Why are you single?

[Anonymous]

I thought this was an appropriate question to ask on here on valentines day 😂

[bobalife]

Lol the famous dating line…
Separated with my ex middle of last year, I just wanted time for myself… to heal, rediscover myself, live for myself, and it was a nonstop on the go life from survival to just being busy living life being a Bobabusybee~ Dating isn’t a priority, but I’m open if there’s someone amazing and stands out to me.

[Asker]

Respectable indeed 💯

[bobalife]

Thank you, Chico ☺️

[Asker]

🙂💯🙏🏽

[Dou1994]

At first, It was because of financial stability, emotional stability and the love I was looking for no women can give me but one woman which was my mom and I never had it…took me 19 years to get it and though my mom have a disability. I wish childhood me had it long ago. I had a longtime learning about women. I was 25 when I receive the love from my mom and I am almost 30. In therapy for 1 year. Doing things that I love to do. Still working on finding a full-time job (currently seasonal) and I can say I have gotten better emotionally but still need a lot of work.

[Lionman95]

Simply spoken because in real life and I´m introvert and I´m not good at starting a conversation. I don´t have the self confidence to walk up to some women as I don´t want to waste her time. Online I don´t have that much luck either because being average looking I rarely get matches.

[Lionman95]

Thanks for the MHO.

[MemeSupreme]

puts on smart people glasses

AHEM...

class, if you look at the board... you will see that Point A says "annoying" and Point B says "bitchy" and Pont C says "cringy"

now if you look closely inside the 3 points of the triangle... in the middle it says the name "MemeSupreme"

[Asker]

To be fair I don't think you even try tho, you probably just hide in bushes when you see attractive people 😂

[MemeSupreme]

you need to pay attention better in class. hiding in a bush doesn't fall under any of the 3 points

BUT you are right about not tryin lol i don't wanna date atm

[Asker]

You know I'm barely in class

*takes your glasses and puts them on*

Of course i was right about you not trying, now I'm the teacher, I literally just taught you about yourself 😂

[MemeSupreme]

how are you teaching me if i'm the one correcting you alumna

[Asker]

Yea but the real reason is cause you don't try 😎🤝

[MemeSupreme]

no i dont try bc of points a and b

[Asker]

Well you aren't annoying so there goes point A out the window and point be sounds controllable lol

[MemeSupreme]

ohhhhh so you disagreed about me being annoying but not me being a bitch lmfao

[Asker]

That's cause I know you aren't annoying, I don't know about being bitchy tho cause you can be yelling at old ladies for all I know, you don't seem annoying tho 😂

[Xia1994]

😭💀

[Sonorous]

Because as much as I love women, I have no desire to have kids or raise a family. I'm just here to get my nut & pass away when it's my time.

[Sonorous]

sorry for getting so poetic at the end there

[Xia1994]

Dang why he gotta say it like that tho? 😭💀

[Sonorous]

@Xia1994 🤣 ion like to sugar coat shit

[Xia1994]

😭💀💀

[Sonorous]

@Xia1994 you should hear me when I'm not being poetic

[NathanDavis]

because I haven't looked onto a relationship yet...

[Asker]

Fair enough

[itsclearlynicholas]

Picky and the broads out there leave a lot to be desired. And the chests are too flat on the top, or too muffin top on the bottom. Or flat on the backside. To be blunt. And that's not even getting to the body odour, personalities, hobbies, interests, women heavy drinkers and women's love affair with sushi and other exotic meals. The smell 🤮🤢🤮🤢

[Xia1994]

danggggg 🫢 nico where u finding those types of womens tell me so I can tell my brothers to avoid those spots please yikes!

[itsclearlynicholas]

Most of Australia lol 😂😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

And I'd guess most chicks in most parts of the world. There's manly chicks, hard to impress chicks, smelly chicks, and chicks who try to be both girly girly and a tomboy. Gross 🤮🤢

[itsclearlynicholas]

I'm sure America, californians, British and Canadian and European women, much the same, and even some Asia/AMERICAS.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Born in a country that is mostly full of women I can't relate to. Everytime I use a dating site/app, all my perfect matches (same hobbies, interests, goals, lifestyle, etc) are in other countries, mostly Japan.

There are perfect mental matches here in the US too, but so far none in my age group that aren't already taken.

[kylee2437]

Because I’m not settling for a man that is comfortable with having no goals, and definitely not settling for someone that doesn’t respect me

[Asker]

You don't have too tho ☻

[kylee2437]

I could’ve. Reject two people for the same two reasons above.

[kylee2437]

Rejected*

[Asker]

So you'll be single til you find someone worth it?

[kylee2437]

Yep. Life is too short to deal with a relationship that is going to stress me out in the long run

[Asker]

That's respectable

[KittygosMeoWW]

Because I made the decision to start living and stop being in survival mode

[Asker]

Can't say I really know what that means but alr

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I'm single just because I am. Not because I choose to be though.

[Asker]

Valid lol

[AngelLily]

I guess God just hasn’t brought the right type of guy around yet. Also just working on myself

[Asker]

Bro people are sleeping on you no lie, a woman of god is the best there is no lie, but I know God hears you, someday 💯

[Xia1994]

Very funny Chico 😭🤧 well for me it's cause I'm singling in the single gurl era atm you know yeah 💅

[Asker]

Is that a indirect way of saying hookup culture ☻

[Xia1994]

i'm a virgin so no Chicoooo no hooky hooky in my lifey lifeyyyyyy 😎

[Asker]

Really? Well that's a hella of a plot twist, that's good tho 😂

[Drew-1990]

Where to begin? Shy and awkward at first is probably the biggest.

[Asker]

Yea that's a crazy mix, practice conversating with random people and it eventually goes away after growing comfort

[Drew-1990]

Thanks. Believe me I'm trying.

[Asker]

Bet, at its own time

[Jamie05rhs]

Because good women are really hard to find. And every time I find one I like, something happens to dissolve the relationship and then I'm back right where I started.

[Asker]

I can understand that, giving up shouldn't be the end tho

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks, man.

[LaurenM1997]

Because I got cheated on and don’t trust nobody really

[LaurenM1997]

And also single cause of my disability nobody wants to do date me cause of it too

[Asker]

What disability is that? 🤔

[LaurenM1997]

Message me

[handsomelad70]

Because I wasn't going to settle for ANY woman. My parents were married 53 years.

[Asker]

That's good tho isn't it

[Sorobor]

I think there is a zest of trust issue on my part, but also i can't seem to understand why i'm unatractive. Girls simply never respond. The biggest reason still is that i need to apologize to someone in person to grow as a man and i'm not able yo do it right now.

[RebelinSteel]

With my ex girlfriend, we mutually broke up late last year, various reasons but a break turned into a break up. Too lazy at moment to look and it’s crap weather.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

I choose to be. Only thing that matters right now are my kids. Ain't nobody in my life anyway and dating is a waste of time/money.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[SolitarySolace]

Sick of being cheated on. I don’t want a relationship and haven’t for 9 years now.

[Asker]

Find a wife outside of the country, this high levels of unloyalty seems to only be a western problem

[SolitarySolace]

Nah, I’m not moving, I work too much to travel, and I highly doubt a woman outside of the country would take the time and money to come all the way here just for me

[Asker]

Not moving, visit then have them move in with you, be foreal Biden made that easy with the open border, she can walk in illegally legally lol

[SolitarySolace]

Nah, not worth it and i don’t want to attempt to benefit from something that is hurting the country

[Asker]

Might as well benefit or you'll just suffer ha

[SolitarySolace]

I’d rather just stay single. I don’t want kids or a family of my own. Trump will be president again by the end of the year and will fix the border issue and besides Texas is handling it currently

[Iron_Man]

Because I’m extremely shy, I don’t like approaching strangers in person

[Asker]

What about the girlfriend tho, still haven't met up yet? 🤔

[Iron_Man]

No, she lives in Europe. I’ve been talking to her for years.

[Iron_Man]

I was talking about, for example, in person

[Iron_Man]

But I never tried to date anyone in person because I want to be with her

[Asker]

Well y'all should foreal get together one day, even if it's a day every year type of thing, you consider yourself single tho?

[Iron_Man]

Well, I’m waiting for her. I do want to meet her. No I don’t consider myself single. But when I answer this question, I was thinking about how I used to be real shy and not asking girls out

[Asker]

Ooh alright, well either ways I wish your relationship success 💪😎

[Iron_Man]

Thank you it’s pretty good so far

[Asker]

That's fire 💯

[Iron_Man]

Yes great 👍

[Anonymous]

I'm shy and don't really know what I want out of a man/ relationship, so I've chosen to remain single.

[Asker]

Do you want to be single tho?

[Opinion Owner]

It would be cool to experience being a couple with someone but I'm ok being single.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[ab2shifty]

Me and my homies spend everyday together for basically the whole day.. I wouldn’t have enough time for one 🤣

[Asker]

They can be very time consuming but some are a good investment lol

[ab2shifty]

Especially the ones u know u can trust

[Asker]

Yep kinda hard to come across nowadays but when you do, shit leads to happiness and comfort lol

[ab2shifty]

Yeah, I’m lucky I knew these mfs since kindergarten 🤣

[Asker]

Yea that's what's up, those are known as keepers ha

[midnightmoon05]

I am not single…

I never stay single too long.

[bolverk]

By choice, with my travelling for work and staying away for months at a time relationships were never a priority.

[Anonymous]

Asexual, too poor, too busy, can't be bothered with the fuss

[Asker]

Fair enough lol

[Heolurt]

As I've been told my entire life, I'm too ugly, also I've only ever been rejected and after years and years of rejection, I just gave up and won't ever try again.

[7Phoenix7]

Because it feels good 😌

[Asker]

Fair enough ha

[7Phoenix7]

Are you dating

[Asker]

Not really, I think I've decided in marrying a woman outside of my pathetic country, there's an Indian girl I'm speaking too, she checks all the boxes for wifey material so I believe there's potential there

[7Phoenix7]

That's good, I hope she's the one 💯

[Asker]

Thanks 💯

[TheSpaceGnome]

Ah so you have the same problem then. if you figure out how any of that "marrying a foreigner" stuff works, I'd be interested in knowing. Part of me thinks I should just give up looking in the US.

[Asker]

It works by speaking to women outside of the US, get to know them and then over time y'all can work something out on meeting, weither it's you go to their country to visit or they come to yours, then from there y'all can eventually speak about the process to bring her with you, to be fair Biden made that a lot easier cause of the open border, she can just walk in lmao

[TheSpaceGnome]

No I mean the legal proccess of making her a permanent citizen to the point where I don't need to worry that she gets deported.

The rest is easy.

[Asker]

You have to create a visa or someshit, I'm sure if you search it you can find it cause I don't know the full process but I know I'll figure it out when the time comes

[Joani]

First off, due to physical appearance, but there are other factors that come into play like being rather introverted. Also, my work takes a lot of my time even at weekends and don't really have time to even build up a relationship.

[whistlingwh0res]

people assume that I have. a sugar daddy so they don't talk to me

[Asker]

Do You? Lol

[whistlingwh0res]

no I have never had

[Asker]

Why is this rumor spreading then

[whistlingwh0res]

I don't know..

[Asker]

Someone has to be spreading them no?

[whistlingwh0res]

it's online thing. everyone is whispering

[Asker]

Oh well they all suck 🤣

[magiusX26]

these days, the question should be "why are you NOT single?"

[KrakenAttackin]

I am single because I choose to be. The longer I am single the more I enjoy being responsible to only myself.

[litty736]

Dating is hard these days. People are hardly serious about love.

[Account]

Because it is just plain awesome.

[Asker]

Fair enough lol

[Kingofkings1992]

I’m just passing my time till I expire. I don’t know what I’m even doing here. I don’t fit in with the rest of humans.

[IslaTheWitch]

relationships are overrated

[Asker]

I wouldn't say all that but alr

[Miah04]

Ngl. This question hurts me

[Soldieronmission1]

Ahhh that's sad! You're still young though

[Asker]

Why weren't you taken like not too long ago

[Miah04]

Yeah. Up til the day before valentines. Yup. He did me like that.

[Soldieronmission1]

Oh no! What a jerk!

[Asker]

That's fucked but you dodged a bullet, true colors shown, God's guidance won't always be enjoyable but it surely is the proper path, now you are back on track not wasting your time for someone like that, think of the future, you could've gotten married to him and then he would've done you dirty in some way, if anything it's a step closer to the Mr. Right, this man was just a obstacle keeping you from finding this Mr Right.

[Miah04]

❤️❤️thank you. That just helped confirm how i felt.

[Asker]

That's good now do it with me 💪😎

[Soldieronmission1]

How long had you been dating?

[Miah04]

Do what? Pray? I do that daily.

[Miah04]

@Soldieronmission1 7 months

[Soldieronmission1]

@miah04b well sorry to hear that and hope you can easily move on. 🙏🏻

[Shutyoassupniga]

Cuz I’m scared of 🐱, I don't know how to act when a bitch shows she likes me

[douride2]

I am single because I choose to be.

[Asker]

I thought you were married ☹

[douride2]

How did you come to that conclusion?

[Asker]

It's an assumption I created 🙃

[douride2]

I guess you assumed wrong eh? But that is ok.

[Asker]

Looks like it 🙃

[VV3ZZY123]

Cuz my hand does it better

[VV3ZZY123]

Naa just playing. That's not why.

[Asker]

Alright

[prettygirl20A]

well because i am fat

[BrookeS]

You are not fat

[Valdemort]

Haven't found the right person yet.

[Anonymous]

There's nothing in it for me.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[Opinion Owner]

Dating for a guy at this stage of life is like going to flea market and trying to find the least oldest, worn out, damaged thing out there. But the seller expecting you to pay full price like it was brand new.

It's just not worth it at this point.😆

[Asker]

It's definitely gotten more complicated in several ways

[CozyCoffin]

Because women do not find me attractive.

[Unit1]

Women don't love me.

[Anonymous]

Why are you?🌸

[Asker]

I have a few suspicions on why lol

[Opinion Owner]

Oky i'll ask you later😌

[Asker]

Okay florecita 🤣🌸🤗

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

I'ma "little picky".

[jimmy2]

My wife passed away