Are you good at speaking about your feelings or emotions?

[Anonymous]

I've realized I'm actually terrible at it, I'm of course not talking about speaking about my opinions or point of views I'm speaking about emotions, weither it's emotional attachment, grief, sadness, etc and opening up about them, I'm just terrible at it, I also hate doing it, took all the effort just to open up about this lol

are you easy to vent? Can you speak your emotions well?

[petitedollbabee]

I’m very good, it’s not hard for me to communicate my feelings at all. I’m very self aware with what I’m feeling and identifying why I’m feeling it. But that is only thanks to many, many years of therapy helping me to gain that self awareness, and having to express how I’m feeling to someone on a regular basis in order to make progress.

[Asker]

Well that's good, what's the secret lol

[NathanDavis]

yes I am...

but it is something I started doing around age 16 or so... and with people that are/were very close to me

so is not something that I was good at right away, the first time were some of the most difficult things I ever experienced but you do start somewhere and then time can make it much more "easier" or better said... you do become better at it

[Asker]

So how you make it better? Lol

[NathanDavis]

well, you just kind of risk it and go for it... but you also, first, need to find someone that is close with you and can openly trust

the rest, is a matter of time

[Asker]

Fair enough

[strateguy632]

i often lack the words. some of my gals also seem to lack words to explain their feelings.

[Asker]

It's like solving a riddle lol

[Anonymous]

Well, it doesn't matter, cause no one cares about listening to them. My opinions, emotions or feelings hold no value, cause I'm considered as lesser than a human being by people

[Asker]

Well if you ever gotta vent anon I'll listen to your feelings 🤣

[exitseven]

No I suck at it. I usually keep my feelings all bottled up.

[Asker]

It be like that

[The-Stud]

You think someone cares? Haha

[Asker]

That's a good point 😂

[RedInnocent68]

I get better every day.

[TheGuyYouCrave]

Practice being assertive.