Is blocking and ghosting ok as soon as men start with cyber sex and nonsense?

[Anonymous]

I don't give out any explanation anymore. I'm very clear in what I want when texting.

As soon as they start focusing on just sex talk and positions or some imaginary nonsense (ex: someone that said he can't ever travel but tries to BS about the beauty of a LDR, lovebomb me and says we can always live with fantasies), bang... it's an immediate ghosting and blocking.

I've been ghosted before too for being serious and I'm copying that trend now towards those into only fantasy and sex.

Updates

+1 y

If I'm looking for something serious, only had one partner in my life and obviously having bad luck why the well would sex with the first thing in mind? Why the hell would I want to get naked on cam with a total stranger I never even met in person?

[beautyjoyfover200]

He talked shit about my queen Lana!!! That would've lost all my respect, block and report!!! LOL


But on a serious note yeah it’s annoying I don’t care anymore I’ll ghost/block you real quick when you’ve clearly been told multiple time how I feel about something and still do it.


Plus got to think this way… do you think guys care when they block or ghost girls? … nope!! … I thought so.

[Asker]

Exactly. Guys don't care when they do the ghosting and blocking either. I got ghosted for following up a normal conversation about my working routine or asking a simple "how old are you" question. I don't care anymore.

[Anonymous]

It’s not a trend, it’s just self-respect and maturity. When you’re just starting out with a guy, you don’t owe him and explanation and goodbye. If he’s deserving of it then sure, of course, go for it. But if he can’t get a few words into the convo without talking about sexual things then you know he is not serious. Only a silly girl with fantastical dreams and loneliness will continue on with that.

[Asker]

Exactly. I used to be nicer and would even tell them to stop or else I'll block them. Not anymore. I don't care anymore.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s even worse when you give them benefit of the doubt and waste time to clarify your boundaries, only for them to stop for all of 5 mins before trying again. It’s ridiculous.

[honestanswersonly_]

Yea block.

[honestanswersonly_]

Yea jus seen your update. Block him.

[Asker]

Thanks. I don't care about being nice anymore. I used to give out explanation and even warn them to stop. Not anymore.

[honestanswersonly_]

When or if you meet the right pen pal
You will no 👍🏻

[Asker]

Exactly. I'm still looking for a marriage-minded man. It'll be hard since many either want hook-ups or just a girlfriend. Hopefully I find my life partner.

[honestanswersonly_]

I hear ya totally.

[honestanswersonly_]

You ok tho?

[Asker]

Yeah I'm ok. I'll just take time to find him.

[honestanswersonly_]

Yes maam

[Jamie05rhs]

You are 100% correct!

[gothbxtch]

of course! i block people left and right tbh

[gothbxtch]

if you don’t feel comdy? block block block away