Why can't I just beat up a bad-boy, jerk, a**hole that gets the girls? I really wish I could do it without

[Anonymous]

getting arrested, without getting into legal trouble, seriously, because I want to show the world that I am not the "Nice-Guy" that is a push-over, weak, has no spine, overall, I just want to show the world and society my anger, frustration for always getting rejected. SERIOUSLY I WOULD LOVE TO MAKE A GIRL'S BOYFRIEND SQUEAL AS I BROKE HIS f***IN' NECK!, seriously I'm so damn jealous, envious, pissed off for how the a**holes bad-boys, jerks always get the girls

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I would show them I am an Alpha Male

[Phoenix52]

I think you need an emotional tampon. For real.

The more you complain about this, the worse you are. I'm going to tell you a piece of advice that I want you to follow:

If a girl you want, goes after a bad boy you despise, let her go. Don't worry about it. There's other women to meet.

If you get rejected over and over, pick yourself up and push forward. Don't let something so small get the best of you. Otherwise, like you put it, it will land you into trouble.

You don't need drama in your life, so don't create it by beating someone up over a girl. It's WEAK. And uncivil. And you'll lose your hard-earned money to the jerk. They win.

And since you don't understand why girls go after the supposive 'bad boy' type, look up research and understand human psychology. It took me a year, and if it takes you the same, IT'S WORTH IT! You'll become a better person with this vast knowledge. For it is powerful.

I used to lose girls all the time. Now I'm in the process of dating 2-3 girls per week. I wish I could send you paragraphs, but sh*t man, I got a life to attend to.

But here's a link to help: link

[Asker]

seriously, why girls attracted to confidence so much? it really pisses me off

[TheRealAttila]

haha why wouldn't they? If you were a girl how could you prefer a jealous, complaining a**hole that doesn't believe in himself?

[Asker]

because girls do not need confidence

[Asker]

emotional tampon? your saying that I'm a girl?

[Phoenix52]

No, you sound like a cry baby.

[Asker]

a cry-baby is not afraid to fight and stand up for himself you know

[Asker]

lol keeping silent about this, yeah you don't like whiners, yeah but not all whiners are wimps you know, they stand up for themselves

[ihatetakingcharge]

you would be the Silverback Gorilla, girls would subconciously want to f*** you

[heavenonearth]

Sigh, I know plenty of guys who aren't jerks and are dating nice girls. You can sit wallowing in your jealousy and blaming everyone else for your lack of success if you think that will help anything, or you can take a serious look at yourself, make some improvements, and start actually dating girls. It's all up to you. We can give you some advice on how to turn things around if you want, but as long as you're in this angry and jealous mind-set you won't be receptive to any of it.

[Asker]

i hate how you girls are able to read body language so damn easily

[TheSkaFish]

I was this angry at the whole "bad boy" thing recently, having been made a victim of it when the girl I loved fell for a "bad boy". It makes me angry, but I'm also open to talking solutions instead of just stewing because that's a ticket to nowhere.

After getting consistently overlooked in favor of "bad boys", how should one begin the process of turning things around?

[Asker]

oh well

[udolipixie]

Why can't I just beat up a bad-boy, jerk, a**hole that gets the girls? You can if you want you'll just most likely get your a** kicked and/or arrested.

* Sidenote: all types of guys have girlfriends however being the same type doesn't mean you'll get a girlfriend.

Ex: there are artistic guys who have gfs however just because a guy is an artistic guy doesn't mean he'll get a gf.

[Asker]

are you saying that most bad-boys that get the girls are good fighters?

[udolipixie]

Not at all I'm just guessing that you are probably a worse fighter than the bad boys you're targeting.

[Asker]

lol why do you think that?

[Anonymous]

OKAY, THE UGLY TRUTH IS

women like rich, confident, good looking guys... if you are nice, then you earn extra points... if you are a bad boy a**hole, we tolerate your sh*t... :)

I guess you don't fit the description I said above. Do you?

Anyways, to TRY to kick a badboy's ass won't make you more earn any points.

[Asker]

why is kicking someones ass wrong?

[TheRealAttila]

You sound like you need serious help bro. You're even worse than the guys whose asses you want to kick! You want to be an a**hole, but you lack all the positive qualities that come with being one! If you want to show the world you're not a nice guy (which is a fantastic thing to be so I'm kinda confused), then do it. But as a side note, pretty much all girls want a nice guy, they just don't want a p**** (you, complaining as of now). What do you expect someone to come down and endow you with unbreakable confidence? Please, it's built over a lifetime, at least they're starting somewhere. You can't cheat the system.

Most of the guys you think are a**holes probably aren't at all either, you're just slapping the label of jerk on anyone that gets a girl cause you can't. Grow up and start taking some goddamn responsibility for yourself and your personality.

[Asker]

how is me complaining and willing to fight show that I am a p****? p****** back down from a fight

[Phoenix52]

good comment Attila

[Asker]

ummmmmm yes they are, even girls call them that

[Asker]

i can show girls that I have balls kicking a guy's ass, that shows strength

[TheRealAttila]

Physically? Maybe. Mentally? Shows complete weakness. We all know which one women are more attracted to.

[Asker]

yeah that pisses me off, if women want to feel protected, the only way you can protect someone is with physical strength, not mental strength

[TheRealAttila]

Well it makes sense in context. We live in a society these days where people are far more likely to face mental struggles as opposed to physical ones. If you're unlucky you might have to physically fight someone once or twice in your life, but you'll have to battle emotional anguish multiple times EVERY day, making it the far greater threat that women need to know you can stand up against.

[Asker]

we human males used to fight other human males back when we were living in caves you know, we should bring that back

[TheRealAttila]

Hey man you can always sell your possessions, move to rural Zimbabwe and go for it.

[shacodraco]

you looking to get your ass kicked loser? joking but that sounds stupid because girls don't care if you can beat up every other guy in the world. they just want someone who is FUN and makes them laugh. that's all really.

[Asker]

why would I get my ass kicked?

[shacodraco]

theres always someone out there that can kick your ass. and don't ever forget that. but as I said, forget this ass kicking nonsense and try to be more FUN around girls.

[Asker]

true, but it will show them I have the balls to take hits, that it is better to die with honor than to live with shame and misery

[shacodraco]

Truee but there's no need to die at all. Why would you need to kill/die to impress a girl? If anything that wil drive her away. Now if it comes to defending yoir girl...thats a different story

[Asker]

seriously, girls can be boring, have no sense of humor and still get a guy, but us guys have to have a sense of humor, be fun in order to be boyfriend material

[dudeman]

You know I observe people and to be honest I think women would go for it like women like apperances but results better, they fall for the metro sexual badass with tattoos and funny hair because I guess it makes them look tough but I doubt they will be attracted to them after they are expossed for the fraud they are

[Asker]

yeah I wish we humans can fight like animals

[Anonymous]

You say you hate bad-boy a**holes and jerks. But that's exactly what you sound like.

You come to this site all the time, ranting and raging and desperate to beat someone up as if that will prove your masculinity and win you girls. And the girls keep telling you it won't, but you never listen. You're obsessed with this idea of the "alpha male" and you still have zero understanding of how that applies to humans. Watched too many Discovery channel documentaries, perhaps.

You have serious problems. Serious mental problems. I've said before, I think your fantasies of domination of men don't even seem to have a female component in them anymore. I think you and your therapist should examine that closely.

[Asker]

well that's what happens when you have been single for a long time

[Opinion Owner]

Fair enough. But there are plenty of guys on here who have been single for a long time and haven't turned into people like you. I think your case has to be different. There's something you're not telling us.

I suspect that your obsession with physical violence, means that you were bullied or intimidated previously. And your focusing your rage on the person you used to be (afraid). You might have spent ages in the gym bulking up, but it hasn't helped you score. And your now your rage is (TBC)

[Opinion Owner]

focused on the sort of guy who used to intimidate you.

You can either focus on getting revenge, and completely destroying the image of the "old" you, that you still carry around with you. Or you can put all of that behind you, and actually listen to people on this site who want to help you.

The solutions to getting girls, are much simpler than most guys think. So simple in fact, that they have a hard time believing it. But we're willing to help you through it, if you want us to.

[Asker]

yeah well guys have to work on themselves more than girls do in order to be boyfriend material

[Opinion Owner]

I disagree, but that;s okay. You just need to make sure you're working on the right things. And right now, you seem to be overly concerned with working on the wrong things.

[Asker]

disagree that guys have to work on themselves more?

[Asker]

well male animals fight

[Opinion Owner]

We are human beings you foolish idiot not animals. If you are no better than an animal then sleep with animals. Human females want nothing to do with you.

[Asker]

ummmm we humans used to fight each other a lot back when we were living in caves, so you saying we are human beings is not valid.

[Opinion Owner]

Go back to your cave then, and stop using the internet. You can't have it both ways.

Either you're a part of the civilised human race, or you're an animal. You want to be an animal? Go find a farm somewhere, where they will happily let you rut with the other animals.

[TheSkaFish]

"The solutions to getting girls, are much simpler than most guys think. So simple in fact, that they have a hard time believing it. But we're willing to help you through it, if you want us to."

What is the simple solution?

[TheSkaFish]

I'm pretty angry at "bad boys" myself but I'm all ears for a solution.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't be an asshole, be an interesting funny guy, work on your flirting skills and don't expect to date supermodels if you're not a supermodel yourself. Simple. The rest is a numbers game. Approach a lot of women, expect a low to moderate success rate and don't get stymied by rejection.

[snowangle]

Yeah that'll get them attracted to you. Girls love aggression in men. -_-

[Asker]

yeah I would rather be aggressive physically than with my words, mouth

[Anonymous]

Go after ugly girls with low confidence. They won't reject you. There must be something wrong with you if all girls are rejecting you though. Are you fat? Smell bad? Dress like a slob? Have disgusting teeth? Boring personality? Boring life? etc

[Asker]

more boring life and boring personaliy, and what I hate, I am jealous of is that girls can have a boring life, boring personality and still get a boyfriend

[l-hedoniste]

"I would show them I am an Alpha Male"

You would show them that you're a psychopath with anger issues--not sexy.

[Asker]

why? I wish we humans could fight like male animals do

[Anonymous]

Well clearly you are not a "nice guy" judging your attitude. It's very unattractive an no wonder girls don't want you.

[Asker]

even guys with my attitude, or simpy a nice guy still finish last

[moviedude714]

i feel like doing that as well

[socalgamehater2006]

go for it