What is life advice would you give to your younger self?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Life's advice..
Is we coming to this world
With nothing but ourselves and we're given to two people our parents who hopefully put up good foundation underneath us

Who instill morals values ethics
Right from wrong confidence self-love strength character happiness and the understanding of choice to understanding of cause and effect.

And the day that you decide to learn how to walk and you fall down get right back up and do it again and again and again and again until you can run

Because the longer it takes you to get up will be how your life's going to be if you fall you're going to sit there for a while until you get up

No matter what you go through in life happiness is a choice you are the only person on the inside of you that makes you either happy or sad so no matter what makes you fall down get right back up make yourself happy lift the sadness go it holds you back it changes your destiny it changes who you will become so no matter what let it all go once it's happened let It Go there's no reason to hang on to it

Live your life as best as you can is happy as you possibly can if you're destined to have children have them and make them 10 times better than you are that has to be number one rule no matter what

Make sure they have morals values and ethics and are better than you

And then one day everything gets reversed your parents coming back into your life they are the age that they are and they start reversing and they start mentally getting younger you now have to take care of them but being a grown up and going back to a child it'll be the hardest thing you've ever done in your life to watch all the above now go in reverse

You're going to have to have the most patience you've ever had in your life to watch this loving caring person that is smart intelligent has wisdom has confidence has strengths as love as passion has desire has heart as soul as spirit come back into your life and now they start going backwards
When they look at you deep into your eyes and they don't remember who you are when they start talking to you as if you were somebody else when they can't remember anything that they just said are what they were doing you have to have the patience

So remember life is short stay a child as long as you can gain as much wisdom, love and strength
Always remember who you are and who you desire to be and never go off that path

Life is short.
And if you don't live it while you have the chance to
You might not ever get that chance
Because sometimes the moment you're ready to live it is when something's going to come back into your life and hold you back
Just remember sometimes life's just not all about you sometimes it's about others
It's not all about how you fell down. But it's all about how you get back up and get to where you're going with peace of mind and happiness

usernamelessness · Accepted Answer

Listen to that voice that tells you “Do this” or “Don’t do that”. Don’t try to rationalize reasons not to listen to that voice. The voice that told me to get help for my depression, the voice that told me don’t do the drugs you’re doing, the voice that told me to leave unhealthy situations, the voice that was always right and I didn’t listen to it so much because I was afraid. Please please listen to that voice, because every decision could impact your future more than you could possibly realize right now.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I'd say it's okay to make mistakes, forgive yourself so that you can also forgive others. Don't judge yourself and you will not judge others either, and focus on being kind and compassionate, you might think its a thankless act but karma will help you if you treat people well. Don't put up with people you don't like just because you know them through social circles you want to keep around in your life, some terrible people hide behind the veneer of good acts by being fake so if you sense a fake, avoid them. Don't disrespect your friends or take them for granted, they might not seem important today but they will seem crucial and essential tomorrow. Focus on your school work, cause 20 years from now, nobody will care who you had a crush on, but everybody will care where you studied.

menina · Accepted Answer

I would tell myself to make my own decisions. To do what I feel it's right for me, instead of listening to other people.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Learn how to realize when life is too difficult and that you should change your approach. Struggle is natural, but you should never be moving mountains to get basic shit done. Don't be afraid to admit that solution might be something different from "work harder/smarter".

tfan1 · Answer

Your parents may be obnoxious at times, but love them and go places with them because that day will come and you will have the biggest regrets in your life. I regret not listening enough and not learning enough from my dad. 💔😢

AviatorTom · Answer

I was very shy and a late bloomer when it comes to sex. If I could go back and give my younger self advice, I'd ask myself to overcome my shyness and let myself know that sex is okay.

MementoMori777 · Answer

That even if you fail, you still win because you always learn something or gain something even if it helps mold your character.

Paris13 · Answer

Welcome to Gag and Bes tof Luck. ***Reach for the Stars. xxoo

Bilboes · Answer

Prepare yourself against the inflation you will encounter in the future and invest well.

mikaaa89 · Answer

Idont know yet maybe in 10yrs ill know :p.. by the way my dm is open

exitseven · Answer

Have as much fun as you can while you can. Its going to be a bumpy ride.

Berethor · Answer

That feminism is a lie, most women want to be dominated by a strong man, that's a fact.

Anonymous · Answer

I would have told myself to cut contact with my sisters before it was too late.

DummyThiccFeraligatr · Answer

"Go to tradeschool, not college, you idiot!" "Ask out that Rachael girl. She clearly likes you!"

elaphe · Answer

Take more chances. There are girls when I was a teen that I would have liked to ask out but I was too shy to approach them.

douride2 · Answer

Don't be so trusting

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Definitely not care as much about what people think or go out of my way to please them.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Cut them offffffffffff

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

I would tell trend of market so I can buy shares n trade derivatives

Anonymous · Answer

Your leaning disabilities are real, make different choices, don't punish yourself so badly.

Wonderingguyy · Answer

To care less what people think

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Go for it! Stop worrying about the outcome

jamesgoldman · Answer

Buy palladium

Becky03_ · Answer

It Get’s better.

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