its scheduled to go through 5 or 6 different bars on Saturday night , thing is one of them i used to go to a lot but for some reason this February i went there one night than when i tried to go back the next week they wouldn't let me in and i haven't been back since. few reasons were ever given by staff other than something happened the week before. but i don't recall anything much , i bought 2 different girls drinks both much younger than me and talked to 1 other girl , also everyone was annoyed with coat check as it took half an hour and had 1 girl running it , was hundreds in there so a disaster line up
my group is only scheduled to be in it for 30 minutes before it goes to the main venue for remainder of the night so not sure what to do. if i should just try and get in like normal and see if the boucners say anything to me or just disappear for half an hour and re group with everyone at the other bar. it be so embarrassing if they don't let me in and this happens infront of the group i've spent the crawl with
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have you tried contacting that bar, while they are not in the middle of normally busy times and talking to them calmly (incase there was an issue of umcalm talking involved before) and actually find out why the denied entry? could be spmething on you, a mistaken identity, or even something that happened on a previous visit that has little to nothing to do with you. could be, if sometging that is on you (you said, did, misbehaved, were accused of, etc) but you can clear up now or could be something that could pevent your whole group from getting entry (depending on what ever may be the cause, especially if its something on you) .
for all we know about you and this situation, you could have simply stepped on the tie/shoe of some VIP, been accused but turned out wasn't you, up to something like took someone into, lets say, a bathroom and raped or some such and the only reason the bar didn't turn it over to police is they dont want the hassles of paperwork or they have something going on where they dont want cops involved. i mean we have little idea of what kind of bar it is too. could be a very legit place or up to an organised crime front.
i haven't had any contact with anyone from that bar since the night in Feb when i was denied entry. its a country type bar , very busy on Saturday night.
not sure what the exact issue is or what i was being accused of , as mentioned i bought some girls drinks but both were totally consentual and ok with me doing so. one was young and new to the bar but she seemed ok and enjoyed the attention
won't deny entry to the group its a well advertised ticketed event , little chance the whole group gets rejected because of me
Just let your friends know, and meet them at the next bar.
i'm going to mention it to them before , obviously so its not a total surprise if i don't get in or some other issue arises there. its also possible my group gets let in the bar as i think we by pass the line and no cover but get told to leave later on if the same bouncer who denied me entry last time sees me in the bar , i need like a bunny mask or something
The mask is a good idea, lol. If they ask, just say its a bet you lost.
i don't have a mask though , everyone in group has the same t shirt though so will blend in more than normal
Bummer.
is no issue getting in the other bars , was in 2 of them last Saturday briefly to check them out in advance of the bar crawl and no issues getting in , never been in the other 2 so can't see why i wouldn't get in them right? , 1 is some odd lounge type bar which is only open a couple days a week or for special books so never been there before , other a trendy nightclub with a younger vibe so never been there but have meet people who go there as some were staff at other places i went to but they like to party there
i don't even know where you'd buy one either , i go to a lot of thrift stores and can't even recall seeing one there
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