Does it hurt when someone cuts you out of their lives and it’s like they never knew you?

[Anonymous]

They’re still doing the same old stuff. Having out with the same old people except you’re just not in the picture anymore. Its like you never existed to them and you’re completely indifferent to them whether it’s one person or a whole group of people.

Why is it so weird watching them living life but it’s like you were never there

[PeachyPie93]

Well I have lost a guy once and it hurt a lot.. but people who generally just cut me out, I don't really care because if we had enough issues that it would warrant not talking to each other anymore. Most likely I didn't like that person or people very much anyways. I only got cut out of a group once in grade seven at my new school because I was being nice to a girl they used to bully, so the main girl kicked me out of the group lol I couldn't careless cuz I just made more friends in the other grade 7 class. As for friends one girl cut me off in grade 11 because my childhood friend (who also used to like me) started dating her. We had talked about her before, he did as well saying worse shit than me, but he told her I was talking crap about her. It was just the truth anyways, she was a hoe lol I didn't care much since she was annoying and always tried to hurt me by flirting with guys she knew I liked so it was kind of like good riddance lol. I deleted him off my FB tho because I seen him as a rat, when they broke up he added me right back but I never trusted him since. Years later when I was like 24 or 25 she messaged me to add her back and unblock her but she was the idiot who had me blocked, I never blocked her because I never was worried about her, if I had her blocked she wouldn't have been able to message me. So I just deleted the message lol. Forget the trash and move on plenty more people to enjoy your time with!

[Anonymous]

Yep it does very much so hurt.

[Asker]

I mean like it’s weird. I would almost rather someone HATE me then just move on as if I don’t exist. Especially when inmever did anything wrong or they wronged me

[Opinion Owner]

Yep it is weird and I would rather someone hate me too than just move on as if I never existed. It's like that Gotye song... somebody that I used to know.

[Asker]

Yeah….

[melnc]

Usually, I never hold on or cling to someone who wants to leave. Whether they wanted to stay or leave, I'm still breathing and moving forward.

[Asker]

No matter how hard just let them go

[ProbablyClueless]

Sure... especially if there's no explanation. Like you just wake up one day and suddenly this person you were cool with can't stand to be around you. It's fucked up.

[CuriousHubby]

Only the first few times after it's pretty quickly like a band aid. After the pain your happy it happened

[DrPepper12]

I cut off my toxic family and I miss them but I'm better off without them

[jahaims]

I've never had that happen