What annoys you about your gender?

[Twalli]

I hate how some guys claim that they can't get girls because they're short. They day they're 5'6"-5'7". As a 5'4" person who has a girlfriend it annoys me. If someone 2-3 inches shorter than them can get a girlfriend, height is not a major issue for their inability to get a girlfriend.

[moviedude714]

I'll probably hate this until the day I die but men always having been expected to make the first move or do the asking out, be initiators when it comes to starting a relationship, also, guys, men, can be labeled or perceived as being weird, creepy, if they are awkward or interact in a wrong way with the opposite sex, the reverse isn't true though.

So for guys, men, it's a painful trial and error process to overcome or get rid of the social awkwardness learn or know how to not be creepy or weird, women can avoid that specific painful journey if they want to and still be able to have a dating life and sex life. Overall, the social blunders or social mistakes that can cause a guy to be labeled creepy or weird when interacting with the opposite sex, women can make those exact same social mistakes or blunders towards men and people in society will generally be more forgiving towards women than for men.

[Twalli]

Funny thing is that girls actually used to make the first move, but indirectly. They'd drop a handkerchief and a man would pick it up and return it to her. They'd meet up and form a connection, but it was the girl who initiated it.

[OlderAndWiser]

There are many guys who feel safer having an excuse; they can blame their problems on women and their standards. They never confront the fact that it is their lack of confidence and inexperience (and possibly other reasons) that make them unattractive to women.

[douride2]

My older little brother is only about 5' 3' . He is happily married for close to 30 years to a woman who is at least 5'6". My taller brother said it used to upset him how his little short brother would get all the girls. in my opinion height has very little to do with getting a girlfriend in most cases.

[dovendyret]

Women that hit men for "fun" or jokingly - knowing they won't hit back.

Saw that so often when I was a bartender & I wanted to walk over and slap the bitch for them every time - since them saying stop, didn't work.

[Twalli]

Hitting a guy lightly without intent to harm is okay. My girlfriend does that and I know if I tell her to stop because it hurts, she will.

[Iron_Man]

You never know when I’m gonna have to get into a bare knuckle fist fight with one of them. Probably some drunk guy coming around and it almost happened a year and a half ago I had to almost fight some bald headed guy in the parking lot at a late night McDonald’s drive-through and another bald headed guy 10 months ago at a Panera‘s restaurant but some manager broke it up over a COVID-19 mask issue

[Iron_Man]

Also there was another handyman at our work coming around that was another problem that we went face-to-face with

[Kaneki05]

Gonna assume you mean sex here. Well everything (And I know it's not very specific answer) never much liked guys there much harder to get on with than girls. It's a collection of a lot of things that do it.

[DizzyDesii]

That a majority think emotionally rather than logically. I only tend to let my emotions get the best of me when its regarding a child. But i try to think logically for the most part

[cerbipye]

sounds like you got very lucky or has something else that's super attractive

[Twalli]

Apart my personality is what every girl wants in her boyfriend

[Lliam]

I agree with you, Twalli. Excuses, excuses.