Growing up, were you ever spanked?

Question

I was spanked regularly while my three older brothers were never spanked.

mstbooblover · Accepted Answer

Oh yes, my brothers and I have been spanked regularly, and actually never for any serious reason. My father seemed to enjoy that. He used a long thin stick, and after we had to pull down our pants, he gave three very painful hits on our naked buttocks.

I guess the idea was to humiliate us. He actually got the idea from what colonials did to local workers in Africa when the boss was not satisfied for some reason. What those African people had to undergo was much worse: they were face down bound with arms and legs apart to the ground to stakes, and were hit a long time really badly with what was called a "chicotte", a particular kind of whip, in English a "sjambok".

mobiusforniner · Accepted Answer

Yes. With a belt. A metal hanger wire. My dad’s boots. Sticks. Metal and wooden objects. Tools. My mom would tell me she knew her message wasn’t complete until she drew blood

a lot of the time it was simply because my parents were emotionally reacting to something else and I happened to be “in the way”

I didn’t think much of it until I had my own kids and my dad got really angry one day at a family dinner and he wanted to beat my 2yr old son for “smiling too much and looking like a fag”

I’m done with the boomer generation

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

Yeah.. My mom never hit me but would just shout loud at me..
I used to bug and piss off my dad often tho so he would chase me down and beat me with a belt until I cried. When I got around 12 it didn't really hurt anymore and I would just be laughing as he hit me and then he started laughing cuz he was getting tired and it was funny cuz it wasn't working lol..
I don't think he really hit me after that unless he was super pissed at my mom then he would just come out of nowhere and slap me really hard on the back for no reason other then that he was mad. I cried a few times from that cuz it was a shock and my dad was a really strong guy..

DeeDeeDeVour · Accepted Answer

All three of us (me and brothers) got the spanking we deserved.

It wasn't often but it happened when each of us did something extreme enough to get spanked.

None of us believed it's parental abuse like meddling family or friends would say.

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah i was a good kid so i never had to be disciplined like that. My siblings got spanked because they were bad

foxsquirrell · Answer

Yeah, my father is a bonehead who can't control himself. At the same time he is a pussy with the outside world. Not a man at all. He hurts his closest family members, but then he is not remotely as tough with the outside world at work and such. I hope I do not reflect him at all. He is a weak man, and weak men do not command respect. And my mum dominates over him. Sometimes I think mum is lesbian. Why would she otherwise marry such a pussy. And in addition she is not delicate, nor does she project any feminine energy. She also likes to wear shorts in Summer. Bermudas kind of. I am ashamed of them. What a disgusting family structure I lived in. Sure there are those who were or are worse, but it does not make my situation any better. Its still pathetic I mean, and shameful.

FreyaRed · Answer

Yes. 3-4 times. First time I was 5 or 6. I tossed a stone on my friend because she tossed stones on me. I just aimed better hit her with a sharp stone on head and she started to bleed like crazy. 10 spanks with thick leather belt, this has hurt.

TheDraconianJester · Answer

My siblings and I were rarely spanked by our mom, but we've had a few moments of spankings when we were being stupid (Like little kid stupid.) I remember my older brother slapping me over a game we were playing once, and our dad gave him a spanking for it. Though it kind of sounded more like a beating, I couldn't tell because he dragged him into another room to do it. I still feel bad even if the slap hurt.

integrale77 · Answer

Yes it had no negative affect on me psychological and worked well to deter me from acting up later.

People call it hitting but smacking is with a open hand on the fleshy part of the bottom so I see the work hitting as an excessive way to describe it.

Miristheiss · Answer

As a kid? Sure.

Mom? She just annoyed me. She bickered at me too much about what I did to upset her. Dad? He'd whoop me and have me crying. I was scared of those things. I only got 3 or 4 from him my entire life.

I think I preferred those over my mom just bickering and bickering and bickering.

Vevv123 · Answer

Never, but if my parents would have ever laid a hand on me my world would’ve fallen to pieces 🥹

Shiprex · Answer

I was as a small kid but seldom did it happen as I was generally well behaved with no real fuck ups to name. My parents and extended family as well as community were also pretty good at keeping us all in the road to being sensible

just_a_potato · Answer

Yup. I was basically a punching bag. It's what makes me such a funny vegetable today though 😉

exitseven · Answer

My father tried to spank me a d I fought it so hard that somehow he accidentally hit me in the nose and I started bleeding like crazy. Evidentify he got freaked out because he never spanked me again

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

No I was straight up whooped, spanks are a few taps, for me it was leather belt full swings 😂

slatyb · Answer

Maybe once? It's abusive. Mostly we were given time out. I just raised my child with logical consequences, not punishment.

jazzy34 · Answer

🤔🤔🤔 Once. I wrote my name in pen on a wall. I thought it could be erased. 😆

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

I was spanked once. My dad felt terrible about it and never did it again

PessicaJeter · Answer

Were you that much of a trouble maker growing up? Lol

byte03 · Answer

Yep. It wasn't anything crazy, but definitely got a smack a few times when I was little.

Anonymous · Answer

My father used to spank me a lot because I was bad a lot. He stopped when he and mother discovered i enjoyed it. I've weird daddy issues and like spanking as part of love making.

LiaRaven · Answer

Nope, not in my childhood but when I was a grown woman, it happened regularly lmao

nawtee_me · Answer

Yes I was spanked. Even in school at that time the teachers were allowed to spank the students if they were bad.

TheWombRaider · Answer

Of course share the rods spoil the child that's what's wrong with this r fucking generation today

Caughtulookin · Answer

My father made a wooden paddle specifically for that. We broke it then they used wooden spoons and we broke all those also.

Ffej85 · Answer

Yep all the time.  I have the record for most wooden spoons to break on my back side.

oswaldcobblepot · Answer

Heard my sister getting spanked. I was never spanked.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Yes and not even know what I did. I just now know that's just my dad's excuse because he's drunk. It still traumatize me

Guanfei · Answer

Yep. When I did wrong, which wasn't often. And each time I did wrong, I got punished, and never did it again.

qwerty2469 · Answer

I had knock out drag out fist fights with my single father. We were awful. I understand why he went crazy at 58.

Anonymous · Answer

Never during that period but that changed after I turned 30 lol

Abbiii · Answer

Yes I was spanked plenty of times, and still do lol

Dongie · Answer

As the youngest of five and the only boy I received their fair share of ass striping!

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes I was spanked and if you was spanked regularly and your brothers weren't. What was you doing to get spanked? Was you a bad girl?

Anonymous · Answer

Many times. I was spanked up till about 11. I think at that point my father realized he could reason with me.

Trump579 · Answer

Yes and I wish I had my parents today to thank for teaching me respect honestly honoring love loyalty And GOD

CubaPirate · Answer

You must have been a very naughty girl 👧 lol

jenna133355 · Answer

when i was younger to early teens i was

EmmaMary · Answer

Never... Not once.

Juan123 · Answer

I was spanked but not often. Only when I did really bad sh*t

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Yes, quite a bit. At school and by my parents.

AlenAHHHH · Answer

Yes, almost every day lol

queenofcardio · Answer

Yep.. happened randomly

douride2 · Answer

More times then I want to remember.

WonderingManII · Answer

Just a few times in my life.

fonduegirl · Answer

It's common in India.

Iron_Man · Answer

yes, of course 👍 discipline, good parents,

Alex-Snow · Answer

Yeah I was but I probably deserved it

BigSwingingBalls · Answer

was it bare bottom?

shortster · Answer

Until I was 10; then I just got grounded.

Staximus · Answer

Usually only when I did stupid shit

Wise4myage · Answer

Just at school, lol.

FenixG45 · Answer

I was spanked. Do you miss it?

najekim · Answer

Yup. Fast way to learn.

JohnK123 · Answer

How come they weren’t but u we’re?

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

I got the belt a few times.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Three times that I remember.

fish5505_87 · Answer

Yes, a few times, once with a belt!

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and I enjoy it as an adult,,,

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, it happened from time to time :(

Finchie40 · Answer

No , I got punched

guyinterested · Answer

rarely. being grounded was the main punishment

MasterKS · Answer

Spank in sex is most common.

eagle1951 · Answer

more times then i can count

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