Guys, If you like a girl, do you constantly let her borrow books, CD's, DVD's from your own collection?

[Anonymous]

Do you like it when she lends you stuff too? Is it a way of knowing you'll have to see her/talk to her because she's got something of yours?

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+1 y

He's actually one of those people who doesn't loan stuff normally. I'm just trying to figure him out at the moment. Thanks for your answers so far guys :)

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

I loan a lot of my stuff out to people. Especially when that stuff is awesome and I think it needs to be seen, heard, or read. However, I don't lend it to just anyone. Either I lend it because I trust them, or I've given a stern warning on the condition of my stuff. Either way, sharing interests doesn't mean I like someone. Though if I like someone I will likely share interests, otherwise, I don't see it lasting very long. I guess the bottom line is, while this isn't a sign he likes you, it is a good sign that if you did date, you'd have enough even ground to have a foundation for your relationship.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

At bare minimum, it means he trusts you with his stuff. He might like you. What if he did like you? What would you do about it?

[MrOracle]

I don't loan those things very often, because I learned early on that most people don't respect your stuff, and a lot of it tends to disappear. I'm happy to make or buy copies, but I rarely loan my originals. Girls do tend to borrow my clothes (mostly shirts, occasionally a jacket), and I guess I'm less attached to those so I don't mind as much; they're easier to replace.

I see my girl because I *want* to see my girl, and she wants to see me. I don't do it because I have her stuff or she has mine. I see her as often as I can, because that's what I WANT to do.

[LimeAndLight]

My sister's ex usually loaned us games, and other stuff, he still does.

[Keenway93]

it depends. how is that guy in generaly? if he is doing that to everyone than its no big deal if he his doing that only to you then be might like you:)

[JackKerouac77]

Most of that stuff I have digital copies of anyways, so I'd loan it out

[danelectro]

If i liked her then yes, because the way i look at it, is a cd or book can be replaced and a good woman can't be replaced. and i would want to see her even if she didn't have anything of mine.

[ThatBritishLad]

First comes the issue that I don't let people borrow my things. Second comes the issue that I don't like girls :P (Incidentally, not gay >:O)