Should I report her?

[Monalisa77]

Hey guys

I did a college course in person. On the last week my tutor came up behind me, put her hands on my shoulders, pressed down quite heavily and shook me. It wasn't sore at the time but when i went to bed that night it started getting sore. I ended up in a&e and the dr said it was muscle spasms that would go away in a week or two. That time has passed and the pain is still just as bad. I read the pain can come on a day or two after the incident. Im in agony and its affecting my studying. I really should have gotten a neck brace its that sore. Its affecting my tinnitus and giving me headaches

My brothers been waiting trial for 5 years so i feel like i dont want to add anymore pressure on my parents, i can't even tell my dad cos i know hed definitely report it. But if i have to pay for physio i dont see why i should when it wasn’t my fault.

Yes definitely

Yes but only if u need to pay for treatment

No

Updates

1 y

Also when i push the bone in my neck through it makes me feel sick and dizzy

Updates

1 y

Its still killing me over 8 weeks!

[1073sucks]

When thinks like this happen you should speak up and notify it somewhere so there’s proof you did that or else when time passes it can be a he said she said thing and she can just deny it and you’ll have no proof of it and even a single report anywhere.

you should still report it now and see if you get any help. But for any similar situations make sure you make it know it happened even if you don’t purse actions against the person in that moment because perhaps it doesn’t seem much but with time sometimes it’s when the damage shows like now with your situation.

so definitely try to get help. And learn from this no matter how small something my seem make sure you report it somewhere like a nurse at school or even not at school anywhere so there’s proof it happened.

if you went to the doctor as soon as it happened that can also do what help but if you didn’t tell the doctor how it happened then it won’t be registered as she did it. Etc.

[Monalisa77]

There was 3 witness's, my drs report and probably cctv aswell.

[Monalisa77]

Im Not even sure how to as its summer and she and the rest would be off now.

[1073sucks]

Then you definí have a case. If you are damaged don’t wait.

[1073sucks]

Definitely* have a case.
You’re going to have to request the cat footage and the doctors notes from that date
You can talk with a lawyer

[Monalisa77]

Im hoping to see my gp next week she wasn't aware she had even hurt me

[HelpfulWoman]

Easily. Unless you were causing harm to yourself or others, NO REASON TO TOUCH YOU

[Monalisa77]

Yeah someone else said this, i was just doing my work.

[HelpfulWoman]

report. including to police for assault and to your local news/paper

[Monalisa77]

See when i told the dr they didn't see it like that

[DJB72]

It's common assault. Report her

[eagle1951]

hell yeah report her

[Bklynbadboy12]

Why did she do that

[Monalisa77]

Absolutely no idea. It was just so out of ths blew.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes you should definitely report her

[Monalisa77]

Thanks its difficult as theyre probably off now for the summer im gonna see my gp hopefully

[Bklynbadboy12]

Hope you feel better

[Monalisa77]

Thanks

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your welcome