Does body type matter to you 🤔?

Question

Idk…I use to want a guy with like abs and like a mega athlete body. Reason being that I have been athletic most of my life. The older I get, I seem to care less. In fact, I don’t think I care much anymore. 🤔

As my dear friend would say…

”Old age is catching up to you.”

Dear God 😭😭😭

As long as he is not like on the verge of obesity, he is healthy, he can pick me up, and protect me from danger, I am good. 😌

What about you? Does body type matter to you? 🤔

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

It matters , but only to a certain extent , what matters is their heart and the way they treat you , if they are loving and honest and respectful to you and have always been loyal and faithful to you , you will eventually see that their heart is what matters most , whether they put on some pounds or they changed their hair style or they got wrinkles on their face , all those things will not really Matter to you because you love who they are as a person. Why people that base attraction off of looks will never experience true love , most people that only focus on looks are usually people that are selfish and only care about themselves , they don’t know how to give the same way they want to receive , so if you can’t accept someone for who they are , don’t expect them to do the same for you , it needs to go both ways for any relationship to survive , Picture your partner having their arm chopped off and their face bashed in because they were in an accident , are you not going to love them and stand by them anymore? Why looks should never be a reason to jump into a relationship with someone , it takes way more than looks for a relationship to survive

Iron_Man · Accepted Answer

So you’re looking for a nice man that’s loyal and faithful to you and that is sweet, so the body no longer matters to you so now you would gladly take on a Dad body, even with flab ok cool 👍🏻

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

I mostly care about the face but my preference is a normal male body that isn’t too muscular. I am rarely attracted to body builders.  I like this type of body the most 😍 Not my type 🥱

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

Body type doesn't matter to me at all

Lliam · Answer

It matters to the extent that I have to find her physically attractive. I'm attracted to certain size boobs, curvy hips and a round ass.
Healthy fat in the right places is what gives women their figures. And it makes them soft, bouncy and jiggly.
So I like physically fit, not skinny, not lean and hard, not thick, not obese. I like softness on her waist, tummy, hips, ass and thighs, as long as she's shapely.

And yes, my tastes evolved over the years.

In high school, my girlfriends were shapely. They seemed fully filled out.
In my early 20s, I had a friend who was showing his Pantera at the Concourse d'Elegance car show in Laguna Beach. There were going to be Playboy bunnies there and I was really looking forward to checking them out.
What's funny was, when I did, they seemed rounder and curvier in their outfits than I had imagined. I liked high school girls better. 😂🤣. And those playmates were probably my age. LOL
It wasn't until a couple years later that I came to appreciate those Playboy model's figures as the ideal.

And then, by my mid-30s, I actually preferred a bit more soft padding.

Anonymous · Answer

welcome to old age, grandma! body type stopped being that important to me when I learned that it's as much about diet as working out. I want someone who can enjoy the "tastier" things in life with me and not crap bricks about those extra carbs or sugar. THAT is a major boner killer for me now, no matter how "hot" her body is. People can still be "fit" without living the restrictive lives of "wannabe" professional athletes. And spoiler alert: they are generally a lot more fun to be around as well.

AHHHHHHHHHHHH STOPPPPPP!!! OMFG, my friend was about to chomp down on a slice of pizza and ruin his life. You know how many carbs are in those things? 🤣

NathanDavis · Answer

not really, no...

none of my previous girlfriends had the exact same body type... nor the same height

bodies were not my priority... they were however, all on the healthier and active side, yes... and that I do like and prefer, definitely

Berethor · Answer

So you wanted a hunk, make sense, yea it usual for body type to matter less as you age, in the past I actually had problem with skinny girls, I considered them unhealthy and fragile, but now I understand that being weak is feminine, so now I am usually okay with skinny girls.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Hunk

Huntingnfishin · Answer

Body type matters in that you're getting a read for that person without even having to say a word. If they look like they never leave a gym, they probably are more devoted to themselves than you. If they are super heavy they probably are at least a little lazy. Stereotypes I know!

rachel776 · Answer

It matters to me but I don't need Mr. Muscle Man or anything. I've had sex with guys like that and it is very arousing to have all of that rubbing against your body, but I don't need it, just fit and healthy is enough for me.

menina · Answer

I'm into athletic guys but I'm not athletic at all. I'm thick.
I feel that dating a guy with abs would be hypocritical since that's not my body type.
I guess I need to change my body and then I'll be able to think about dating.

dragoblack · Answer

Yeah. A persons body can tell a lot about how they take care of themselves, so obviously you want someone with a healthy lifestyle and hygiene. Also i don't feel comfortable with bigger women, they just feel gross and from experience, they don't eat healthy or make an effort to keep physically healthy.

Avcfhcic · Answer

I'm in no position to be shallow at all, but I don't think I could go for a girl that's overweight. I just wouldn't be attracted to her.
So to a degree yes it matters, but she doesn't have to have an athletes body, just in good health

Account · Answer

In the past I didn't care much, but as I get older I changed my mind.  If other people have strict standards regarding body type, well I am gonna have them too.  I prefer them lanky.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I don't mind to be honest, what matters most is his personality and face. Body is cool if he got it but isn't a big deal for me especially because my body sucks.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Yes and no, I do a fair bit of sport, including running and biking, and like trying new random stuff, that does tend to add some natural limits in potential dating partners.

MysticDevice · Answer

To a degree yes. I'd prefer someone relatively in shape. I'm not looking for and olympic athlete but I also don't want someone who's just unhealthy.

I try to stay in relative shape too. So someone who can keep up on bike rides would be nice.

Anonymous · Answer

Sometimes it does, but not always. For example, I prefer girls with inverted triangle body type.

Damaged00 · Answer

Not one bit. I could care less about what is on the outside.

BetaBucks · Answer

Yeah it's the most important feature. Face, butt, boobs, etc... are all extra perks for a girl with a fit body.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It matters to me. But only to the extent that that I wan our lifestyles to line up. So basically I want to date a woman with an athletic physique.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I am shallow in this respect: I will not date her if she's morbidly obese. She doesn't have to be a fitness freak like I am. I don't care about height, hair, eye, skin color or anything like that, just the aforementioned.

bobalife · Answer

somewhat, I like strong arms to melt in his bear arms/hugs to feel safe and other thangz.

faith_it · Answer

I like slim men or at least not big but I am big. Gosh I don't remember anymore myself when I was slim. I do have a body goal though

4ngelic · Answer

it's all good to me as long as they're not overweight or sickly skinny

Xoirwinkan · Answer

Definitely, like I could never date an obese girl, but other than that I am not too picky. I am fine with a girl with 'love handles' or a petite type. I prefer big boobs and wide hips but they are not MUST HAVES

_Senorita_ · Answer

No but a good Heart type does matter to me🙂

Juxtapose · Answer

Yeah, some look better than others and that is going to determine ease of erections but other than that it shouldn't matter too much. I also would like someone who is mobile.

loveslongnails · Answer

In the sense that I'm either attracted to her or I'm not, yes that means something. Do I have certain preferences, sure.

Makeushiver · Answer

My experience is similar to yours and, like yours, has changed over time

MicahRaine · Answer

Beyond being able to stay active, not a ton. It does add though.

nawtee_me · Answer

Body type doesn’t really matter to me as long as she can fend off the loins when we go on walk-about I am good…. lol.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

OF COURSE !!! I've never liked fat broads !!!

andy530 · Answer

It matters a little but is not a complete deal breaker (outside of extremes)

Walksbehindtherows · Answer

Yes, it's important. I don't want to sleep with a fat or skinny woman.

PeterLegg91 · Answer

You got abs then? Not really for me but I do like a curvy girl and I like men with a six pack too ;)

Hotboy_booblover · Answer

I love body fat on girls.. they look sexy.  Love handles and underarm fat... looks nice... side boobs fat is hot

Amur8711 · Answer

I just want her to be healthy and a figure that gets me excited, doesn't need to be perfect.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, body type is probably the single most important factor to my attraction to a woman.

Jpie555 · Answer

Body type is important but personality is more important

fifjejehxhehdd · Answer

Body type definitely matters. Fitter women are hotter

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Athletic preferred.

quickquesocheese · Answer

No. Its more of a question about health.

Anonymous · Answer

Nah, so long as she's not FAT.

thearchjoker · Answer

ofcorse it matters

Dargil · Answer

Within reason, it does.

verified · Answer

yeah lol I don't want them to have a cock

Dongie · Answer

I'd say I'm about the same as you there.

RMSTitanic · Answer

Lol why does picking you up matter?

Tashaaaaa · Answer

Nope it doesn't affect their performance lol

Adogdog · Answer

Not so much, but I do like a cute face!

In_Trance · Answer

Yes it definitely does

dudeinohio · Answer

Doesn't matter

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

Not really.

eagle1951 · Answer

nooo

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