Yes, you are fine continuing to talk to all of them. As you said, the key is that "no relationship has been defined." Meaning, you have made no commitments to any of them with regards to exclusivity. You don't owe it to any of these guys to be exclusive. So you are 100% good-to-go.
When looking at questions of appropriate behavior in the context of sex/relationships/dating... here's the main way to evaluate whatever the question may be:
Almost always the key concept to look at is "DECEPTION"
If you are deceiving someone (if for example a guy think you're only seeing them, when you're talking to other guys) then what you're doing is wrong.
If however, nobody is being deceived about anything... whatever you're doing is just fine.
So go ahead and cheat on your wife... if you've talked to your wife about it beforehand. In that case, nobody is being deceived, and the behavior is fine.
It's deception that's usually the key. 🙂
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Sure if they know what's going on too and they don't think of it as a relationship.
Otherwise you would just be stringing them along.
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If you aren't in a relationship or in an open one it is okay. What is NBSB?
Why wpuldnt it be OK
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