But I don't want to give away my personality, who is very strong for anyone, it's "take me as I am" thing!
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+1 yI disagree.
A woman that is a tomboy would actually have more in common that a very feminine woman.
Honestly, a very feminine woman might catch a man’s eye easier but that’s just a sexual animal attraction. Once past that, we might not be happy of our choice. I think you have more to offer in the long term. The trick will be getting past the first “attraction phase”.
I have some ideas if you want me to elaborate.34 Reply
Asker+1 yGood but all solutions would be up to me to sacrifice my personality, my lifestyle, my way of dressing, which is of course out of the question. I’m just being myself.
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I don’t think so.
I don’t know what makes you a tomboy so this is just an Example:
Online dating…. Woman who loves fishing, camping and the great outdoors. Am equally happy drinking some beer and watching football on a Sunday afternoon.
I don’t know what makes you a tomboy but this ad would catch my attention. I would ask if it’s ok if I didn’t watch football with you.
You need to sell yourself (as you are) to men by showing them you would be fun to be with.
Asker+1 yWhat makes me a tomboy :
- wearing jeans, tights, not dresses (but I don't wear baggy tracksuits)
- wearing hoodies and baskets, not heels
- wearing black cap sometimes
- messy but mid-length hair
- no make up or very few
- no nail art
- drink beer and ginger beer
- watch football and tennis but does not practice any sport
- love cars like DeLorean, Tesla, Lamborghini but don't drive (I just can't) and I don't like fishing or camping
- I’m not interested in gossip
- had crushs on girls in high school but now I'm not lesbian
- love gaming and Lego Star Wars
- lack of fear of certain animals (snakes, sharks, mice, spiders)
I'm not a 100 percent tomboy but I'm not feminine anymore
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You don’t sound bad to me. Get yourself out there. I think there are a lot of guys who would be interested in you.
Oh and camping and fishing can be fun with the right person 😊
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+1 yI like girls that a bit more tomboyish 🤷♂️ tomboys still have a feminine side to them though, if u we’re acting too masculine and like trying to get muscley or something that would be a turn off.
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Asker+1 yI'm not muscley (I don't like sports) but I hate heels, dresses, skirts, make up, flowers don't interest me
No not at all. I’m a firm believer in notion that there is somebody out there for everyone. People are so complex & hard to categorize - & personally, as an unconventional & usual person myself, I can relate to you feeling this way. But it’s a big, wide world, & somebody out there will appreciate you, as you are.
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+1 yYou will find a boyfriend. I’m a very masculine woman, I’ve always been called a “tomboy” and there’s plenty of guys that want to date me despite thinking I’m gay. There are lots of guys out there that love a strong confident woman, stay you :)
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Asker+1 yI'll never had a boyfriend! They aren't interested or they are scared!
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What do you look like?
Asker+1 y@firenine909 I'm average with long hair dark brown eyes, not thin but curvy
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Curvy girls are very lovely and sweet even as a tomboy I do find some feminine features in them to be attractive
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Nope.
Some guys are totally on fire for Tomboys. And the answer to that is simple. Because tomboys look dominating, and most of the time they are.
Normally the Man is the more dominant part. But by appearing, talking, clothing or behaving similar to a Man, you appear also dominant like a Man.
And some Men are totally on fire for such women. Because dominating women are often (not always): direct and they take no BS, they are brutally honest even if it hurts, they know that life is no Princess Cinderella dream, they are helpful in everyday situations and are not afraid of doing something because they might break snail, but they are also thankful. And yes often they are also dominant between the sheets in the bedroom. And some Men totally admire Girls that are more "Best Friend type" rather than being "submissive Girly Like"
Some Men want no Pink little Princess, they want a dominant Women who knows what she wants and who tells her Man what he needs to hear, instead of sucking up everything that bothers her.
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Anonymous(25-29)1 yThe girl next door was a bit of a tomboy and my best friend for years. She came back after the summer looking very fat and wore loose fitting frumpy clothes, the rumour around school was that she was pregnant, I just though too many burgers in california.
I knew she was gifted when one day I called around to her place to hang out like I always did and forgot to knock and there she was standing in her underwear trying to put her new bra on. I just froze like a deer in her headlights. Gifted? She had the biggest pert breasts I have ever seen, like they were giant. I'd only seen nude girls in porn. She was flat chested at the start of the summer as far as I remember and when she came back her chest had exploded. Like she was thinking short skinny little thing with tits too big for her tiny frame. Anyway she screamed for me to get out. She avoided me for a week until she talked to me in the corridor during school, while we were talking I couldn't help getting an erection and she walked away in disgust when she saw that. Pretty soon every time we talked or met up I would get hard. Eventually she said that obviously because I liked her boobs so much I should just jerk off to her topless to get it out of my system and that's how our relationship started. She was still my tomboy best friend only now with big tits.00 Reply- 567 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yOne of my besties is tomboyish and she still can get boyfriends. So, I'd say it isn't impossible.
40 Reply 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Totally disagree. I was & still am a tomboy & have never had a problem getting a boyfriend if I wanted to.
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+1 yTomboy women are rough around the edges, but freaks in the bedroom and make good friends. Like having a best guy friend with a vagina. Also find it adorable when she runs around in the house just wearing dress shirt and loose tie.
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+1 yOh, dont change! A bunch of men like tomboy girls.
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+1 yThat's not really true but if you wear baggy clothing I'd say get more fitting clothing and that might increase your chances even more
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Asker+1 yI never wear baggy clothes, only jeans (or shorts when it's too hot outisde)
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+1 yLove works in mysterious ways & when it comes to love anything is possible even if you are a tomboy you can find a boyfriend. Start asking guys out.
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Asker+1 yI fear taking the first step and I'm sure the answer from them will be a "NO"
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If you never try you will never know so start by saying hello. On the other hand sometimes you just have to say fuck it & go do it anyway. If the guy says “NO” who cares, but what happens if he says “YES”?
Asker+1 yI don't want to take the risk, if I will be hurt I want to kill me after.
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That is one reasons why a lot of guys don’t approach anymore & because they are chicken as well. No risk, no reward but if you take a risk sometimes it doesn’t go your way & in that case life moves on.
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@Tamera952 You snooze you lose & if you don’t ask the person out someone else will.
Asker+1 yI prefer to see him happy with another girl, who is more beautiful than me and don't have hairs issue (Yes, i'm a very hairy girl!)
No, it's not the reason you won't find a boyfriend. Tomboys are great too, they are tough on the outside but very soft inside 😁
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+1 yNothing wrong with a Tomboy it’s something else you got to figure out.
10 ReplyNo there are men who are into Tom boys
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+1 yAs long as u have boobs.. u will find someone like me
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Asker+1 yI have big boobs but it's not enough
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U need to look for someone like me
+1 yNo, that should make it easier.
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+1 yi gave up being a tomboy, and i have no regret doing it
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+1 yThat's fine especially if you mix up your style from time to time dresses or lingerie
00 Reply You are wrong, i would love to have a Tomboy girlfriend! 🥰
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+1 yNo I disagree , I seen tomboys have boyfriends. You can too don’t be discouraged
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Asker+1 yBut I'll never had just one!
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u +1 yif that's your choice... alright then
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+1 yI don't agree. Some men like tomboys
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yno tomboy, no! tomboy you are only human
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Opinion Owner+1 y''Rag'n'Bone Man - Human''
2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't agree. You can find many guys who like it.
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+1 yThat's my preference.
00 Reply 2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Any woman can find a boyfriend
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Asker+1 yNot me, I never wear dresses, skirts, don't do make up
nahh
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