Is it unsexy to tell to much?

[Aliabelle]

So I have a coloscopy soon and for this I have to drink a laxative. So I'm in a "fresh" relationship (a few months) and now I am not sure if it is too much to tell him that I have to take that laxative. Is that too much information or make it me unsexy for him? Or what is you're opinion about it

[abc3643]

No relationship is going to be 100% of the time as sexy. Being in a relationship means being real - the good, the bad, and the ugly. Anyone who doesn't understand this is too immature to be in a relationship.

You tell him.

Good luck. I have to get my 2nd colonoscopy next year; they found polyps in my first one that are the kind that become colon cancer.

[Aliabelle]

Yeah I know a bit that 100% sexy is not possible. But I wasn't sure if a guy can handle this that I take that. Till now I wasn't really on toilet in his near

[Aliabelle]

And thanks

[MrOracle]

in my opinion, there's no need to share quite that much detail. You can tell him you are getting a colonoscopy and that you have to prepare the day before, and that should be plenty of detail. If he already knows what a colonoscopy involves, then there is no reason to remind him, and if he doesn't, then ignorance is bliss.

The same is true with period stuff. We don't need to know the details, just the high-level stuff is fine.

[misfitwomen12]

I think if that’s your partner is for a reason someone who won’t think your “ too much” someone who wouldn’t judge and it’s grown enough to know about adult things. if you are comfortable with him then yes. If he was sick or going to through any procedure wouldn’t you want to know the details incase if anything. After all y’all gotta take care of each other.

[laly520]

u gotta tell him
in a relationship one have to be honest

[Iron_Man]

it depends how close you are and how comfortable you feel with him why are you getting that at such a young age?

[Aliabelle]

We are the most time together. My doctor say I have to do this because I have a lot of stomach pain and he thinks he maybe found the reason in that

[Iron_Man]

Oh ok I see. Yes you can tell your boyfriend.. I hope you feel better

[Aliabelle]

Yes thanks for you're opinion. And thanks I hope it helps me to do that. And it is not sure that the laxative will work on me like in films so maybe it don't get that bad

[Iron_Man]

Just do what the doctor tells you to do and hopefully everything works out good for you

[Charliefretz329]

Lol, I share and laugh at everything with a partner