Do you think it's necessary or unnecessary for men to ghost women they aren't interested in?

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I think it's necessary because when men reject women, the woman begins to argue, berate him, and debate. The man is better off just ghosting to avoid the headache, lol. Even me as a woman, if I decline to share my personal information with an intrusive unmarried plus size lady coworker, she wants to debate me over not sharing my personal life. But if I ask her how much she weighs, she would go to the restroom and cry, lol. Make it make sense 🤣🥴

Jove79 · Accepted Answer

I ghosted this one personal before, but I absolutely had to.. but I voted for.. it’s a coward thing to do.. why? If you don’t like someone, tell them and that’s all.. they’ll get the message and slowly move on.

But one person I met online, she had pics posted on her IG, she looked nice, I think she was like 5 or so years older than me.. into the gym and looked like a business woman.

I met her and man.. the pics she had on her profile were from probably 15 years ago I’m guessing.. and 50lbs pounds heavier now.. and there’s no filters in real life.. she was chubby and much older looking.. and I’m there just shocked the entire time. She became obsessive to talk and contact me, even after I told her we are not a match. I ghosted her 100000% she was gone.

But for the average situation, never ghost just let the person Know nicely and move on.

QuestionObsession · Accepted Answer

One time I rejected someone saying she is not my type. She came back after a week or two saying how much she was hurt and was missing me and to convince me that she will become my type. I gave her a chance. 2 weeks later she said that we are not right for each other.

I was like, bitch that is exactly what I had said already and why I had trashed you!

Some women are so fucking stupid that they cannot handle rejections and will come back to for another chance so they can end it themselves, for whatever superiority shit they get off on. It is pathetic 🐶

lyrem04 · Accepted Answer

I don’t think it’s necessary I find it immature. Just communicate but if they try to argue then walk away that wouldn’t be ghosting since they said what need to be said🤷🏾‍♀️

OneViewpoint · Answer

Nah, I never ghost people. But I deliver the "NO" message in a brutally blunt manner that leaves zero room for interpretation. That seems to do it. I've never had a woman try to argue that with me. I think I intimidate a lot of people.

slatyb · Answer

If I have actually met someone, or corresponded with them, I will send a final message: "It's been nice meeting you, but I don't think we're a match. Best wishes for your future." After that, I will no longer respond.

dudeinohio · Answer

Yeah. I had a woman go nuts on me when I tried to break up. So I just said I was being called into work night shift and she eventually dumped me. Lesson learned.

WhiteThought · Answer

I would make that decision on an individual basis. Not everyone woman is going to be annoying and start arguing with me. For the ones that do, most definitely getting ghosted.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I prefer to reject then block/leave nowadays. That way my opinion is made clear, but I'm not having to listen to a rebuttle about it.

WonderingManII · Answer

It's a coward thing to do!!

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