This might be very controversial, and I understand if people don’t like it, but I really want my boyfriend to cheat on me?

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I don’t know why I’m like this, but I can get excited when I’m jealous. I get excited being mistreated and I get excited when being cheated on more than anything. I don’t think it’s more than a kink I know guys are like this with their wives, but I haven’t found any women like me and advice. Currently looking for a a boyfriend I want one that will do this but because I say it’s okay but then I wanted to be mean about it if that makes sense

aceleon · Accepted Answer

well lucky for you, you are a girl and most guys loves cuckqueans (being allowed to have sex without your girl stay exclusive and possbily finds girls for you (what can be hotter than this)

ChicoFromThe305 · Accepted Answer

Bruh what? You should want therapy is what you should want 💀

QuickToAsk · Answer

Boy o boy, do I have a video for you to see. Please listen to the whole video, especially from 2:55 - 4:49. I think you might learn something about yourself from that part. I'm trying to help you to not become like so many other women out here. You have to stop letting these urges get to you. It won't be good in the long run. You have to seek counselling (not friends, family or girlsaskguys. com), get the training, get the will power to stop this type of behavioral thinking & be consistent with not inviting these thoughts into your head. You may not realize this now, but this is toxicity. Toxicity feels addictive to many women, but toxicity only invites long term drama & worse into your life. I don't want you to look back on your life & say "Wow, it felt so good at the time, but I've royally messed up several aspects of my life chasing these toxic thrills." By the time you come to that epiphany, your reputation will be destroyed & it'll be far too late to go back & change things, although you'll greatly wish that you could. We all have kinks, but actually going through with all of them for real will only lower your value to yourself, to others you love & to men of value. You're at a place right now where you can stop all of this before it even starts. You don't even realize how powerful the place you're standing right now is & you'll never be in this position of power ever again if you give into this toxicity.

ohsheeT · Answer

well there's better ways to go about it first of all why don't you have a conversation with him and let him know exactly what turns you on

because see when you ask him to do something like that that messes his head up to so why don't you tell him what you like and then why doesn't he make a game plan

on a Friday or Saturday night he comes home from work and he says I need to talk to you about something and he starts telling you about the affair that he just had and how she was in bed and this and that because see that's what really turns you on is you want him to tell you all this as you're having sex so you can say fuck me like you fuck her because that's the part that really turn you on I think

and it probably goes even deeper than that there's nothing wrong with you fantasy and what you like because why don't you just keep it as a fantasy instead of making it so real because with the right imagination he could take you so far so deep and make you hang on so tight and give you major orgasms if he does it the right way

I don't believe in cheating but I do believe in fantasies and the fantasy is just flashed in my brain just a second ago was pretty hot and I think that's what he should do with you because he could take you to the moon and back 20 times and that's 10 times better than cheating

JacobJordan · Answer

What you have is very common a lot of women also have a rape fantasy. And just like those women the important distinction is that you do not actually WANT to experience that you are attracted to the romanticized ideal of that not the actual act. There was (maybe still is) a website in the early 2000s that allowed women to have that rape fantasy fulfilled in a safe manner. To simplify the whole process the woman would select a man from available parties and then come up with all details such as what it looked like, how entrance was gained, safe words etc. Most of the women that partook in said fantasy despite the predetermined rules were left feeling like they had actually been raped and feeling violated blah blah blah. 1 woman went so far as to try and sue the website for her stupid choice and it was thrown out in court almost immediately. Their is a difference between the idea and the action.

KillinItHard · Answer

Sounds like you're a cuck queen and from what I've seen, there's a huge amount of men that actually want this kind of thing. I'm sure you'll find one, good luck out there!

Berethor · Answer

You cuckqueen? make more sense for a woman to be into it than a man.

Nice222 · Answer

Like you said as a guy I could get into my wife doing this but it does seem more unusual for a woman to be into this type of thing.
although most Polyamorous relationships seem to be MFM. But that is not cheating that is a relationship between three individuals. I find this very interesting and would not mind exploring this more in DM.

Account · Answer

I won't ever in my life understand this fetish, that is for sure.  I am very possessive and I abhor any form of humiliation.

NathanDavis · Answer

is it really cheating... if you're into it?

MissBoogus · Answer

I’m also like this a bit 😂 my boyfriend sees other women and makes me mad and I like it lmao

Phoenix98 · Answer

That's toxic, to be honest and not at all healthy /=.

DrewJohnson · Answer

I would love it if my wife cheated on me. If she wanted it the other way I'd be good with that too. I'm sure you'll find a guy willing to do this for you.

PrincelyGlove · Answer

Sounds like your kink? So you are more into polyamory?

RossyBoi · Answer

If you want him to do it then it's not cheating, it's called an open relationship. It's only cheating if he does it behind your back.

CubaPirate · Answer

Do you have a Cuckqueen fantasy? It's pretty rare but I'm sure you're not alone and I won't judge you.

HouseMoat · Answer

It's not cheating, if you know he's cheating, and like it

Cutegirl06 · Answer

Were you mistreated as a little girl?

billmunch · Answer

I'm the same way. I understand completely.

Staximus · Answer

Sounds like a bunch of bullshit drama

bananathunder · Answer

do you want to watch or just know about it?

Anonymous · Answer

That's very odd.

fuddly · Answer

Do you feel confident he'll return to you always?

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