Men, if you could change one thing about woman what would it be?

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ProbablyClueless · Accepted Answer

Better self awareness and communication.

I'd love to see just a little bit more sense of self and boundaries, and reliability in general from women. I know that a lot of men are pretty awful about this too, but it would be really nice to have more faith that the woman I'm interacting with was being forthright and honest with me about where her head is at with different things. I want to be able to trust that when a woman tells me something, what she's saying is reflective of reality, or at the very least I want to be able to trust that she doesn't have some ulterior motive that she's going to try and sabotage me.

If you didn't want to eat pizza, why would you tell me that you're fine with whatever restaurant I choose? If you weren't comfortable with me touching you there, or making this joke, or saying that thing; why would you tell me that those things were fine? And many times, women don't feel comfortable communicating those things directly, even if you expressly ask her; so it feels like you're always tipping toeing around a minefield.

It's really scary to interact with someone when you have no idea where you stand, what their boundaries are, when your relationship with them will change, or whether what they tell you actually what they're thinking.

Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

Being direct, saying what they really want, vs isn't it a nice day? which translates into my cousin is getting married next weekend so you need to cancel your motorcycle trip that you have planned for the last year and drive to podunkville to this cute bed and breakfast while we both attend her bridal shower.
By the way this will be a non-alcohol affair and they are both vegans, so it will be tea leaves and lawnmower clippings for dinner.
I'm sure your friends will understand.

Anonymous · Answer

Just one thing? Lol there’s too many things to pick from. But I’d say a lot of women’s inability to actually listen to men. Most men don’t talk because you women don’t listen. You get scolded. A man knows when he fucked up. He doesn’t need you say seeing I told you. I knew it. Blah blah blah. Just listen. A lot of women think men are complicated but we’re really not. But when we’re honest w you you don’t want to believe it. Like if I said most men don’t care about how much a girl makes, won’t really date a boss B*tch, etc. Women will throw out some nonsense like oh girl it’s cause he’s intimidated by you. All you have to do is listen w out interrupting. As much as you want to go off on your feelings, sit, listen. Learn from it. Sadly a lot of us men feel we’re disposable, that women don’t care about men’s feelings.

ohsheeT · Answer

They're perfect the way they are each one is not the same as the other and the little quirks that they have it builds character and it just makes them who they are I wouldn't change a thing I mean just like with guys there's good and bad things about everybody even myself and.. . Is those type of things that make you fall in love with somebody not all of them LOL

MicahRaine · Answer

Some women have gone overboard on independence to the point of being anti-male. I'd change that.

I do love an independent woman, but there's a point where it becomes more than just independence and that can be unhealthy.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Installing A Volume Control & A Mute Button.

worldscolide · Answer

I'm not sure there is anything. I've always been of the opinion that women and men were put here to compliment each other, not compete, and not be the same. So if I chose something to change it would alter the essence of women, and I don't want that.

RavVid · Answer

So many things and there are word limits as well as the one thing limit.

If I have to pick just one it is not taking responsibility, the subsequent flight to victim hood and the consequential aggressive gas lighting that is engaged in. This a very sore point after the weekend.

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

Their general unwillingness to approach / ask out men. Y'all are big girls. Grow a pair of ovaries, and talk to those dudes!

DrPepper12 · Answer

Their insecurities and hyper competitiveness with each other. You sistas have to STOP tearing each other down and not have a million "What ifs" of anxiety that just does nobody in your life any good! Stop it! Please!!

dragoblack · Answer

Anger & emotional control to where she doesn't hit or throw things, but instead walks out of the room or uses the anger constructively instead of causing damage.

Also, treating men like people, especially when they show their vulnerabilities & emotions to the one they trust, outside of the emotions women only want to deal with.(i get this is mainly a USA problem, but still a problem)

Lynx122 · Answer

I'd remove the weird women who date drug dealers and lust after murderers and the ones who say you have to make at least 500 k a year to date me or so. I don't know I feel like they just make things weirder.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

I think I'd say this about humans in general. I would want everyone to be nicer to each other and less divisive.

jordynthedecayer99 · Answer

Where some are too clingy so taking away the clingyness

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

They could stop complaining about us boys' looking at their boobs, buns, legs, etc.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

Take accountability for all of your actions. Stop deflecting blame or existing your behaviors in semantics.

RingOfFire · Answer

Is that pic hot or is it just me? 😮 And I don't even like redheads! 🤪

Ironco · Answer

Just get to the point , give us the short version. We don't need ever single little detail...

Redstang88 · Answer

Stop expecting us to read your minds 🤬

msc545 · Answer

I think I would make them just a little more like some of the really good men that I know. They would be honest and responsible and diligent.

TheWombRaider · Answer

I would change the fact that all women are trying to be the center of attention and the vanity that most women have

Rapport · Answer

To have your emotions not be affected every time auntie Flo comes to visit you.

nawtee_me · Answer

I don’t know, I kind of like them just the way they are….

Charliefretz329 · Answer

The hormone/insanity issue

Anonymous · Answer

Their hypocrisy

a-r-c-h-a-n-g-e-j · Answer

Periods on command rather than automatically

Anonymous · Answer

I would like women to be more dominant, self-confident and assertive.

Wiredone · Answer

That they don't wear so much makeup.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Stop blaming men for everything lol

Anonymous · Answer

I would make having children less burdensome for them. It would fix most other problems.

Abdulwahh · Answer

Thats a hard question!!

Miah04 · Answer

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