What gender do you think is the hardest to understand?

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Before you say both or none and that everything is the same and all that society brainwash bs really think about it, I genuinely think it's women lol

Hear me out, it is no secret that women can control men and it's pretty easy for them for the most part, some men even kill each other for women and a lot of women know this which to control someone, for the most part you gotta have them at least somewhat figured out, but women are for the most part unpredictable, at least for the average man like myself, of course I'm not talking about love, because love is different, it can blind and stuff, but generally speaking it's pretty easy to tell which gender is harder to understand, like if they are mad for example, if they don't tell you, you'll know they are mad but understanding is different, or how they almost never tell you how they feel unless you hurt their feelings, in that case they will spill all their feelings 😂

Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

Woman. They act like they know themselves so well when that's what they're usually running from more than anything.

Guys can be hard to read for woman because we don't display our emotions openly. We're expected to exhert an extreme amount of emotional control. I'm not complaining, I'm just stating a building block to a greater point which is men spend a lot of time dealing with their emotions alone and in silence.

We do it on the drive home from work, while we do a hobby, or watch movies. Before we go to sleep. The benefit of processing your emotions yourself is the end result is more authentic. Even if it hurts more than talking to your friends who are obligated to respond a certain way.

If I loose my temper at work and I talk to my friends, even if I was totally wrong, they'll make me feel like I was right. If I spend the whole day playing with the idea, I'll understand why I lost my temper, when I took things too far, I can build an understanding of how I want to sculpt my character as a person.

So all together I think men are easier to understand because we're more likely to have a solid understanding of ourselves, what we want and what our faults are, whereas women, not for any especially biological reason, mostly cultural, they tend to group think more which leads to blind spots and a lowered affinity for self auditing.

spartan55 · Accepted Answer

When they are mad they expect us to know why. If we don't know why then we 'don't care about them'

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

I only recently found out some interesting things that boys are taught usually by their father or other masculine men.

The 3 P's:

Protect

Provide

Procreate

But they changed procreate to something else now because a lot of people are choosing not to have children.

They are taught never cry.

Don't show what you are feeling

All kinds of things. I think that they should have classes taught in high schools because how was I ever going to find this information about men if I was never told?

It's a real shame that girls and women don't even know this about guys.

So I would have to say men are the hardest to figure out.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

I think it's actually men because of you guys stoic nature, you keep a lot of stuff back making it harder to get a grasp of you guys feelings and thoughts. Where women are easier to understand because we are expressive and will get out our emotions and feelings.

4ngelic · Answer

i think men are much harder to understand than women, but that's because i'm a woman

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Don’t try to understand women. Just love us.

michael3478 · Answer

Of course it's women they always expect the men to make the first move.

Anonymous · Answer

Cogenitor from Star Trek, it's the third gender of the alien species called Vissians, along with male and female (yes, Vissians always have threesomes) :P

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

A P. O. S. person that's who.

Anonymous · Answer

Women, obviously.

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