Ladies, Would You Take a Charge For Your Man?

[Oliverlogan263]

You and your man are deeply in love. He checks all your boxes, good dicc, go to church, get money, treat you well and you really feel like he’s the one.

He proposed to you and now you feel like your fairytale is coming true

2 weeks before the wedding y’all get pulled over and to your surprise they find some pills, enough to charge him with the intent to distribute

They apprehend him.

You think to yourself , if he gets arrested and charged he will be locked up for at least 15 years because of his priors

You on the other hand have a clean record. If you take the charge you can easily get off with probation

Will you take the charge so you and your man can continue with your fairtytale wedding and life?

If not, will you hold him down for the next 15 years?

Yes, I’ll Do Anything For My Man!

No! He Did the Crime He’ll Do the Time!

No, but I’ll Him Down During His Bid!

[Anonymous]

The answer is no. Period. I'm very clear that I don't want to date or marry anyone with a drug problem, selling or using. So clearly if we were dating/married, this person has been lying to me and hiding drugs and now I'm supposed to take the rap? Nothing good can come from dating/marrying someone like this. In life, we all make our choices, and some you can't easily undo once you make them. I've never used/sold a drug in my life, and I don't intend to have a record, or do time, or get off with probation for someone else's criminal activity. I would also have to explain to my family why it is I'm being arrested, so either that makes me a liar lying to my own family or I tell the truth and they hate him and or try to get the case retried on my behalf.

You also assume they'd give you probation too, but we've all seen it, where someone did some petty crime and a judge pissed off or wanting to appear tough on crime throws the book at someone. There are no guarantees AT ALL in the legal system. Also, I'm not sitting there and waiting for someone who is a liar and selling drugs for 15 years. Again, if you make bad choices in life, expect consequences.

[TheRealPepperPotts]

No, I wouldn't do that, because he's been lying to me the entire time. It would be horrible and I would be devastated. But he made the choices. It would bring the entire relationship and experience into question. I would be enabling him to continue his behavior and I would get away, fast and far.

[Anonymous]

and yet so many delusional men insist their fellow men take a bullet for random women

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao faaaaauck no. My days of being ride or die are barely there anymore. Idc how much i love someone, im not tryna go to jail for anyone anymore. My mom hates i dont even say the stuff i said as a kid like “if you go, i go too.” Now its more like fuuuug no

[Crimsyjo]

I'd like to say no. I wouldn't. But where emotions- and love - are involved. I most likely would. But I'd be mad. And the illusion of this fairytale would probably be broken and eventually lead to a break up. Cos really? Why does he have pills? What else is he hiding? I wouldn't want him locked up (and hell no wd I wait for him) but that trust wd be broken.

[Anonymous]

So he apparently doesn't have a clean record? It's the only explanation for why you think he gets 15 and I'd get probation, so that's likely something he's been hiding I don't know about and I imagine I didn't know about all these hidden pills. Sounds like him going to jail for 15 is deserved and I'd feel like I dodged a bullet because he's apparently hiding all this.

[Dinklex3]

Hell no. Tf would he be selling drugs for? If he’s dumb enough to do shit like that, his dumb ass can sit in jail.
My man knows accountability. Him being some secret drug dealer shows he’s not the person I thought I knew 🤷‍♀️

[electromagnetic]

I love my partner but if he did the crime, he does the time. Unless probation is guaranteed, I’ll arrange for conjugal visits

[CrabCakes11]

No. I don’t date drug dealers or men who go to church

[diversethought]

Lol 😆

[douride2]

If he had those types of priors I wouldn't have been going out with him in the first place

[Anonymous]

Ain’t no way he is not so perfect if he caught a charge