How to not be bothered by your physical ugliness?

[Anonymous]

I'm ugly. All my life people have tried their best to let me know that I'm not beautiful. Every time I'm attending a social gathering or a family get together, my elders would pass cruel jokes on how I look. I used to very thin in my teenage, even now I struggle to look all curvy and beautiful. So whenever they saw me, they compared me to kids, make fun of my face, teeth, hair, body- everything. Same goes to my neighbours and friends. I once had a neighbour tell me that no man would ever love me, even if I have a lot of money. My friends at college regularly said that I had a great personality and my looks didn't matter.

I'm starting a good job soon. I have to move to an alien land and I want to not be laughed anymore for looking ugly. I know I'll be told to take care of my appearance. I can't gain weight enough to look beautiful. I still eat healthy, exercise, have a skincare and a haircare routine. However, real ugliness can't be solved. Any clue on how to be confident despite being ugly? Thanks.

[Anonymous]

If you're complaining so much about being ugly, then why don't you consider getting plastic surgery? And once you become beautiful, don't care with anyone. Take your revenge by treating them like they're nothing.

[Asker]

Actually plastic surgery isn't that common here. I don't know what to fix either, it's like I've average features just they don't look good together.

[Opinion Owner]

Where do you live? If you think you're pretty or fit the beauty standard, don't care too much.

[EmmaMary]

REPORTED...DUPLICATE.

How many more times are you going to keep posting this nonsense? smh

[Asker]

What do you mean? I haven't posted anything about it before. I have asked questions but they had nothing about my appearance. You probably mistook me for someone else.

[Asker]

Also, I think there can be more than one person going through the same. I wish I didn't bother you but you can always ignore questions like this since they offend you. It was very rude to report someone's post because you can't ignore it.

[Staximus]

You're not even ugly.

[Anonymous]

Therapy.

[Asker]

Isn't helping. I hate to hear "but you've a great personality". If personality did matter that much people would not be so mean to me.

[Opinion Owner]

Try a different therapist. Your mindset needs help unlearning.