How often do you cut people out of your life?

[MementoMori777]

Every once in a while when I have time to think I remind myself that I gotta keep my circles small and I think of the people in my life that just don't really value my presence so I end up cutting them off, making space for new people I guess, anyone else does something similar? If not I recommend y'all should, so how often do y'all cut ties with people? 🤔

[Anemone978]

I don't really have circles.. my whole life I had a hard time trusting people and since I was 16 and seen how easily people betray you or abandon you, I don't trust anyone. The only people I actually love or care about are my kids and somewhat my husband.. everyone else is just commodity if I need them..

[MementoMori777]

Somewhat? That word caught me somewhat of guard 🙃

[Anemone978]

Well the husband, is kind of my worst enemy but also my most loyal friend at the same time.. LOL we have a complicated relationship..

[MementoMori777]

I see that, I'm flabbergasted on how it works 😂

[serious]

Very often. For me it will not take a second to decide if a person deserves to stay in my life or not.

Depending on what happened that is.

There are certain which I see as unforgivable and also if people are not even willing to understand me (not acceptance) then they have no place in my life. Simple.

Hence for me yes it is very easy to cut people out of my life. I don't care about the consequences either.

[AaronKrieger]

I hardly ever cut people out of my life, but just lessen how much I interact with them if I view them as a bad influence. I'll catch up with them and hangout maybe a few times a year, although I primarily put myself around people who are good influences.

The people you hang around with reflect on who you are as an individual.

[Miah05]

The moment they show me, they are not helping my mental health, snip snip

[MementoMori777]

Fair enough 🤔

[Miah05]

Why the confusion?

[MementoMori777]

No confusion, it's just a thinking face lol

[Miah05]

Okie

[Robertjo16]

I barley have any circles lmao. The friends I have are my 50 cousins and my dog. And I've already cut out the ones I don't like. If I cut out every person I didn't like almost the while human race would be wiped out.

[MementoMori777]

Well damn lady, you, you must hate people without getting to know them then lol

It's not about just liking them or not, it depends if they care about you or not, for example if someone cares about you and they try schooling you and you don't like them for it then that's not really a reason to cut them off cause their intentions are for what's best for you, which is a good thing 😌☝️

[Robertjo16]

True

[Robertjo16]

And its not like I don't give people a chance. I just don't give them a second one.

[MementoMori777]

Well that's totally Fair, I was just sayin tho 🤣🤗

[Robertjo16]

Lmao 😂😂😂

[Robertjo16]

First impressions are everything to me. If you screw it up. I don't talk to you.

[MementoMori777]

I can completely understand that, I wouldn't expect you to pick up bad vibes off someone and pretend like you didn't lol

[Robertjo16]

Very few people pass the bar lol

[MementoMori777]

Many flake ass mfs nowadays, I don't blame you

[Robertjo16]

Precisely

[MemeSupreme]

not often altho its not like im afraid to either lol even if it's family bc toxic people are toxic people

[MementoMori777]

Indeed, memey, it's something to think about tho 😂

[ShesRad80]

constantly, a lot of times i out grow people

[MementoMori777]

The benefits of having a wonderful brain I guess 😆☠🏴

[ShesRad80]

🤷‍♀️🏴‍☠️✌💕

[sirderpsalot123]

Not often. I have cut off some family/friends, but for the most part, I have had the same group of friends for as long as I can remember.

[MementoMori777]

That's good bro, they must be good friends

[sirderpsalot123]

They are idiots, but I love and appreciate them... lol

[sirderpsalot123]

But good on you for ditching the people who don't value your presence 👍

[MementoMori777]

Thanks bro lol

[Nikki1989]

Never, but I know I should. I know way too many people.

[MementoMori777]

Well there's something to think about Nikki, after all your time and effort is valuable and you should use it on not just everyone

[collie22]

I do that , I mean I set people aside when there not trying to be a good person.

[MementoMori777]

That's good collie, I'm glad, it should bring good results for your life

[Likes2drive]

I usually don’t, they just drift away, someone cut me out 6 months ago and I’m still waiting to hear from them eventually

[Grovermint]

I only have a handful of people I count as friends.

[BLP11520]

Block a few... they had it coming

[MementoMori777]

Nothing wrong with that bro

[Jmmmfi4]

I'm the one who gets cut out

[MementoMori777]

Then wouldn't you assume you have something to work on?

[exitseven]

I do it on an as needed basis

[NathanDavis]

I don't

[Anonymous]

Yes a lot