Do you have any toxic jealousy stories?

[Anonymous]

Of a previous jealous partner, now is your moment to share lol

[belle_kai]

Yes, my ex didn't like it when someone looked at me for too long. If we were in a restaurant and the waiter showed manners like pulling out my chair etc He did not like that. Even my hairdresser who is gay, he didn't like the fact we were friendly

[Asker]

Dayum he was on your ass, I assume you broke up with him 😂

[beebella]

I don't have any specific stories, but I have dealt with a few guys who totally thought they weren't the jealous type, but they would still display subtle jealousy. Asking me questions about other guys I may or may not be into and shit. Like, dude... why do you care? 🙃😂

[Asker]

People that claim they aren't the jealous type, I believe all have jealousy, they are just in denial of it, I think everyone has jealousy, it just requires caring about someone or something and it's a basic human emotion, they probably just feel it and don't realize it lol

[beebella]

I have to agree with you, Chico. 😄

[Asker]

😇😇😇

[NathanDavis]

about jealousy, yes... but toxic ones, no

[Asker]

Fair enough

[NathanDavis]

I lucked out

[Agape93]

I don't feel jealousy. But my ex was jealous to the point of causing me permanent damage when he got upset I was still talking to my best friend. A guy I rarely got to talk to at the time, who lived several states away.

[Asker]

What was the permanent damage?

[Agape93]

Nerve damage in my spine. It's why I'm usually taking pain meds like ibuprofen

[Asker]

Oh yea he threw you against a table or something if I remember correctly

[Agape93]

Yeap

[Asker]

Sana sana culito de rana si no sanara oy sanara mañana

[Agape93]

Um... si?

[Agape93]

I don't know Spanish

[Asker]

Its a feel better saying in Spanish lol

[Agape93]

Ah OK lol ty

[Guacamole409]

No Chico, only regrets. He wanted to take me to a nude beach. He wanted to rub lotion on me. We are going to die. We won’t regret what we did, but we will regret what we didn’t do.

[Asker]

I guess that would depend if there's something after death, I don't think that mentality is valid cause you tell that to someone crazy bastard and they will shoot up a school 😂

[Guacamole409]

Have you been to Miami?

[Asker]

For the last 23 years, it's been home

[Guacamole409]

I never went to Hauover.

[Guacamole409]

Haulover

[Asker]

Whats that

[Guacamole409]

a nude beach

[Asker]

Oh I wouldn't know about nude beaches lol

[Guacamole409]

Neither would I, but I wonder about things.

[Asker]

Like what? 😂

[Guacamole409]

The same as you.

[Asker]

I don't wonder about nude beaches tho, I don't have any form of interest in them, not even curiosity, the only thing I've wondered would be if I would get kicked out if I went with clothes on and I was the only one clothed 😂

[Guacamole409]

I agree. But The thought of him wanting it haunts me to this day.

[Asker]

I don't think we are talking about nude beaches anymore, how about a bit of more information so we can be on the same page 😂

[7Phoenix7]

Yep, when my ex started dealing with mental health issues, he thought I was cheating even though I wasn't.

Mental illness is the worst...

[Asker]

Yep people be losing their minds no cap

[7Phoenix7]

Fr, that's one of my worst fears

[Asker]

Really? Out of everything? 🤔

[7Phoenix7]

Yeah because I've seen the WORST cases of it

[Asker]

Oh well sorry to hear you've been treated bad by some nut I guess

[7Phoenix7]

You guess? 🤨

[Asker]

I dont know enough to input anything 😂

[7Phoenix7]

I think you just like to be annoying 🙂

[Asker]

I do when I'm bored lol

Besides you can learn a lot about a person's personality by their reactions to things ha

[7Phoenix7]

Have you learned anything about me?

I learned that you have a broad sense of humor. Lol

[Asker]

I think I have an idea on your personality, you are wildly spirited person but at the same time have a side of confidence and maturity that doesn't allow you to fly off the rails and you like to laugh and value your privacy in general.

[7Phoenix7]

That's pretty good 👍

[Anonymous]

My ex was extremely jealous and toxic. He abused me physically for wearing a dress that he thought was revealing. He gave me the silent treatment for weeks and slut shamed me because i spoke to his friend during dinner and asked a recipe he cooked. He also used to lock me in the house if he doesn’t want me to leave. He suggested cameras inside the house as well… i ended things and i don’t regret fleeing far far far away from this man.

[Asker]

That is just crazy dayum.

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm aware what jealousy means and if happens that I feel like that I solve the cause and don't focus on effect... so no stories to tell... unfortunately :D

[midnightmoon05]

Not jealous … pissed off at some awful people who are users.
what’s there to be jealous of?

[Asker]

Lol fair enough

[StudyingAuthor]

Lol, nope. People don't care that much ab me.

[Asker]

Maybe someday someone will, not that I'm wishing it upon you cause toxic jealousy isn't good but normal jealousy I mean lol

[StudyingAuthor]

oh, okay. Thanks.

[rienna888]

Yes, I had an ex who would mostly be home smoking, drinking, weed with his mom. When he was mad at me he would bash his head against the wall, punch the door and scream at me. When I threatened to leave and walk out, he chased me and would scream at me from above the stairs to come back or it’s done. Then people walking by would stare and be worried for their life or mine. He was also very jealous and would watch me type in my passcode and look at my phone when I’m in the showers