Is he possibly trying to get my attention?

[Anonymous]

Im sorta talking to this guy and later on I said I can tell you’ve been working out and he was like “ yeah I guess I do thanks” and a week later he’s posted two quick videos of him working out lol. I also said I like being on on tik tok and he the next day he posted and shared a funny video on tik tok where it shows his page.

[spartan55]

Guys don't typically do stupid shit like that. On the other hand, girls seek attention it as often as they breathe. Don't make the common mistake of thinking "well that's what I would do, so he must be doing that too" WE DON'T THINK LIKE GIRLS.
Besides, it sounds like he already has your attention, so why he need to do that?

[Asker]

LOLLLL dang okay he does in a way. but sometimes guys like to impress girls. I have three brothers and it’s cute how they do things to please someone

[spartan55]

Sure, I get that. But posting videos on social media just to get a girl's attention? Maybe young guys are all douchebags nowadays, but my friends would have laughed me into next week if I did something so cheesy.

[Asker]

it is cheesy and he never really was the one to post things like that so it had me thinking.

[spartan55]

Well if it's out of character for him, I suppose he maybe did for that reason. Does that really impress you though? If I were a girl I would think it was stupid, but what do I know.
You should give him some shit about it, telling he doesn't have to act all douchey to get your attention 😁