Do you ever just get overly mad at the most random stupid shit?

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FatNeville · Accepted Answer

Yes, I do. For example, one time I got so mad about being blocked online by a stranger that I seriously thought about telling my friend that he/she (I won't say which) was not very nice for blocking me without my knowing of any reason why he/she would block me. However, I cooled down and rationally thought the matter through and realized that he/she probably had a good reason, even if I wasn't aware of it, and that nobody should have to put up with my nonsense if he or she does not want to. I think what is so upsetting is not the fact that a thing happens but rather that the cause that led to it is unknown to me. Perhaps it makes me feel powerless and unable to improve my behavior in a particular way because I have no idea why I may have been seen as an unacceptable person, though I can think of plenty of good reasons why I hate myself.

Agent_Elflord · Accepted Answer

No, I can handle a little thing or two, but if I have a "nothing's going right for me" day where all the little shit just keeps adding up, I will pop and then shutdown for a bit.

My shutdown will consist of laying down in a cool, dark, quiet room for 20 minutes or so with noise cancelling headphones and music playing externally (the headphones can't block all the internal noises in my body, it can get too loud when I need absolute quiet, so the external music drowns out the internal noise.)

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

No way!! Why? It’s not worth my energy. I am very very calm…even when I got into a car accident… I was still very calm…
I don’t get upset much…becuase I am a logical thinker…

for example… my student was talking and I asked him to be respectful… he continues 2 more times… I calmly asked him to come to the front of the room and teach the lesson. He felt embarrassed…all other kids quiet down.
But I never yell at him or get mad…

even when people cut me off while driving… I don’t get mad… I just told them they are rushing to the next traffic… or accident… not worth it.

I did get annoyed one time when my hubby or daughter mixed the light and dark laundry 🧺

Siri137 · Accepted Answer

It's precisely  because  it's "stupid shit" that I get mad at it. I expect more from people, I expect them to at least  try  to be their very best, but all too often they seem determined to sink to the level of rabid animals.

DaveJord · Answer

ABSOLUTELY!!! YES!!!

Like I can accept the big shit. Like world hungry what are you honestly going to do about it, because tis bigger than you.

But the little things that we can do for each other on a day-to-day basis. Like say hello, make eye contact with each other as you walk past, ask how you are doing... things like that. These are things we can do for each other on day-to-day bases that cost us nothing.

Pull you head out of your phone or ass and treat people like humans being that have enough value to you, to at least say hi to as you walk by. The eye that holds the door for lady and she just puts her head down and walks past you like you don't exist to her.

These things matter. We can't solve world hunger, but we can still connect on a human level, right? It literally costs nothing for you say thank you to a person.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

What I really hate is when I'm trying to do something INCREDIBLY simple like, hitting a light switch on the wall, and no being able to do it after 3 or 4 attempts!!
What I hate even more than that is when I do something by mistake, maybe knock over a salt shaker; and, when I go to set it back up right, I knock something else over so, I pick THAT up and either knock over the first thing, again or something else and, every time I try to right the new wrong, something ELSE goes bad on me and it just keeps escalating like one of those Russian dolls, each one is bigger than the one before!!

ProbablyClueless · Answer

No, it takes a lot for me to get mad.

The only things I've gotten really mad at are when I have someone repeatedly doing something extremely disrespectful that I've (usually calmly) asked them not to do several times.

But by that point, the person is just being a punk.

MiTHRAWNurudo1991 · Answer

Yes, and it ended up being the culmination of years of stress, anxiety, burnout, depression etc. I had a total mental breakdown and lost a friend, respect, and much much more. I might be at rock bottom now, but I will build myself up!

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Yes, I’m very overstimulated at times. Obviously I don’t go bat shit crazy but I do get moody.

electromagnetic · Answer

I do because I feel like common sense should apply most of the time and it doesn’t. And I get even more upset when it doesn’t

7Phoenix7 · Answer

No, but let it be that time of the month and I'll be annoyed af, just by the way you breathe lol

NathanDavis · Answer

mad at random stupid shit? no... but sometimes I do get mad at every  specific  stupid shit, lol...

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Yes, you ever feel super irritated at something and then your shirt gets caught on something 😤🤬😂

Purpleronnie · Answer

Nope , maybe there is an underlying reason for this ? Or maybe basic reasons like sleep , hunger , hydration, temperature etc

abc3643 · Answer

My wife does. She's like a dandelion. The slightest breeze sets her off.

Nikki1989 · Answer

More annoyed, disgusted or frustrated than overly mad, but yeah, it happens.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Not really no. When I get mad it is rarely over something random!

Pinay_ako · Answer

Yup. I have short temper. Like my height. 🤣

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

These days i'm just feeling tempered most of the times and i'm working on finding ways to relax!

VV3ZZY123 · Answer

Yea I do. Like when I go to press a button on my phone and the screen scrolls up and I end up accidentally clicking some stupid advertisement. 🤬

Lokiion · Answer

No it’s not worth the energy plus it takes a lot for me to genuinely get mad

RedInnocent69 · Answer

No, but I want to repost this question in reply to a lot of other questions on here.

jjj101010 · Answer

All the time. Usually stuff I can’t control

Dinklex3 · Answer

Nah, I’m pretty calm.  Takes a lot.

DJB72 · Answer

Yes, other drivers piss me iff

Emma_Queen · Answer

I'm always really calm

laly520 · Answer

nope

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nope.

Nifrayu · Answer

Nope.

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