What's the best way to build and improve patience?

[zayndan]

I've never been known to be patient and it'd shameful. But more than that, it's affecting my life, because I get really anxious and stressed out because I want things when i want it, and I'm agitated when I think I've been waiting long enough. I'm not spoiled, I've had to do a lot on my own from young. But I believe I've been able to accomplish a lot and obtain things very quickly once I work. Now I've reached a place where life and results are out of my control, and there's nothing to do but be patient. It's hard having to wait 😆 how can I be more patient?

[Sonorous]

Hard to say since I'm naturally patient. But what helps me when I'm feeling impatient is to make sure that my body is taken care of. There have been so many times where I was burned out or maybe hurting or feeling some type of discomfort & it's why I wasn't feeling the most patient in a moment. But once I get it sorted, I'm usually back to my default.

[exitseven]

I have learned patience over the years. I was very impatient. Now I realize that sweating over something will not make it come any sooner.

[zayndan]

Ah, so true. Why bother being anxious?

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[Insecure2]

I have always been rather patient, but that is more a result of my belief that something will happen or come sooner or later. There is no point in sweating IT. When IT comes to people I try to care as little as possible that way I don't get impatient with them😋

[SugarSugarplum]

Sadly, the BEST way to learn patience is enduring hardship.

[zayndan]

🙏 🪦 rip

[TheSpaceGnome]

Never do that.

[kmg9150]

Some things are easier to be patient about than others. So in my opinion it all depends on the scenario and variables at play. but I’m trying to say is that the more you understand about the situation the easier it is to be patient towards it least in my experience

[Fireguy17]

Hang around with a bunch of idiots.
Just keep adding more time that you spen with them.
Pretty soon your patience will improve.
Just keep doing that until you no longer feel the need to choke them.

[DrPepper12]

STOICISM!! Mu guiding light and life philosophy!!

[TheSpaceGnome]

You are looking at this the wrong way.

You can either be patient, or be motiviated, but not both.

Be motivated, get shit done, get what you want in life, fuck patience.

[TheSpaceGnome]

The time you spend waiting is time wasted, if you absolutely HAVE to wait for something, occupy your time with something else that is fun or productive or both.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

I don't know, but I wish someone would hurry up and tell me.

I haven't got all day.

[zayndan]

Hahaha 😆

[Account]

It will sound incredibly insane, but my patience has improved a lot ever since I started coding.

[nawtee_me]

C++? I took computer science courses in college with a Java class as well. It has been a while and I need to go back and practice. I would like to take a python class too.

[Account]

JavaScript & Python. It really helps with teaching you how to be patient.

[nawtee_me]

Adversity build patience if you have the patience for it……

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Get a girlfriend and you shall learn what you seek seriously try it

[zayndan]

I have one, but it's new, 3 months in and no problems yet

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Wait for it 🫠

[OddBeMe]

I get bouts of agoraphobia and like regular exercise need to fight against it and go out and…get used to people.


People…uhg

[Staximus]

You just have to get your little pea brain under control

[Kingofkings1992]

You can’t improve patience. You either have it, or you don’t.

[chrissykerdock]

sucking a penis for 30 minutes

[nawtee_me]

My girl, we need to get together…. ;)

[chrissykerdock]

@nawtee_me would like that for that long

[zayndan]

@chrissykerdock you're a disgusting guy. Have some self control and get off my post

[NathanDavis]

introspection...

[convo_king89]

Tell ur fat patients to go on a diet

[12karen]

By learning piano.

[zayndan]

I dabble