Guy's, if you could change some things about today's female's, what would you change?

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And what would you like them to be like instead?

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

"What inspired me to ask this question was because on quite a few posts, so many guys seem so down on females and some have just stopped looking for one."

Okay. (Deep breath) Asshole Honesty mode engaged. Here it goes.

1. STOP making excuses for every little fucking problem and insecurity in your life; blaming men, "the patriarchy," Donald Trump, white people, etc. The minute I can find one woman who can take responsibility for her own problems and failures in life is the day I'd buy that woman a drink and tell her "Thank You for existing."

2. Stop being such shitty, entitled, negative cunts thinking a man should be on his hands and fucking knees grateful just to talk to you.

3. Stop thinking you get to sleep around and dick the whole town in your 20s and then get to complain "why aren't there any good men?" when you hit the wall at 35 faster than the planes hit the World Trade.

4. Stop being thinking being a whore is "empowering." Every woman (and man) on the planet has holes. That's not "empowering."

5. Stop expecting a man to "impress you." A relationship is a wo-way street and you just being female isn't all you should be able to bring to the table.

6. Stop with the whole "body positivity" shit, while you give men shit for being born to short parents and ending up less than six feet tall.

7. STOP calling yourself a feminist and thinking any self-respecting man would want you or respect you after that. Simps don't care that you're a feminist and no other men would want a woman that despises men.

8. Stop thinking being "bisexual" doesn't just make you a lesbian and that any self-respecting man would want you after you basically implied you'd cuck him for another woman and are only using him as a fucking ATM and guard dog and that he means absolutely nothing to you cause he doesn't have a pussy.

9. STOP calling yourself "queen, diva, princess, girlboss" and all this other pathetic shit.

10. Stop thinking you can provide any value to a successful man if you don't want to have kids someday (unless he doesn't want to, either). You're literally nothing more to him than a fuck-buddy, if that's the case.

11. Stop dressing like a whore and going out half naked with all your flesh exposed and thinking men are "objectifying" you (not that that's a real thing). You're entitled to dress however you want and men are entitled to their own vision. People treat you how you present yourself, and that goes for men and women. If you don't want men "eye raping" you, then put on some clothes and shut the fuck up.

12. Learn how to cook, for fuck's sake. God.

And no, I don't hate women. Not at all. But since I'm not gay, I have nothing to really say to men. If I *were* gay, I'd tell them "stop being simps and grow some balls" and to "work on themselves" (I'm far from perfect and I have MANY insecurities, but at least I have self-respect. That's all I'd suggest to them.)

I'm unsure if GAG will even leave this post up, since one of their moderators seems to be a feminist-type, but I didn't write this to offend anyone, nor do I give a fuck if it does. This is what a lot of us honestly think, but are too polite to say out loud. This world's a shitshow and you can't even find a half decent partner in it, anymore.

horatiohornblower · Accepted Answer

Stop being empowered. Get your confidence, strength and independence from within not from without. I've always seen empowerment as an insult to women. It's like you're telling them they don't have what it takes to do it themselves. That they need someone else to empower them to do it.

Qdbrown · Answer

1. Stop being like men, or like men. Competitive, argumentive and loud are not an attractive quality. Low effort appearance, short hair and tattoos.

2. Start acting like women. Well dressed, prepared and confidence in your feminity. You don't need to be aggressive, be witty, insightful, inspiration, and nurturing.

3. Don't make education and career the focus of your life. It's good to get educated and find a good career, but don't make it the center of your universe. Men don't really care what school you graduated from or what title you have.

4. Learn about feminism, then learn why most men don't like anymore. It use to be about equality. Now it's about dumbing down men for the sake of destroying the patriarchry. Most men are not apart of the patriarchry. They work for a living and are likely to make as much or less than most educated women. And then understand why most men don't chase empowered women anymore. It's to their detriment if they do.

5. Learn to become actual friends with their man friends. Don't turn some into your therapist, others into your handyman, others into your ATM, and then others into your sex toys. Why not just find the best man, than keep a list of guys who think they might get to date you, sack you and even marrying them, when all the relationship is about is your happiness. Being upfront where they stand than leading them on.

6. Don't wait until your 35 or 40 to settle down, if you're serious about starting a family one day. If you're going to be child-free wild child for the rest of of your life, that's great. Just be honest with every man in your life that is a friend or better.

7. Diversify your dating pool. Many women have gotten lazy and have become Tinderellas. They spend hours and hours swiping left on 90% of all these hopeful guys who don't have a chance. They spend even more hours wasting their life texting the few who they swipe right. And then wind up with the players and types they in real life don't really want, after the numerous lucky guys give them a short go, who all slowly make these poor women bitter about all men who treat them like crap. I recall reading an article that said many women on Tinder and like applications swipe around 10,000 times on average during their time on those apps, and not unusual to see more than 30,000 swipes. This is a lot of wasted time.

Anonymous · Answer

It's like romantic comedies. They're not real because it's always written from the perspective of the guys. You always have the perfect woman (not real) who is the object of the guys desire. At the end she always realizes how much he loves her (not real) and BOOM! happy ending (not real).
Now I'm not saying I want a real life romantic comedy I just wish all movies reflected how women really are to stop portraying them as they do.
Now here's the real life romantic comedy which is more of a tragedy. Guy falls in love with avg. Woman ( real) asks avg. Woman out. Avg. Woman has zero interest and rejects guy (real). Over the course of the next 20 years he falls in love with different women. Same pattern asking them out and getting rejected (real). These same women of the 20 years. Date, form relationships, sometimes marry, and sometimes have kids with guys who really have more than a temporary interest in them, cheat on them etc (real). Finally after about 20 years. They're all in their 40's now they're all hopefully mature adults at this point. The guy I originally talked about is still single but established and more or less happy with life. He meets one of the rejections of his past one day. They strike up conversations and keep in touch. They reminisce about the past. Overtime she realizes. Hey, this guy is a really good guy. Why didn't I give him a chance? So maybe she flirts trying to get his attention that she's single now and open for trying for a relationship. Her hints fall on deaf ears as he's all but closed that chapter of his life. Finally she flat out invites him to dinner or what have you. Maybe he respectfully declines. Or maybe he accepts and they have a good time. But all her advances for something more are stonewalled. It's not the worst thing in the world but maybe they keep in touch maybe they don't. At this point it's really up to her but. He stays single. And she eventually gives up on him. She continues to form failed relationships. For the rest of her life or till she closes the book on dating. She never realized how even a guy can only take so much rejection, so much heartache before he realizes the notion of love is not meant for everybody.
Now this is the romantic comedy I want to see!
Because this is a true life romantic comedy.
I don't want women to change.

crmoore · Answer

Well, it wouldn't feel right to change people against their will. But without that in consideration, I'd honestly change their appeal in entering the workforce. Don't get me wrong, I don't think it's wrong for women to want to, in fact, I support their right to do it. But you used to be able to support a family with one job, now in most cases it seems like you need both people working to properly support yourselves in this day and age.

Many people think this is partially due to women entering the workforce. Suddenly, there was a whole other source of money people had, which made prices raise. Though I'm sure there are other factors that raised prices over the years, but hypothetically speaking, if women never joined the work force, America wouldn't just have raised the prices to a point where virtually nobody could buy anything. So, now that it's standard for women to be in the workforce, it does sort of ruin it for couples who want the man to be the financial provider and the woman to be the stay-at-home mother. It's just not as feasbile as it once was, and honestly, it's really, really sad.

But again, to reiterate, I'm not saying it's wrong for women to have joined the work force. Even if it may have had a negative impact on some of my aspersions, they had every right to do it and no obligation to maintain my aspirations.

Slim57 · Answer

I don't want to change anything about the good ones just the bad ones, which there is unfortunately too many of, anyway first of all women need to get out of the social media obsession and fame/attention seeking, they need to stop acting entitled and know their "actual" attraction levels, not what they think they are because of some desperate dudes who don't even wanna date them just screw them, they need to lose the "I dont need no man" attitude, it's cool that you don't need a man but no-one wants to hear that. Also stop treating all men the same and less than human because of one bad one. Say what you will about men objectifying women but it's not all of us just wanting sex, that's just how we are wired and attracted to women, but even then we give women some worth whereas woman just see most men as less than dirt and have no respect for them and won't even acknowledge them, lastly, past matters to any good guy with standards, you can't just be a pornstar and expect to get married to a good man. I could go own I'm sure but I think that's it

Louis-1 · Answer

I don't think i specifically want women in general to change, you are who you are because of the environment around you (and also your genes ofcourse)

but I would like to change that environment and perhaps even get rid of dating apps or make them more balanced, the thing is that this environment is ruining both sexes, men are becoming either fuckboys unwilling to settle down and disloyal when they somehow do, women wait to long to settle down and by the time they do they might not get the cream of the crop either

Anonymous · Answer

Reduce your perfectionism… learn to let some things go

Learn to stop arguing and give it a rest especially after we say to stop

Take responsibility for your reactions and emotions.

Put things into perspective… not every issue is so severe and not worth testing is up.

Realize we are human… flawed and not perfect. We also don’t process emotion like you. Accept but encourage but give us a break.

We have to deal with your mood swings. Do what you can to minimize the damage.

ARWINGx1 · Answer

Well, for one, at least to me, something that'll prove that girls doesn't have any "advantages" when it comes to, say, how many mistakes are acceptable before being rejected, or broken up.

Like, saying or doing something that'd cause the girl to raise her (figurative) Red Flag, because of something that she had not disclosed/warned about/etc. And yet, that one (accidental/"inevitable") "Red Flag" was enough to screw up the dating altogether.

While they should be allowed to "ignore" 1 or 2 of a guy's "Red Flags". (I mean, these 2 are one thing that commonly makes me "scared" of dating someone.)

What I mean is: it should NOT be any harder for guys to date girls, nor vice versa.

(And, honestly, what I'm about to write, might be something that many will disagree on: that they'd be more open to OnS and/or friends with benefits)

NH_Mob_Boss · Answer

I wish girls were more "sexy" in that they wore more skirts and dresses... maybe heels and hose. I feel like the majority of females go for the "out there" look like Billie Eillesh (sp?) or baggy... Maybe that's just me... 🤷🏽

cth96190 · Answer

I would remove Feminism and the attraction to bad boys and sundry other scumbags.
I would insert feminity, a desire for motherhood, an appreciation of the importance of family and a desire to find a morally upright man who wants to love her and be a father to her future children.
Everything that makes a woman a good partner is indoctrinated out of them by the Communist psychological conditioning to which females are subjected from kindergarten to when they leave the ‘education’ system.
The Communist mind fuck is epic. Only a few women are clear thinking enough to recognise what is being done to them.

Anonymous · Answer

not having more than 1-2 sex partners in their life, holding out for marriage, not promoting hyper sexualization, being pro life, find Jesus, learn to take criticism, aspire to be mothers, make family their reason for being, stay loyal, stop gossiping, stop lying, cheating, etc. Basically look... if I want a prostitute I can buy one. I dont need to put a ring on one and i certainly won't have children with one (God forbid). Dont like it? cool. thats why half of y'all dyin alone.

Anonymous · Answer

Generally I wouldn't change much. I love girls and women mostly for the way they are.
But please gain control of your social media habits and addictions and don't drag us men, who don't have social media into it (or as much as require us to have some sort of social media when we prefer to be "under the radar").

I_Am_Sazerac · Answer

I don't wish them to be any certain way. The only thing I ask is treat me the way I am expected to treat you and don't cheat.

I'm not a free meal ticket or an ATM. I'm not here to "take care" of a woman as if she's a child to feed. Its called a partnership for a reason.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Be calm, soft, logical, and quiet. And I don’t mean don’t speak just don’t be loud all the damn time. I don’t want to date a howling dog.

Anonymous · Answer

Stop being such "victims" and appreciate the privileges you have. You are truly the most privleged class of humans in the history of humanity. Open your eyes and see it.

Stop seeing the world through the preconceived gynocentric feminist lens you were handed in school. Think for yourself.

Moose304 · Answer

First I am not down on women. Right now I am looking at a fine lady in my kitchen starting a salad for us later. I am not interested in long-term relationships and they know it. The women I see I would not change a thing. Every woman I see never ceases to surprise me in some way. That's why I enjoy being around them. They don't play games, don't spend long on social media. Etc.

joshua4_0 · Answer

I would definitely change the "I know a good guy when I see them" thing and completely ignore the actual good guys and also I'd definitely change the 6" concept that girls have absolutely stuck in their mind.

Diodoro · Answer

Taking responsibility for their circumstances and accountability of their actions. Too many girls complain when they do nothing, or at worst are to blame for their own situation

Wowboi · Answer

I'd say stay off the social media. It ruined how you feel aviut yourself and your confidence with how you look and it made you negative and resentful towards the opposite sex as a whole.

Paul09 · Answer

Wish they weren't slaves to makeup and fakeness. Or slave to buying "things". Shopping isn't a hobby. Oh and if you like a guy ask him out!

Staximus · Answer

In Southern California they need to be less superficial. They wouldn't know a good guy if he popped out of the toilet and bit them on the ass. It's not so bad in other parts of the country where people in general are less materialistic.

EaterPeter · Answer

Change? May be a thing or two. To increase compatibility not at cost of her self integrity though.

Dan_cColt · Answer

Never gonna change but start being accountable and facing consequences without complaining about it as if it's a bigger problem in "society" or not their fault instead of looking at one's self on an individual level.

Better_off_here · Answer

i want woman to find me attractive and for them to want me just the way i am. i guess i want a woman to be less interested in looks and material things and for them to like men like me just the way i am.

henryallen · Answer

There is nothing to change about women. They are perfect.

Slartybartfast · Answer

Their deep ingrained misandry and subconscious contempt for men and boys.

TexasRed95 · Answer

I would have them be a little more assertive. You never know when a woman has an issue because they never speak up. Even if you ask.

Anonymous · Answer

I highly doubt this will ever change but more women making the first move and asking guys out in the masses or droves

Anonymous · Answer

Stop expecting me to care about you. I never will, you blew it. You can't just do whatever you want and expect me to come around.

Anonymous · Answer

I mean, they can act however they want. Still more and more men are less likely to search for a romantic partner. The amount of work you have to do for such a low quality woman is awful.

Shivraj12s · Answer

Nothing changes required for me All females are good ij their way

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