Are answers here untrustworthy?

[Anonymous]

I’ve posted pics of my body a few times about how my progress is with my abs. I’m getting definition and getting there yet everyone just says no I don’t have abs. It’s BS. You can see I’m developing definition. People even saying I’m normal and not fit and healthy, ridiculous 🤡

It’s often people who are losers/hateful/jealous that are answering these polls

This site isn’t to be trusted

I disagree

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I’ll give you an example I put an answer in between saying ‘nearly there’ the fact only one person picker that shows. Like I’m definitely at least nearly there

[MisterWack]

I mean it depends on who follows the individual, who is online, if the person is blocked, if the question is biased / railroaded, and so many factors.

For good and totally accurate polls you need a larger sample size and where everyone can opt in / equal opportunities to chime in. This website (and any website for that matter) won’t cut it depending on the topic.

[jojouzumaki]

It all depends on how you accept their opinion.

I see it this way, we asked here in order to learn others perspectives. when others stated their opinion; we have to respect that and be thankful because they give some thoughts. we can’t hate them just because they don’t agree with us. if we’re coming here seeking for attention and just wanted people to agree. then, how we will be able to evolve and be better?

[Anonymous]

1. You not liking the answer doesn't make it wrong.

2. Half the pink accounts are men posing as women so even if you're only asking women, you're not really.

3. if you think everyone else is wrong and you're the only one that's right, don't ask.

[Asker]

No some women had said what I think is true that I’m getting there and nearly have full on abs. But then other dudes were just saying no etc. I only posted because it’s clear I’m nearly there

[Asker]

You can see good definition

[Anonymous]

Yes. You have to take the answers you get here with a grain of salt. Most are not here to give you honest answers. But most of the b. s. answers will be anonymous. In fact I always recommend blocking all anons from posting an opinion whenever you ask a question.

[Anonymous]

When you choose to put yourself out there to be critiqued then you shouldn’t get mad and call everyone haters for doing exactly that. Maybe you just aren’t showing as much progress a you think you are, which is common to have a different image of yourself than others.

[Asker]

I’m putting in the hard work and sacrifice and seeing the results and then you just get bullshit responses. It’s not reliable.

[Opinion Owner]

So if you are personally seeing the results and won’t accept otherwise, then why seek outside validation about it? A bunch of strangers, especially women, have no need to lie to you, so you are probably in denial.

[Asker]

You can literally see I’m getting ab definition. That’s why I posted it. I am the most critical person of myself

[Opinion Owner]

And an anorexic person can literally see the fat when they’re basically skin and bones.

[Asker]

So now I have a mental illness and delusional. Interesting…. I’ve made the sacrifices on my diet and in the gym……but I’m delusional and seeing things.

I think it’s more like people get jealous when someone is in better shape, don’t like to give credit where it’s due, and get annoyed at repeated questions

[Asker]

I’ve asked different types of questions and I have found the same thing to be true when I ask about money etc…

[Asker]

Also I’m not in a very top career by being delusional

[Opinion Owner]

Not at all, I’m demonstrating to you how you can have a perception of yourself that outsiders may not. No one is saying you’re delusional or not making progress just not noticeable yet in the way you believe it is. People should be able to tell
You this and you not take it as jealousy or a personal attack. Of course there’s a difference between constructive criticism and being flat out harsh, but by the way you lashing out at people here just makes me think you were never truly open to outside opinions.

[Asker]

In the photo you can literally see how my stomach isn’t flat because of my abdominal muscles coming out. It’s not what I think it’s a fact. I didn’t choose to believe it

[Opinion Owner]

Too bad you didn’t post it here as a reference point. But that’s ok.

[Asker]

I’ve had multiple people tell me I’m in great shape, they have no need to lie. Yet online I’m somehow ‘normal.’ When normal people carry more fat and less muscle than I would
Maybe people are desensitised with people taking steroids and social media

[Opinion Owner]

Pictures will almost always look different than how you look IRL. I personally don’t see what’s wrong with someone saying you look normal, it doesn’t sound like a diss just that your progress looks average in those pics. You seem to seek a lot of outside validation both in person and online, why does it matter so much?

[Asker]

I have to be that guy with absolutely every possible thing going for him

[Opinion Owner]

And that’s fine but what’s that have to do with outside validation? Are you trying to garner admiration?

[Kori1236]

You get that this isn’t Google right? That answers will always vary. To some you may be seeing progress but to others it’s not enough progress to be considered good. It puts you on track but not necessarily where they would consider progress made

[Anonymous]

If you don’t want peoples opinions then ask for them. You’re on here asking and then get upset over the answers because they’re not what you want them to be. Ridiculous. If you’re so sure that you’re making visible progress then why ask.

[Asker]

To test this very issue. Everyone in person friend or not would say I’m in great shape

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Maybe we’re getting sick of being made to validate you when you’re clearly capable of doing it yourself

[SweetPi]

If you have to ask your not worth a good grade!

[mistiQ]

I just feel like not everything needs to be posted for other people to see. You know your progress with your body and does not need the opinions of other people.

[Flower7]

If you feel like your abs look good, then stop worrying about what other people think. Why even post the pics?

[Anonymous]

Yep. They are. You are probably delusional. If you know you are making progress, you wouldn't have to ask anyone lmao.

[Asker]

Wrong I’ve been testing this site.
You’re proving my point

[Opinion Owner]

If you have time to "test" this site, you need a life hahaha. 🤣

[Redstang88]

Don’t ask a question if you don’t want an answer

[OtterMan68]

depends on the topic. Do not trust people who post things on the society and politics thread who can't back up their assertions.

[LiamJHayden]

Opinions are by definition subjective. As long as you are happy and see results, it is fine to ignore the opinions of everyone else.

[noohair]

TRUST BUT VERIFY.. I give honest answers based on my experience. As for others, I don't know. Good Luck.

[Anonymous]

That's a pretty broad accusation for one area of self-serving questions.

[exitseven]

It wouldn't be on the internet if it wasn't true

[Jmmmfi4]

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