People say my life is boring?

[Anonymous]

I am very spiritual person and for me going to church and doing those sort of activities are part of my life I enjoy doing that as well as nature and playing pickleball and just going out for some coffee with a friend yet I get made fun off how boring my life is and I need to enjoy my life more and do fun stuff

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Is that boring?

[Screenwriter]

If you are enjoying your life, friends and feel confident that this is what you want to do IGNORE those idiots. They're doing what THEY want to do.

You cannot compare people. We are all different and we find out paths by trying out different things.

Just smile and say, "Boring to YOU. Not to me!" and walk away.

[Cutegirl06]

As long as you are happy that is all that matters! Tell these people that they are the ones who are boring if they have to be telling you that your life is boring. You do you and forget about what other people say about your life 💯

[lightbulb27]

that's not boring, you are enjoying real life. so many people live in fantasy computer games, don't socialize or be active. you wouldn't believe it. keep doing what inspires your heart.

you could get a dirt bike and go riding. that be exciting. a lot of girls ride at my club

[wkhan_87]

Let people say whatever they want
Do what you enjoy

[Asker]

What makes people say that

[wkhan_87]

Comparison

[Asker]

So basically they compare how there life is better

[wkhan_87]

Yes they think more active life is better..
But some people like simple sobber life with strong aim...

[Asker]

Got ya

[wkhan_87]

Thank you so much for the MHO @Abbiii

[HusamRocks]

Since you like how your life is going and enjoy it, having peace with it, no body's opinion should affect you, unless it's for a better change that you need not because they said so
You are more mature than someone twice your age, you don't know that yet 👍🏻

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Well at least you have a life. Church offers community etc. Christians removed festivals & spiritual routes from pagans & now we love divided. If you want community as a pagan now you have to LARP as a Christian.

Value your community above all else. Without them you'll be a loner taunted by demons all the time, like me.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

That only depends on you. If you don't really get bothered me what you're doing, if you're happy or barely get lonely from it without even convincing yourself, then what people say about your is wrong. They're just projecting themselves into your life and think it doesn't work for them therefore they think it doesn't work for you too. You're not the wrong if you say your life is not boring if you're just true to yourself.

[Arcadian222]

Observe who is saying that, and then check whats different in your life than theirs. You would know what is making them say this. And most certainly, it'd be a stupid reason.

But since you are 14, just wanted to share my formula of assessing so you can try yourself also

[Caroline91]

Kinda sounds like you're doing fun stuff to me.

[Asker]

Fun for them is smoking going out late and partying

[ChicoFromThe305]

Welcome to the club, dont seek validation from a would that crucified a perfect man.

[ChicoFromThe305]

World*

[Asker]

You’re saying they make fun bc I’m Christian?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nope i mean you shouldn't care what these people think of you, if so then that means you are seeking validation of a world that once crucified a man that lived his life perfect. (Jesus)

[WonderingManII]

I don't think that is a boring life. I sounds like a nice laid back life. Have some friends, and do what you enjoy.

[Asker]

Thank you 😊

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s very baseline white culture, “boring” here is very relative. If you’re happy, you’re happy, but in my personal case I would not be happy living your life.

[andreasderjuengere]

It's your own life. You can be as 'boring' as you like.
When others stick their nose into your own affairs, then perhaps their own day is... " boring" as well? Otherwise they would be busy with some own stuff 🤔

[Nikki1989]

It would be boring to most people, but that is not relevant. Do what you enjoy. What others think is a moot point.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Modern church is deliberately boring as an attempt from a particular diasporic group to stop Europeans feeling a spiritual connection to their heritage, even if that's a Church.

[genericname85]

why do you ask others if your life is boring? do they have to enjoy your life or do you have to enjoy your life? if it's not boring to you, why does it matter if it's boring to others?

[Phoenix98]

Does it matter whether other people find it boring or not?

It's what you enjoy so their opinions are irrelevant.

[slatyb]

It's your life to live. Different people like different things. Ignore them.

[TonyMetal___86]

I think that your life is pretty interesting, i'm glad that a little girl like you from this generation is following the path of god 😊

[glennos89]

Just be yourself and follow your own path no matter what other people think about it

[Staximus]

Just live your life how you want to, and the hell with what other people say

[Bklynbadboy12]

Who cares what they think you have to live you life doing what you like and let them live their doing what they like

[BCRanger10]

Why do you care?

[Asker]

Bc sometimes people care what others say

[seeyounexttuesday]

who says your life is boring?

[Asker]

People

[seeyounexttuesday]

can you be a little vaguer

[In_Trance]

So what is your question

[Asker]

Does it sound boring

[In_Trance]

Not if that's what you like to do

[Asker]

Thank you

[In_Trance]

You're welcome

[Anonymous]

Just don't listen morons.

[Asker]

Why they do that

[Anonymous]

Sometimes it's not bad to be boring.

[TongueBlows]

I think its exciting

[someone_2002]

Nope

[hirandomgirl]

shake it off

[jahaims]

You're in a cult

[Asker]

If I go to church I’m in a cult