Howcome when a man doesn’t want to be a dad he’s labeled a deadbeat but when a woman doesn’t want to be a mom she’s just making a choice?

[Anonymous]

[mandyfire98]

Well a guy who doesn't want to take care of a child only has to financially.

A simgle woman who has a child has to actually nurture and raise it. She's the one waking up at 3 am to feed the baby and rock it back to sleep. Help the child with homework, cook for the child, spend time with it.

A deadbeat dad only has to pay money monthly. So the biggest tax of child rearing has and will always be on the woman. That's not even mentioning child birth and carrying it for 9 months.

[Nikki1989]

Historically, women have been primarily considered caretakers and mothers, but you should know that if you really are female.

[Asker]

How exactly does that answer the question?

[Danny_dan92]

I’ve never heard of this.




To me a deadbeat is a guy that has children and he’s not manning up to provide and take care of his children

[mandyfire98]

Deadbeat dad is somebody not wanting to be in his child's life.

[Danny_dan92]

Precisely. If a man doesn’t want to take the responsibility of being a father, he shouldn’t have unprotected sex. In my opinion

[Anonymous]

The equivalent of a deadbeat dad is a woman getting an abortion.