Do guys feel uncomfortable around girls that like them when they don't like her back?

[Anonymous]

Let's say a shy girl has a little crush on you. You don't know for sure, but you think she does. You don't like her back though. She isn't too out there with you or anything; she usually just says hi if she sees you and makes small talk with you. She mainly shows her interest in you by holding eye contact with you. She does this pretty rarely and she doesn't stare you down or anything. She doesn't have a rep for being a creep/weirdo or anything. Most people think she is a nice and innocent type of person. Would you be really nervous and uncomfortable around her? I mean if she is just around you, not even necessarily trying to talk to you.

[sam13952]

if I really like her a lot I might act a little weird the first couple of times unless she is a type of person that I can competely be myself with. witch a lot of girls I'm OK with. until I start getting weird vibes like I'm doing things wrong or she just isn't that into me. or when she starts to judge me to much.

[sfauo]

I certainly wouldn't feel nervous. Uncomfortable, not really either, only if a girl would come on too strong.

[RationalNAC]

I don't feel uncomfortable. Not even when they talk to me. The only time I feel uncomfortable is when they drop obvious hints that they like me. Mainly because it's as if she's trying to get me to say something back.

[Anonymous]

When I know a girl likes me but I'm not interested in her it is uncomfortable especially if you were kind of friends before. it's hard to let her down. But dropping the girlfriends name is the easiest way to let her down.

[Asker]

i understand how it could be a little awkward, but do you think a guy would freak out and get super nervous when she's around because of the situation?

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't say nervous more uncomfortable. I think guys get nervous around girls they like not girls they don't like. But its uncomfortable not nervous when she likes you but you don't feel the same way.

but then again the situation I'm thinking of is when you know her or you're friends with her which doesn't sound like what you're describing.

[Asker]

not really. in my situation I'm talking about a guy and a girl who don't know each other too well. from your point of view, how do you think a guy acts when he's nervous vs when he's uncomfortable?

[Opinion Owner]

I can't think of any outward signs that would giveaway nervousness for me personally (maybe I'm good at hiding it). If I felt uncomfortable though I'd avoid eye contact and if I caught her looking at me I'd look away and try to avoid looking at her.

[Asker]

the guy I'm thinking of does a bunch of weird things lol. if I'm around him, sometimes he'll stutter and his voice will get quiet. sometimes he will shuffle his feet around, avoid eye contact with me when I'm talking to him by literally looking the other way, turn away when I look at him, pretend not to see me, look down at the floor, tries to leave the situation asap when he sees I'm there, etc. I can't tell if he's good nervous or just bad uncomfortable lol

[Opinion Owner]

the stutter, quite voice and feet shuffling sounds like nervous. You could go either way with all the looking away stuff though. could be nervous, could be uncomfortable. hard to tell without seeing it first hand. But either way go for it. make him yours. or are you waiting for him to make a move?

[Asker]

i feel like it could be both too which is why I'm so confused. he just seems to freak out when I'm there in general. I try to approach him, but it isn't easy when someone almost runs away from you lol. he does other stuff too- sometimes he looks in my eyes and face for what feels like a long time.i do little things like wish him a happy birthday, say hi, smile and wave, etc. he isn't really approaching me though so I don't know if he is just not interested or if he is too shy to