobssocks]

Yup!😁🤣🤣 its a RED FLAG

[Siri137]

Ahahaha!!! Me? Lose an argument? Never!

[Spongebobssocks]

🤣🤣

[Gingerbread_GB]

I lose an argument and got 3 years in prison. 🤣🤣

jk.

[Spongebobssocks]

Wowwww😀🤣😅

[Christoff92]

Every single day 😀

[Spongebobssocks]

🤗🤗

[GreekLorrd]

We just had an argument with my cat.. She ate my lasagna.. But of course she won the argument :D

[Pudsmucker]

I always lose.

[Spongebobssocks]

😔😔🙏🏻

[LavLavLuv]

Nah i always keep it a W

[Spongebobssocks]

😂😂

[Jerre]

I cannot remember the last time I had an argument

[Spongebobssocks]

Nice!

[Jerre]

Thank you for the Like

[najekim]

Never argue. Always debate.

[LiamJHayden]

Probably yesterday at some point.

[Snedger____]

Are you okay

[Spongebobssocks]

Why?😂