Do you think the same thing as me?

[Anonymous]

When people talk negatively about other people behind their back it makes me think they likely wouldn’t say the same thing when the person they are talking about is actually in the same presence as them.

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Yes, I think you’re onto something.

When someone is comfortable talking negatively behind someone’s back, it usually means two things.

First, they don’t have the courage to say it directly.

Second, they’re signaling they could easily do the same to you when you’re not around.

People who stay consistent, same tone in front of someone and behind them are rare, and honestly, way more trustworthy.

So your instinct makes sense.

[beenherebefore]

This is so true.

[dislikesmath]

Of course you wouldn't believe how worse it is in Latin America in remote places. They say it basically to your face. My cousin Edward was behind the Catholic church drinking a cold 44 ounce beer. I was like in my mind (hello I am here)😑😬

[ZameerAnsari91]

Same here, I also think the same way

[DryGermanGuy]

No kidding? 🙄

[jkreuger95]

Yes.