If you ask someone if they have the same phone number and they say yes, is it okay to call or text them?

[Anonymous]

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea it's a phone number, No lie asking for permission to call someone is some next level submissivness, just call bro 💀

[Asker]

I already asked him if it was okay if I texted him after I asked if he had the same phone number and he didn't respond. Don't you think calling him or texting them regardless of what they say overstepping boundaries?

[ChicoFromThe305]

No my friends call without a damn warning, there was times they would should up at the damn door unannounced lol

[Asker]

I get what you're saying but you missed the point. Me and this person haven't been on speaking terms in a while. Last time we spoke it was heated. Contacting them randomly would almost insure a negative response.

[ChicoFromThe305]

How's So? If anything it being something new, it will only catch him off guard, not annoy him or give any form of negative vibes, when you get a random call from someone that doesn't normally call you, you gonna be like UUUHHHH this mf hitting me up now" of course not, you'll be like well I wonder what this is, it will trigger curiosity before it ever triggers a negative response unless he's just mentally ill.

[Asker]

Does this apply if we didn't date and I may like him and he might not feel the same?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yes if y'all are strangers there's more of a barrier on lashing out lol

[Asker]

Got it. We may be strangers now, but we communicated a lot in the past.

[ChicoFromThe305]

But if it's been time, it's not like you are constantly bothering him.

[Anonymous]

Maybe, maybe not. You might find yourself blocked.

[Asker]

Why confirm the number if you don't want me to contact you?