How can I know if it is really my recently deceased boyfriend is trying to get my attention?

[sage2021]

Just now while sitting in my favorite chair, all of a sudden about four blades on the living room shades start to move like fingers were moving them hard enough to make a sound that was loud enough to me look over there. Anyone know if that's possible?

[FunkyMonkee]

A few years ago, a woman in an old frilly white dress came up out of my ex-sister's basement and pushed my nephew clear across the kitchen (about 20 feet) and then vanished
My grandmother's rosary beads are hanging on a nail on the door between my ex-sister's kitchen and dining room. One day, she came home from work and found the beads on the floor... across the room! She picked them up and hung them back on the nail. The next day, they were on the floor, again, across the room!
Get yourself a copy of the Michael Keaton movie, "White Noise". It might help!

[Likes2drive]

Not likely, most things have an explanation, I still wonder why my mom hasn’t tried to make a presence and it’s been 18 years since she passed and I’m in the house she died in and nothing yet

[exitseven]

Damn Sage, you know better than this. The wind did it.

[sage2021]

@exitseven
Are you yelling at me?

[exitseven]

no, of course not.

[sage2021]

exitseven
Seriously. My apartment has ghosts in it. I am not the only one that has witnessed this. For instance: in the very middle of the top of my small refrigerator, I keep my long cooking utensils up there. One day I was Googling my then new boyfriend. Well, his dead wife's page on Legacy. com came up. As I was reading it, suddenly the big slotted spoon comes out of the open container it was in, jumps out of there and falls to my kitchen floor. And I always make sure they're all snug in the container.
My kitchen trash can has ghost issues. For absolutely no reason, when we least expect it, the top of the trashcan flies off and lands on the floor. My then boyfriend used to just get this certain look on his face each time it happened. After a few times of this happening he agreed it was a ghost. I thought it was his wife that is deceased. 🤷🏼‍♀️ ?