If a person doesn't have the balls to stand up for themself, is it a sign of weakness?

[scott04sa22]

[The_Confusion]

No, they just lack the subconscious programs that make them strong. ﾠ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dG5cZzbKvW0

[blueonblack22]

Yes and no. I figure this about an incident where you didn’t stand up for yourself and now you are worried about your rep, turning off a girl you liked, etc

But let’s be real. Virtually everybody has had bitch moment at some point. Maybe they were caught off guard. Maybe they were all scared/distracted about something else. Who knows.

But whether or not you are going to let it get to you is up to you and you only. Seriously 95-99% of the people you are interacting with right now will no longer be involved in your life in the near future. The only people that stick around is your family and maybe some close friends you know for many years.

But as for the rest of these people and their “opinions” they can all go f*ck themselves. But I get it being a man you want to prove you still got “your balls intact”. But you are judge of that and no one else. But it’s not worth torturing yourself over it.

[rienna888]

Not necessarily, sometimes they might have bad experience or trauma which prevents them from being strong. They might have stood up for themselves in the past and it backfired. Sometimes they’re using their brains and to just ignore it as it may escalate the situation or the person they’re taking shit from is their boss. And they’d rather put up with it, as it’s their only option and they have to feed their kids. They will eventually have the courage to as they gain more life experience

[Fanfare690]

If they are getting attacked online by anonymous people no. The people attacking anonymously are the cowards :)

[Anonymous]

depends on who the individual in question is according to a frame of reference

some people for example can't win no matter what

e. g. if Trump stands up for himself, he's an asshole. if Trump doesn't stand up for himself then he's a coward

either way, standing up for yourself is the best thing anyone can do

[Yannae]

No. You can choose your battles. You can get back at them at a later time.

[jshm2]

No.

Could be they are letting you off easy, or they don't want to engage more than you.

[LiamJHayden]

What is the context? If someone smaller and irrational tries to start some sh*t, I walk away. I'm not knocking someone half my size out because he had a bad day.

[exitseven]

Yes, if you can't stand up for yourself ho are you going to stand up for your wife?

[morganherrel]

You answered your own question with the premise that he doesn't have the balls for it even if he wanted to do it.

[FreyaRed]

Such cowards come never to Valhalla

[noohair]

Is this the hill you want to die on?

[Agape93]

Yeap.

[Account]

Yes.