Most Helpful Guy
I don't loan those things very often, because I learned early on that most people don't respect your stuff, and a lot of it tends to disappear. I'm happy to make or buy copies, but I rarely loan my originals. Girls do tend to borrow my clothes (mostly shirts, occasionally a jacket), and I guess I'm less attached to those so I don't mind as much; they're easier to replace.
I see my girl because I *want* to see my girl, and she wants to see me. I don't do it because I have her stuff or she has mine. I see her as often as I can, because that's what I WANT to do.