How do you accept that someone you may like doesn't like you?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

I think about a few women over the years who had some interest in me but I had no interest in them, and I know how I felt towards them; I didn't dislike them at all but was either not attracted or already involved with someone else. I didn't pass any judgment on them.

So if someone isn't interested in me, I imagine that they have similar thoughts and feelings about me.

[Sonorous]

Nowadays, I don't like forcing anything that isn't meant to be. So (hypothetically), if I'm sure that someone doesn't like me, then they immediately become off limits in my mind. Entertaining the idea that I could somehow be with them when reality doesn't reflect it would feel like a waste of time.

[Alwayreckles93]

I am going to be real hinest abd straightforward. I have learn that It doesn't matter how much money I make if I wear the cutiest clothes if I have the nicest fitted body no matter how time I spend in the salon to look cute. If a men doesn't love me guess what it he doesn't love me. That isnthe harsh true.

[Pinay_ako]

By accepting it. It’s not you, it’s them. Focus your attention on someone else or something better to do. You’ll get over them. This rejection is not a failure. Consider it a thank you so someone else can show you how amazing you are.

[Anonymous]

Easy. That's my life. It really doesn't even phase me anymore.

How do I deal with it. I learned a while ago not to let myself have feelings for anyone. Because I know it will always be one sided. After about 10 or 15 years. You get used to it. You just have to stop being hopeful you have to look at relationships as a door that will ALWAYS be closed to you. This is a learned skill like walking. After a while you won't see anyone from the opposite gender as anything but platonic. You will never consider them as anything but platonic. And any "pass" they make as "all in your head". And from then on life will get much easier.

[justarandomperson_55]

It mainly depends on person to person. For me personally, just when I see that the person is not into me, I quickly stop and don't pursue it again. On the other hand, I know some people who don't stop flirting, even when the girl has said that they have a boyfriend or are not interested.

[dustybiker2]

I've never thought that much of myself. The world doesn't revolve around me either. Not everyone is going to like us. Just a fact of life. You have to stick your neck out to learn these things, then move on.

[slatyb]

I'm pretty likable, but not every women I'm attracted to is going to find me attractive. Most do, but not all. That's ok, I know there's no magic person for me. If the answer is no, I just accept it and move on. Plenty of fish.

[Abbycado]

You accept it and hide like someone that goes anon. On the internet.

Basically, a shameful existence of not being heard for who you are.

I'm sure this isn’t relatable.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ok I’m laughing out loud at this point! Keep slamming the anons please.

[TommyMountainFigure]

If it happens, then it happens. That's just a fact of life. There are plenty of people out there who do like me though, so I won't lose any sleep over it!

[Fireguy17]

It's easy, rejection is part of life. It happens to everyone.
It doesn't mean that you are not a good person, in most cases, it's just that the other person is just not interested in you.
Get over it and move on.

[Account]

With grace.
It is perfectly fine if they don't like me.

[Nikki1989]

For every person who wants to be your enemy, there are 100 potential friends.

[Twalli]

LIke, or LIKE. If it's the former, then you just have to accept that you don't mesh. If it's the other, foster a friendship. Friends can become lovers even if there isn't an initial spark.

[laly520]

u think logically about it then plan on moving on

[LiamJHayden]

I move on. She is not obligated to be into me, just like I'm not obligated to be into a girl who likes me.

[DrPepper12]

That's tough. Time I guess or solid diversions. Just don't get creepy about it.

[Rangers]

You'll just have to move on, it sucks, but it happens

[Booklover_90]

You just accept it and move on with your life. What’s the use dwelling on it?

[Anonymous]

It's hard a lot of hurt a lot of heartbreak going through this now unfortunately

[Anonymous]

You just accept it hun.

[DextroShade]

You move on and stop wasting your time on them.

[KrakenAttackin]

You just have to suck it up.

[Anonymous]

I don't blame them lol