I got in a fight with my close guy friend last year, and it was so bad I told him not to talk to me anymore. He fought my decision, so I really had to force him out of my life. It was very dramatic.
A few months later, we talked and decided to reconnect. We said that a year from that day, we would meet for lunch and see if we can be friends again. Well now, that day is almost here. I'm at the point where I don't just want to be friends anymore; I'm convinced he's the one for me. So I messaged him asking if he still wants to reconnect... It's been 3 days and no reply. I realized he might have changed his mind about this.
Even so, I don't regret telling him goodbye last year. We needed space from each other, because we were getting a little out of control. We've had time to grow and change now, so I think the problems we had aren't gonna be an issue anymore. Now if only he would agree to try this again. :/
yeah I've been in this situation before. Last year,this guy kept hitting on me, which was pretty cute and I really like him. Problem was I was so afraid that he was just playing me that I kept saying no. Now, I just want to talk to him or see him badly. His sister told me he was just playing with me. he probably was, but I still wanted to see him or talk to him.
i have cut people off and not regretted it,u had a bad feeling being around him so you had to do what you needed to do to get past the emotional confusion,if you want to be friends again you could text him and tell him what you said here and if he is understanding he will except the friendship with you again,it will not make you look weak.
I have & I don't regret it because they proved to me that I had made the right decision to walk away & cut them out but I feel terrible I had to actually do it, I always hoped it would have turned out different.
No I don't regret cutting people out. It's not something I do just on a whim.
Besides, it takes strength of character to admit you are wrong. It's not weak.
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its not a decision I make lightly and as of yet I have no regrets about the people I've cut out of my life.
I am undecided if I should cut this guy out of life totally - I have a crush on him badly, I think he is about to get married. I think it would be so much easier for me if I just totally cut him off!
No I haven't...but then...I have very rarely ever cut somebody out of my life...(:(:(:
I've cut people out of my life and I've never regretted it.
I haven't regretted it.
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