What's something someone can do that you like?

[MementoMori777]

I like when women wear oversized hoodies or boxer briefs, I just like it heavy, it makes em look adorable, more than they already are of course, so what's are some use mine as an example, what y'all like that someone you are attracted to can do that you like?

[Apulu_Imback]

About opposite gender? I would love it if the guy is an expert in some field in music. Piano, violin, cello, vocals, etc. Don't get me started about my brain which has a different fangirl side for guys who can write poems! Actually, for impressing me, the guy should be expert in some sort of art. Music, painting, dancing, acting, fashion designing, anything. This is a strict point. Someone who is willing to hear all my broken piano composition and incomplete stories and give honest opinion about them. And if it's for short term thing then they can that cook me a meal occasionally, I like eating food hehe.

[MementoMori777]

That short term mentality won't get you anywhere, even if It gets you some tasty food lol

But a musician does seem like a perfect match for you, y'all can play something together and be chillin lol

[Apulu_Imback]

"That short term mentality won't get you anywhere, even if It gets you some tasty food lol"

What else do I want anyways? Lol

Yeah! I want someone who shares the same interest with me!

[MementoMori777]

You want a relationship that will last life long, not temporary but whatever floats your boat lol

You'll find someone rushing it won't help, if anything it might make it worse

[Apulu_Imback]

That's why I say, I'm not interested in relationships. I'll either not find a good guy for me and if I did then it won't last long considering my personality. I'm just that kind of lady who can comfortably die near a fireplace with a black cat on her lap and eerie silence engulfed around.

[MementoMori777]

Shouldn't be thinking that way but I guess I could see where it's coming from

[Apulu_Imback]

Yeah, a lone bird lol.

[MementoMori777]

At 14 tho, that seems somewhat unhealthy lol

[Apulu_Imback]

Unhealthy? We were born alone and we die alone. But no one needs to be in a relationship in 14 anyways, that's too young. It's the time for setting yourself for career. I'll seriously think about relationships when I start earning my own money and I'm independent.

[MementoMori777]

Career won't make you happy, look at the dead look in all the celebrities, they look empty, dating young isn't what I was talking about, thinking like a lonely wolf at 14 is, by the time you are an adult you will adjust to a stronger lone wolf mentality and you'll miss your opportunities of love, and not experiencing love will create a different lifestyle because since you've never experienced it, you'll never want to experience it or won't care if you don't and that's why I see it as unhealthy, I don't doubt you'll reach your goals but that shouldn't be your only focus because that's not where you'll find happiness, that happiness will only be temporary.

[MementoMori777]

There's a difference between not focusing on love mentality and a lone wolf mentality because lone wolf is an acceptance to being alone and that shit only brings misery because at some point you'll do your career so much you'll lose love for it as well leaving you with absolutely nothing

[Apulu_Imback]

There are no decent guys around me to try on, only roadside romeos. But don't worry, I still crush on the novel main leads and anime characters, lol. If that's the way you look career as. I look at it in a different perspective, very different from yours but I accept your perspective too. Yes there is a dead look on celebrities, because they have people checking on their personal life which is of course too much for any normal being who wants a healthy amount of privacy. They have a hard owned fame which can crush any moment for their personal life which doesn't have any connection with their professional life, it's unfair for them.

[MementoMori777]

Crushing won't get you as far as you believe but I must have a different perspective on careers cause you will get used to it and become numb to it, is what I believe and after that it won't bring happiness like it did before, that all depends on the person tho I assume lol

[Apulu_Imback]

Yeah, depends on the person. I never got so much joy ever in my life like I did during music rehearsals for closing ceremony of school Olympics. It's not simply career for me, it's passion. I don't know anything about relationships and stuff, I'm not even a girlfriend material. Literally a tomboy and the guys around me are, well can't describe them lol. Their bullies, or arrogant or roadside romeos.

[Apulu_Imback]

*they're

[MementoMori777]

I understand that but in 40 years from now you think you'll have the same passion for music as you do now?

[Apulu_Imback]

Yeah I'll. I'm sure. It's been a little over 12 years since I have been passionate for music. You know, I used to sing a lot when I started speaking. If an alcoholic can love Alcohol forever then a musician can love music forever too. It's like my alcohol, my addiction and love.

[MementoMori777]

I really hope that's how it goes, I have hope you'll make it far in the music industry, just don't sell your soul lol

[Apulu_Imback]

No I won't lol.

[es_annie]

I like it when he wears cologne, neither too little or too much. When he smells nice that’s attractive to me.

[MementoMori777]

Understandable but how you know someone got too much, how many sprays would you guess too much is? Lol

[es_annie]

There are people out there the moment they pass by the smell is so strong it gives me a headache

[MementoMori777]

Well if it smacks the way you are saying it's completely understandable 🤣

[Sonorous]

Disagree with me in a civilized way that invites debate.

[MementoMori777]

So girls that can have debateful discussions, interesting

[Sonorous]

Yeah, everyone can. 🤣

[convo_king89]

One of my turn ons is to see a girl in regular panties.

[MementoMori777]

Fair enough.

[Capricornunicorn92]

I like boxer briefs on the guy that I like

[MementoMori777]

Seems legit lol

[Likes2drive]

When she wears my shirt

[MementoMori777]

That's a good one too bro