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What is something or some things that you wish you were better at doing?
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1.4K opinions shared on Other topic. There's a lot of things. One big one is being able to work on a project independently and be consistent with it. And also being consistent with a lot of habits at the same time sometimes when I focus on new ones others start slipping away.
Because I'm autistic I have to figure out the world and learn how to deal with it, learn skills in small blocks. Like a mosaic maybe. When I was in school the things I needed to know were limited to a small area a corridor so it was easier for me to fill it up with my small blocks and learn everything I needed to know but when I left suddenly life was as wide as the horizon and expectations and challenges were coming at me from every angle. It was completely overwhelming it took me more than 10 years to figure out how to deal with it and at the same time I was also processing my trauma from high school which was pretty bad. I felt like
Now I've built quite a good base of knowledge and skills up in how to deal with life but there's still a lot of difficulties.
My energy/ the amount of things I can do in a day
Social skills are pretty good but in some areas I'm still struggling
Sexuality I've spent so much time alone when I was dealing with all this stuff I need more practice and I feel like there's some things I don't understand yet about myself and others.
Making deeper connections with people being more giving :) It's difficult for me because I have a lot of internal things I need to focus on to keep functioning well so I can't always give a lot of energy or share my things or give away etc.
Some people around me say I'm doing a lot and I'm very ambitious considering my disability but to me it's normal I've had to work so hard to understand myself and clean up my internal world, that's just not as visible to other people but now I've achieved a lot on the inside I'm trying to continue that to the outside it's definitely tricky and different but I'll just keep the same patience but never ending drive to keep going and I'll figure things out.
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I was 25 when I started looking into mental health at 27 I got diagnosed with adhd which I do have but it's not strong first it was a relief because I thought I knew why I felt different. But it didn't explain everything and then at 29 I was diagnosed with autism and then I knew that was it pretty much :)
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yDealing with life and people, it’s been hard for me since I was a kid.
people don’t understand that some people have difficulty dealing with people and this makes it harder to do important things like getting a job and taking responsibility.
What makes it harder is trying to hide it from everyone and giving random excuses.
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941 opinions shared on Other topic. Dancing or singing. I feel like I am sucks at everything lol. I think it stems from my abusive parents who kept telling us that we would never be more than them or other kids. That poor mindset made things even more difficult so I mostly just give up when I fail, sometimes without trying. As I grew up, I know I am good at cooking and baking. Majority of people acknowledge it once they tried my food lol.
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Okay, I really need to correct the grammar and punctuation on that quote. It should read:
"Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don't wish for fewer problems, wish for more skills. Don't wish for fewer challenges, wish for wisdom".
Usage of the word "less" should be confined to continuous quantities (ex. liquids), and not separate entities.
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You're such a grammar Nazi😂
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@KostasKouvalis I've worked as a data entry operator, and when you do that for long enough it becomes a part of who you are, and correcting mistakes just happens automatically.
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It's not like you guys speak proper English though😂
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@KostasKouvalis I was born in England, so... :P
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+1 ySo many things.
Conflict resolution I guess.
And that I was better at drawing, would love to be able to earn money from it, But I need to be better, and faster - and more active on SoMe if that were to be something to earn anything from.
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Clear, fluid, & creative thought processing. Understanding subtext. Understanding hints. Understanding emotions. Understanding seduction (i am as smooth as 100 grit sandpaper). Better at flirting. Better at knowing what to say romantically. Better at understanding electrical engineering.
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Getting over my anxieties or be better at drawing. I've always wanted to be an artist.
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wow you are a piece of art your super beautiful and those eyes are stunning could draw them all day.
by the way look on youtube loads of drawing tutorials there find start with each bit u want to learn like eye nose mouth etc and do one a week soon you will be able to draw face really well - +1 y
Wow thank you 😊
You're super sweet for saying that.
I know there are tons of tutorials out there, but I still struggle with it. Honestly, my main problem is that I don't do it enough to practice it. My anxiety kicks in and I hate what I'm drawing. - +1 y
Thank you so much x 2!
That really means a lot to me! - +1 y
ok quit with the anxiety when any one learns something new they make mistaks driving a car stall it you only learn and get better by practice just set yourself 15mins a daily over a week to draw an eye keep the drawings numbered so at the end of the week you can see the improvement. simples and like i say beat that anxiety out ya head your beautiful now show that you have something beautiful talent on the inside as well.
ill be expecting a dm with an all your weeks drawings so can see how well you have improved its not how good you are its how well you improve that matters ;) - +1 y
Drawing is one of mine too
8.3K opinions shared on Other topic. Writing and painting.
It makes me a little frustrated that I am able to come up with stories in my head and to imagine scenes vividly, alas, I am not gifted.12 ReplyInteracting with people. I tend to freeze up and not be able to talk when I'm around people I don't know. To the point sometimes I'll cry or throw up. At the best I just will sit there looking awkward and not know what to do
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what do you wish you were better at...
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tell me...
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ladies first though...
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especially when they look so nice...
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you mean delicious?
tasty? mouthwatering? exquisite... - +1 y
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nevermind better... wish I was any good at flirting
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@NathanDavis even better than now? women would be doomed...
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anything, is better
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@NathanDavis focus on something else, flirting you have on epic level already
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Taming my submissive side. It seems to have a mind all of its own. And not in a good way either 😩
Love your question!
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Absolutely nothing! It can just be so intense sometimes you know what I mean? 🙊
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Ahahaha 😂🙈
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Music, I really suck at it, I would have loved being able to play the guitar or even sing without killing small animals in shock
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Golf. I am stuck and cannot seem to improve... frustrating lol
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You never win at golf... the course always wins. Still I am totally hooked on golf.
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social skills or controlling my emotions :D depends on the situation :D
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I can only draw stick figures lol 🤣😆 never been an artist 🎭🎨 in that way. Imagination however...😛
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@7Phoenix7 sounds like a famous catchy song without the milkshakes
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Okay lady 😊😁
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Everything. lol
Mostly remembering. My memory isn’t very good…
11 Reply Asking out the woman who is at the top of the page.
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Falling asleep and staying asleep. I know what i have to do. I just wish i didn’t have to do it. I remember falling asleep quickly & easily and sleeping soundly through the night. Sometimes it feels like a completely different life.
00 Reply I ain’t gone lie, prolly understanding people cause people be too confusing lol
11 Reply403 opinions shared on Other topic. Wish I was more witty, more motivated, more assertive, better with women. Lol
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Violin and cello. I play all sorts of guitars, piano, harmonica, mandolin, ukulele, but I cannot get the nag of bowed instruments.
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I wish I was better with communicating skills I think to fast and talk to slow.
I wish I could hear people better a problem where hearing aids makes it more of a problem.00 Reply - 434 opinions shared on Other topic. +1 y
Getting a boyfriend
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I just really crave love and affection 🫤❤️
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Me too, but the opposite
7.2K opinions shared on Other topic. Playing guitar and singing.
21 Reply352 opinions shared on Other topic. Managing my anxiety in my headspace
12 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Other topic. Dancing/Copying dance moves.
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Drawing, I would be able to make my own comic book.
10 Reply 463 opinions shared on Other topic. At math, or piano
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I wish I was better at being better...
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Is what me? Are asking if it's me as in "is it you Joshy?".. LOL..
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Don't riddle me with bullets like you did last time.. 😂😂
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O-okay.. - +1 y
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Sorry Phoenix.. I've prepared all my life for this very moment.. - +1 y
12.8K opinions shared on Other topic. I wish I was better at playing the guitar
11 ReplyUnderstanding women, and their irritating "hints"
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I want to be more mature.
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Thank you! 😊 I try to keep that youthful spirit alive.
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Being more authentic without the help of alcohol.
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OMG you make me anxious by asking that!!! JK 😂 Yeah, my wonderful upbringing modeled we don't talk about feelings. I thought I could break the cycle but I can only report I'm a better parent, not so much a better partner when it comes to communication. But I'm trying! 👊🏻 HBU?
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TY!! 🥰
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anything artistic: painting, drawing, music...
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the Kazoo
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getting multiple women in bed at once
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any tips on that @7Phoenix7
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2, i wish less problems
10 Reply Time management
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At scissoring
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Opinion Owner+1 y😂 haha
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You lol 😂
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I can try
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Singing. 😏
11 Reply 707 opinions shared on Other topic. I wish I was more creative
10 ReplySinging and playing bass
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Bass has eluded me for too long. I just can't get the motions down. Very frustrating.
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@DrPepper12 I can relate
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Socializing.
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I guess you could call it that. I never learned how to do things with or talk to people. Now I'm just a lonely old man.
4.8K opinions shared on Other topic. i don't know
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Seduction
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On and SINGING. I have some good material/melodies, but I lack the voice
2.9K opinions shared on Other topic. Arts
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Drawing
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