What are the things the opposite gender does these days that annoys you?

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ProbablyClueless · Accepted Answer

The whole "go along to get along" thing to the point where women just straight up don't express themselves. A lot of women flat out refuse to communicate very basic things, even when asked.

We're talking real basic stuff; what she wants to do, what she thinks about something, whether she enjoys something, times to pick her up to go places. A lot of women simply don't feel comfortable speaking up, and it's super frustrating.

I understand that a certain amount of that comes from the way women are socialized. But, that excuse doesn't work when I ask for your option. I understand not wanting to express an unsolicited opinion... but one that you've been asked to express? COME ON...

Still-alive · Accepted Answer

I don't really blame women for this but i just wish we lived in a world where dudes weren't creeps or weirdos. because of that women naturally have their guard up around guys they don't know yet. so anytime i talk or meet with a new girl i gotta get over that initial hump of proving im a good dude lol. i wish we can just skip to the part where they can be cool with me and stuff.

Apulu_backagain · Accepted Answer

Sometimes boys are offended when I take my time to adjust with them, like hey, I can't just be comfortable with you from the starting but that doesn't mean I am saying that you are pervert or something, I just don't wanna take no risk.

But those who are usually offended by this turn out to be the weird ones.

And sometimes when they stare at me, i hate being stared at by anyone who ain't really close to me. Sometimes I think that I am just overthinking it and say that I am ugly to be stared at but then I look at them and still find them staring. And I just say to myself that they are zoned out because I lowkey don't wanna panic.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Some whine constantly, and nothing is ever their fault. You can see it on here every day, but calling them out doesn't change anything. They are simply hardwired to place blame on someone else, usually women.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Opposite gender? no annoyance in sight, sir.

Boys, not girls, used to rule my middle school like some mafia boss.
Boys, not girls, robbed me, here and there, as a pre-teen.
Boys, not girls, beat the shit out of a friend visiting me in the hoods during teen years.
Boys, not girls, raped several people I'm close to.

You see my point.

Miristheiss · Answer

Most women are Godless, no faith, no character or morals.

Most are degenerates, on birth control having endless promiscuous sex.

Most hate the idea of family and being moms but believe career, drinking, partying, travel, endless degrees, selfishness is a fulfilled life.

Many are endlessly posting on social media and are posting thirst traps and hosting endless men in their direct messages.

" A virtuous woman who can find".

Almost none.

Purpleronnie · Answer

For me it’s always the double standards and sometimes the level of expectation of me as a male.

I won’t name them , there is no need and they are generally quite divisive and Centre around dating expectations, parenting custody , body expectations , income expectations.

Fortunately I’m in a very good and healthy relationship with a high income and no kids so the generally the double standards generally dont appear that often but from talking too and with friends and through the eyes of nieces and nephews it’s difficult to make them value and strive for equality

ohsheeT · Answer

Well if the person annoys me then I must know that person quite well

And if I know that person quite well that means they're a friend of mine and whatever it is they're doing I would see it as funny it's too easy to be happy or find something funny in what they do or what they say

You know like does my butt make these pants look too big

I guess if anything it would be the crazy women drivers will cut you off and everybody else and they have to yell and scream out their window why do they have to be so loud why can't they just use sign language like us

integrale77 · Answer

Only thinngs that annoys me are when I have a relaxing evening planned and the girlfriend phones me up and says come over I've got some shopping to do. I turn up she says just need to go to Tesco's... 4 different shops later with a repeat visit to Asda we are finally done

HighValue · Answer

Unfairness, obsessed with social media, and many cheat so much that they don't even realize they are cheating. For example, posting provocative/revealing pictures online is the same as taking that picture and handing it to another man with her contact information on it. I also don't like that many women stay friends with others that cheat and they are often supportive of that cheating behavior.

I find most women's morals to be disgusting.

queenofcardio · Answer

Poor communication skills. Weaponized incompetence.  Passive aggressive behavior

MisterWack · Answer

I can’t think of anything.
Like genuinely.

Maybe complaining however we complain a lot too, especially since the state of the world is unfair and so terrible, it is understandable to be irritably anxious and angry I am too.

Everyone is going through it and it’s tough.

OneViewpoint · Answer

For me it's not a "These Days" thing, it's a few forever things with women's minds.

Indirect communication style.
Lack of accountability and introspective thought.
Inability to take constructive criticism.

Obviously this stuff is not a universal component of every female personality. But it's common enough that it's annoying as hell.

DonaldDarko · Answer

Just the whole needy wanting me to protect her, provide for her, tell her where we're going, what we're doing. Seems like a hollow bioreactor without much of a mind inside. I don't see myself as getting much out of a deal like this. At the bottom of it all it's just about reproduction and not much else.

Spencer10 · Answer

Women are too passive at times. They complain how tough it is to find a great guy but do nothing to go out and find a good guy. They sit around waiting for a good guy to magically come to them.

Anonymous · Answer

Wanting equality only when it’s beneficial. Still wanting men to be traditional but not being traditional theirselves, or as traditional as you can get these days. They’re strong, independent women but when it comes to hostile patients in the hospital let’s get the men to handle the patient lol blaming men for pretty much everything that goes wrong. The list goes on.

Jim_F · Answer

not a gender thing but my wife is not a good car passenger when I’m driving. She’s a back seat driver (so annoying)

AgentG111 · Answer

I'm retired I don't have that much time to type. I'm going to take a nap.

RavVid · Answer

What annoys me is how space women take up and how slowly they move through it. Particularly super market aisles. It is unconscionable.

Anonymous · Answer

The victimology of today's women is very annoying.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Generally speaking comes to mind. Individually speaking I can think of a fee things but definitely does not largely apply.

loveslongnails · Answer

They often don't answer a question straight up, or answer in some vague code that I'm expected to read and required to respond accordingly. I don't have time OR the patience for that shit.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Seemingly unable to communicate openly and without guessing games.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Why do we have to pitch the sexes against each other? People are annoying whatever their sex or gender.

Anonymous · Answer

In my crappy country women are too passive/submissive, they almost never take initiative, I don't like that... damn patriarchal upbringing - because of that, I have never been in a relationship (I'm too shy to make the first move).

AngryCarl3 · Answer

Blaming men for everything bad that happens in the world, while not giving us any credit for the good shit we do.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Being two faced, and thinking that they're owed respect just because of their gender. Respect is earned based on your character, and not something anyone else owes you because of your genitals.

MasterKS · Answer

Who have zero knowledge and experience act like smart. Funny!

DarKnight36 · Answer

Arrogance and Ego

Jeff51 · Answer

They think they can drive.

Anonymous · Answer

The fact that Women have no empathy or sympathy for Shy Guys in dating.

LC75LC71 · Answer

Nothing really different than years ago.

Anonymous · Answer

Smell bad 😂 I had to say it 🤡😋

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Being cheap...

glennos89 · Answer

Body modifications

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