It's fair to say that people care more about physical appearance of someone over the mindset & personality that they have nowadays?

[Anonymous]

If you're one of those guys that has a mindset/ personality but doesn't have the physics. what would you do?

[Anonymous]

Initially, yes but if the person has a bad personality, it ruins his looks. There’s a guy on here that I found very good looking but after reading his questions and his comments, I realized he isn’t very bright. It was confirmed when he asked a question about why women break dates with him. That leads me to believe they realized it too. I hate to talk like that about someone but I’m being honest.

[Asker]

But if the person has personality but not the looks is he undatable in this day age?

[Opinion Owner]

I think so. A good personality can definitely make a person attractive, just like a bad one can make a person unattractive. The tough part is a girl getting to actually know a person. I say that, because initial attraction is important, so if it isn’t there, it’s gonna be harder for a guy to actually talk to her. If you notice, in school, there were a lot of less attractive guys getting gorgeous girls. One of the reasons is it was easier for her to get to know his personality, because as classmates, you’re pretty confined. In the “real” world, it’s not so easy.

[Opinion Owner]

I mean, you would definitely have a chance dating if you have a winning personality.

[Asker]

My mother told me when she was alive that all you needed to have to be appealing to women is to have money, have the right mindset & be fun to be with e. g. Have interests and be funny. Apparently you need to be more now to look like a model and make as much as a celebrity as you can & everything else is irrelevant which makes no sense.

[Asker]

I am never a winner with western women, only foreign women seem to value me.

[laly520]

in a materealistic era

majority cares about looks

[NathanDavis]

I don't... neither my girlfriends did

but others, some do care more about looks, yes... and that's their business, lol

[Kykiono1]

Yes unfortunately