Do you think you have good boundaries and standards?

[ChicoFromThe305]

[sage2021]

I know that I have very high standards for myself but I'm working on setting up my boundaries.

It's hard to set boundaries when I am a nice and kind person. But nowadays it's not a good thing to be nice or kind because then people consider you to be a weak person. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yes people take advantage of too much kindness, it's best to have a balance

[tiredpanda]

Standards are good, but I'm still working on my boundaries. Considering how much I used to tolerate, let slide, and how available I used to be to people, I've gotten much better lol. So I'd say my boundaries are okay, but I'd still like to improve them a bit more.

[tiredpanda]

How about you?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well something I've learned is that there's always room for improvement, that goes for pretty much anything, but yea I like to believe I have both and balanced out.

[Kvass]

Boundaries, yes. Standards, no. I need to lower them a little before I become a chronic cat lady

[ChicoFromThe305]

So you have them very high? I thought you were married? Lol

[Chazmatazz269]

Yes, but it took years for me to develop them because i wasn’t taught boundaries and standards when i was young.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well selfnamed improvement is highly respectable, sometimes more than it being taught because it shows hardship

[midnightmoon05]

Yes I do.
I am blunt so I tell it as is. That’s why some don’t like me.

[ChicoFromThe305]

You are blunt but that's a part of you lol

People just have to see more of your personality 😂

[canamlusciouslad73]

I think so. No disrespect or fat broads !!!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes, I think so.

[ChicoFromThe305]

That's what's up

[CubaPirate]

Absolutely