so me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for one year. he's 26 I'm 21. And we are engaged too. we say 'i love you' to one another. he's never been overly sweet. if I say I miss you then he'll say it back and if I ask him stuff like "are you happy or do you think you're lucky" he'll answer yes. occasionally he says I look pretty, etc. but that's it. he never tells me he loves spending time with me or that he loves my eyes/smile/etc. I wonder sometimes, it's because I'm not his first love. And I feel like he must have done sweet things for his first love :( he DOES treat me well. he takes me out, if there's a problem in the relationship he'll talk to me about it but verbally it seems like I mean nothing to him and its really frustrating because I'm a VERY verbal person. I like sweet talking.
I've talked too him about this before and he says that he does do sweet. But I know that he doesn't. so I'm worried that he may not even feel those sweet things towards me. Even if I do sweet stuff for him, he doesn't feel them mostly. I get so hurt :(
what do you think? please let me know.
I've talked too him about this before and he says that he does do sweet. But I know that he doesn't. so I'm worried that he may not even feel those sweet things towards me. Even if I do sweet stuff for him, he doesn't feel them mostly. I get so hurt :(
what do you think? please let me know.
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Yeah I wanna correct it as Fiance. Sorry about referring him as boyfriend. It's just something I like to use. Because he's my first love, and we got engaged somewhat quickly.
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Okay. Should I keep on doing and saying sweet stuff for him, even if he doesn't do? Would it be a botheration for him?
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When I send him some nice sweet lovely text message, the reply I get is just ":P"
And I immediately get goosebumps, chest pain and tears.
And I immediately get goosebumps, chest pain and tears.
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