To what degree have you been able to control the course that your life has taken?

[Nikki1989]

[ohsheeT]

I guess it depends on what we're talking about I mean we all have a choice and there have been times where I have picked a choice chosen the choice and cause and effect comes into play like I wanted a divorce and it took me 5 years of Hell that I never seen coming and then another 5 years that I seen coming and thank God for 1 Brave individuals that didn't know anything about her decided to marry her and I thank God that happened because it all disappeared after that she even called me up told me that she was getting married and I said Yahoo congratulations she has if I wanted to talk to him I said no thank you she asked him if he wanted to talk to me he said no thank you next thing I know he was on the phone with me congratulations Mike he said thank you we talked a few minutes and then I said bro to be honest with you if I was gay I'm so f****** happy right now I would give you a blow job that's how happy I am

We both laughed really hard she got back on the phone said when he laughing about he said nothing I told her and the way she acted was his Moment In Time he could have seen exactly how she was but he decided to laugh it off because I wanted to tell him but I just went through 10 years of hell and I feel bad but I tried to tell him just with the little comment I made how bad it was they're divorced already but from that moment on she left me alone

And I would have seen no matter what we go through in life we pick a choice and we think it's going to work out good and we hope it does but sometimes there is a cause and effect to things but we do with it the best way we can and move on but everything I've asked for I think I've gotten things that I haven't asked for that I've gotten well I've learned from

[NathanDavis]

let's say... it's been a 50/50 partnership...

I'm not much of a "long term planner" because a few times many, I did plan on something and then life happened to me... lmao

so, we balance it out instead...

[ElenaLena]

I’ve always been in control fortunately.. and I won’t forget mentioning the support of my family and the people who love me and care about me..

[Paige2006]

Like they say... "Life is 50% from what you know and 50% of who you know."

[eagle1951]

not as much as i wish i had