What is difficult to understand about the opposite gender for you?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

They seem to have a very difficult time seeing, understanding, and appreciating good traits in a man. The classic bad boy/good guy thing in a nutshell.

I think women are just as afraid of commitment, maybe more than men actually, because it requires them to take themselves off the market, forego all the male attention and the ability to weigh all of their options, to ultimately settle down with one guy, and when that one guy that has himself together in all the right ways is right there in front of her, she doesn’t know how to be, or cares to be what she has to be for him, at that moment in time.

As men, we constantly have to push to be the best we can be, at all hours of the day, and I don’t think women have as firm of a grasp on what that actually means. These girls are in their prime at like 20-26 years old, and they are doing nothing substantial to lock down the right men in that timeframe. They aren’t being who THEY have to be in order to end up in the company of a quality guy.

Like you have to dig deep and understand WHO you have to be, and BE that person for the kind of man you belong with and stop trying to get over on and tame the person you want in the moment. It’s like women are attracted to that problematic situation where they can be the savior in a troubled man’s life, and imagine having that sort of “god-complex”.

I truly don’t get it, in all my years of being aware of female nature. If you truly see yourself in a positive and healthy light, you should want quality from the get-go.

This world is just messed up. There is so much of people being drawn to the wrong things, lifestyles, personal traits. It’s become the popular thing… women are drawn to popularity, and it truly leads to them finding themselves in situations that are not favorable. For being so protective of themselves and their safety, they end up in a more dangerous crowd, pursuing these broken men, because that’s typically the so-called “life of the party.”

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

Hmm…I guess just the fascination with reality TV. The Bachelor/Bachelorette, The Real Houswives Of Wherever, Love Island….. I could never give a shit about watching someone else looking for love, or just living their lives, engaging in drama, etc.

In fairness, the level that some of fellas get into watching sports is ridiculous in its own right. I’ve definitely caused structural damage in my home before over a bunch of strangers not playing a game as well as I want them to, haha.

But I would say there’s at least an organized event based around physical feats with measurable results that we’re watching with sports. A dating competition…. we’re BARELY meeting the “competition” standard here.

The shows where you just watch people argue with each other, THAT I really don’t get. “Oh my god, so-and-so said this behind such-and-such’s back, but whozeewhats TOLD such-and-such, and such-and-such CONFRONTED so-and-so at whatshername’s dinner party, and GIIIIIRRRRRLLLLLLLL…. shit popped off!”🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️😂😂😂 I’ll never in my life get it, I’m sorry. I live my life in avoidance of people and situations JUST like that, so coming home after a day of successfully dodging it just to turn on the TV to watch others do it…. I could not be more OUT on that, haha

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

So in most of the places I go they have divided mens groups and women's groups. As an example, rehabilitation centres have a woman's hour and a men's hour. Bible studies have a men's study and a ladies bible study. I sometimes wonder why men''s social clubs have such humongous numbers in comparison to women's groups. I once heard a guy say that at guy's bible groups, they spend the entire hour telling jokes and don't even talk about religion in their social club. Curious what they do to attract 5 times as many members as the woman's bible groups.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes. Whenever he gets too excited he can be very rough and because he's so big it can hurt but in a good way, plus when we are knotted together can leave me very sore but satisfied. Then there's all the cum, he can go again and again.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Navigating the mysterious waters of the opposite gender can be like tackling a puzzle! 😄 As a relationship coach, I often hear both sides puzzled about why the other sometimes ghost instead of communicating. Many of us play the guessing game instead of just asking straight up. In the end, it's all about understanding and respecting everyone's unique approach to expressing themselves - hearts don't come with instructions, after all! 💞

ohsheeT · Answer

Nothing really each person is different each person is unique each person has their own standards their own ways and if you can understand that person on who they truly are then they're just fun to be around if they know who they are they're fun to be around if they create drama are they living drama land I would rather just keep walking on by

AviatorTom · Answer

GaG doesn't allow enough characters in an opinion to list everything that's hard to understand about women. 🤔

Saramad_Hill · Answer

I find this a really difficult question to answer. Usually I just judge people based off how they treat me. Of course, I have preconceived ideas of what to expect but generally I don't get a ton of female attention and that's fine-- I wouldn't know what to do with it anyway. If you're nice to me I'll be nice back in the best way I'm able to.

I have grievances with both men and women, particularly misandrists and misogynists. Anyone who hates on the other gender based off being burned by a handful of people and being unable to rationalize their way out of it. Bad news is much more prominent than good news and spend enough time online and you'll begin to dislike people you've never even met.

Just remember everyone's human at the end of the day, and we all grew up under different circumstances and want different things, while also wanting similar things.

So, no, there's nothing about women I don't understand, and if there is something I don't understand, I'll research it and draw my own conclusion. "Women are this, men are that..." never sits well with me, because I'm a bit of a hater for gender roles and stereotypes.

Lurix · Answer

Honestly, it's hard to understand how some women can say everything’s "fine" when it's clearly not. Like, when something’s wrong, just say it! Trying to decode the hints or the vibes is a struggle sometimes. Also, the way emotions can swing fast—one minute everything’s good, next minute you’re in trouble for something you didn’t even realize. It's like trying to read between the lines but not even knowing if there are lines to read.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I mean no disrespect to women. I have more woman friends than man friends. But the part that I have a problem with is that women tend to think with emotions. I am a person of a strong science background and I tend not to think so much with emotion.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

WHY DO GIRL'S AMD WOMEN REJECT THE HANDICAP JUST BECAUSE WERE BORN DIFFRENT DOESN'T MEAN WE CAN LOVE. PEOPLE WHO WERE BORN WITH A HANDICAP SHOULD WALKED IN OUR SHOES. I'M TRIED OF BEING REJECTED FOR LOVE JUST BECAUSE I WAS BORN WITH C. P. ON MY RIGHT SIDE. 💔

BetaBucks · Answer

How good females are capable of coordinating "girl code" type of lies and never backing down from them. Guys sell out so quick and easy. There's really only one "bro code" thing that I've not seen a single dude admitting, and I'm thankful for it tbh.

Unit1 · Answer

Nothing really. I do appreciate, that @Agape93 told me, that a lot girls & women aren't that complicated, and those that are are generally not worth it.

spartan55 · Answer

How women are almost never happy. How they can never just take the win without questioning it somehow. How accountability is a foreign concept to most of them.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing is really hard to understand about the opposite gender. They're actually quite predictable. It's the "why" that doesn't make a lot of sense.

They make one bad choice after the next. And you want to help them but they either don't want it or they'll get angry with you. So you just got to let em do what they do.👍

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I don't get how women don't understand men. We're pretty simple. Yet I see them got confused by the relationships they get into. Or the things we do.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Romance.. I don't know how to deal with men besides being friends.

RingOfFire · Answer

One of the things I find most difficult is to understand why women value emotions over logic. I find it scary. You cannot reason with them if there's something they don't like emotionally.

SunnyRS · Answer

It is more of a me problem then thier but I find it difficult to understand the hints they give or the things they want me to understand without them saying it.
I can do it and trust me I really try to.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

Why guys my age category are momma's boy at 30 disgusting

ManOnFire · Answer

Why they care so much about needing to be seen and getting attention.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

The way women will just go along with shit that they are EXTREMELY not down with just to not create conflict.

genericname85 · Answer

their decision making. but i learned it's hard for me to understand cause it doesn't make sense and they're not even understanding it themself.

bowenw · Answer

The kind of pain women endure with their monthly cycle. It must be terrible.

clampfan101 · Answer

I feel I understand women in general well enough. The challenge is all about individuality.

disappoint3d · Answer

I will never understand why women think they can analyze a person on a meaningful level or ever get to know someone by just texting them.

grega239 · Answer

I always found it weird how women will date scumbags, cry about how much of a scumbag he is and then date another scumbag. Why?

Crazzyyworld · Answer

There is nothing more to understand. All men are rapist and all women are prostitute simple as that

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know why they complain so much when they have it so easy.

Ariesman81 · Answer

Emotional communication... like what the fuck is that?

convo_king89 · Answer

Why society always give the benefit of doubt or a free pass to women for anything.

Anonymous · Answer

The victim mindset and the sense of entitlement.

CVNT5 · Answer

why do you not tell us that you like us so we can initiate the relationship?

Anonymous · Answer

Why they ignore Good Guys and prefer to date Bad Guys or Guys with Narcissistic Personalities.

Slim57 · Answer

Why so many are horrible compared to the few that are good

Anonymous · Answer

The affect hormonal changes have on their mood and mental health

ManInChains · Answer

Why they're so damn condescendingly selfish

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

As a whole gender, nothing

Lokiion · Answer

Nothing really

Fanfare690 · Answer

Men who play games

kaucky1 · Answer

I know enough to understand opposite gender

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Nothing. They are humans just like men.

zombiewoof · Answer

There is no understanding, only hope to get along

jojouzumaki · Answer

Nothing at all

noohair · Answer

Hypocrisy

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