What do you think of my reaction?

[VIVANT]

Sometimes my boyfriend sends me a video I sent to him awhile back that I completely forgot about. Seeing it new.. I find I am charmed by the person I see in the video but that person is ME.

What do you think of my reaction?

Updates

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Thank you everyone for your responses. 💛

2 THINGS:

1. I wasn’t “self impressed” by my reaction, I was concerned but I wanted to ask the question in a neutral way as to not “lead the witness”.

2. I’m receiving a great deal of private messages asking about the video itself ~~ It’s a “GOOD-MORNING- HELLO 👋🏻 ☀️ 🌞” there’s nothing incendiary, whatsoever.

Thanks for not calling me a narcissist! 😅
☝🏻 Unexpected 😏🙃

[Lliam]

Your reaction makes me smile.

It's like seeing yourself through someone else's eyes and realizing how amazing you are. It's a way of seeing how you look to others. You shine.

We can't have an objective image of ourselves until we stand back as an outside observer.

I'm so happy for you, Vivant. 🌷🌹💖

[Zack-Bann]

You having a boyfriend is making me feel like times have truly changed.


And think your reaction is understandable


You’ve always been a charming person
But it’s not easy to see ourselves as such in the moment


Watching something after a while is the true judgment

[roxy_362]

Serendipity? The events, by your description, have developed in such a natural fashion that, as an outside observer, one cannot help but smile... I wish all human interactions were so unforced and sweet!

[Caroline91]

It's such a wonderful gift to be able to see ourselves sometimes through the eyes of someone who loves us. Believe what you see. 🩷

[OlderAndWiser]

You are becoming older and more circumspect. . . and wiser!

[WindAtMyBack]

You have a boyfriend? About damn time... I mean congrats! No, I actually meant it's about damn time.

I don't know about your reaction. Someone in love has a certain look. Are you surprised that it's you?

I'm thinking he must be someone special.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

It could be both , maybe your spell bound and you feel whatever he would send would be charming

So because you feel that for the person.

Maybe it's not really about the video it's about the person.

We build our own happy illusions 😁.

[nawtee_me]

Being okay with who you are and liking you for being you is a very good thing that a lot of people can’t do for whatever reason. To be one who can is amazing and a credit to you for sure. I am proud of you because that is a big achievement… It is a confidence booster and at least to me anyway; confidence is very sexy…. Have a good day….

[lightbulb27]

I'm glad you found a boyfriend and are experiencing the joy of having someone care about you.

[loveslongnails]

You've always been a charming person, for as long as I've known you. :)

[Jerre]

I think many people would feel the same as you do

[Jerre]

@VIVANT Thank you for the Like

[DonaldDarko]

It's familiar. I've read old posts I made years ago and I thought someone else must have written it except I knew I did.

[TonyMetal___86]

Finally, i hope that you found someone who truly deserves you 😊

It's to late to find out that you're charming skyscrapper girl because you were charming all the time 😌

[Sevenpointfive]

boyfriend? yeah right. the day vivant gets in a relationship... naw that's not happening.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I am telling you she's under some vodooo

[Sevenpointfive]

@Aakash_Hangargi i guess so. but i know a little white magic if it helps

[Sevenpointfive]

is this April? ... i can't have lost that much time this time... it's the fool's joke

[Shiprex]

It's not a negative reaction in the slightest. Normal if you ask me.

[SotiCoto]

... Nothing. It is none of my business and I don't care.

[Ad_Quid_Orator]

I don't think it's odd as our perspectives can change over time.

[Lynx122]

That's a good thing :)

[Xawyx-2]

I think it's an appropriate reaction.

[TallAnon]

Hell yeah 😁 That just means you're awesome

[Jennz6]

Someone sent me a video too

[JazzieJanna]

Aww that sooooo sweeett miss u girly hmu pm

[Still-alive]

Good for you

[Shabooms926]

What kind of video did you send him?