If you ask someone if they have the same phone # and they say yes, if I ask is it okay if I contact them and they don't respond, what does that mean?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

The only thing that can be said with certainty is that they didn't respond to your second question.

[Asker]

Okay so I shouldn't contact them?

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you certain that they heard the second question?

[Asker]

Absolutely. They are still active on the site I messaged them on

[OlderAndWiser]

Seems to me that if she didn't want to hear from you, she would not have confirmed that she still had the same phone number.

[Asker]

I agree. However by not following up and confirming whether I can text or call him I think he doesn't want me to contact him.

[OlderAndWiser]

What do you have to lose by making an attempt?

[Asker]

So even though the person didn't say I could contact them I should contact them anyway?

[OlderAndWiser]

If you want. The worse that happens is that they don't answer or find an excuse to end the call very quickly.

[Asker]

I guess you're right. I'm honestly nervous because I haven't spoken to this person in a while and it didn't end well so I'm certain they don't want to talk to me

[HappyWoman34]

They mean no.

[Asker]

I thought the same thing. I asked if it was okay because I haven't spoken to this person in a while and I didn't want to randomly text them

[Anonymous]

Hos is that possible?

[Asker]

How is what possible?

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry I thought you meant same phone number.🤣